Chapter 214 Don't be sad, look forward
Perhaps because of the comparison between the two sisters in her mansion, Xia Ting felt a little undetectable loss now when she saw Ding Lianrong like this.
However, she covered up very well. Ding Lianrong was not in her mind and was always thinking about her fiancé outside, so she didn't notice it.
Ding Yanrong also said that this lantern is good and that lantern is wonderful. This one was chosen by her, so it must be the best. The one was chosen by her sister, so it was not very beautiful.
Because there were still people waiting outside, the two sisters did not stay for too long.
Xia Ting smiled and sent the two people away. There were guests outside, so it was not very good to avoid seeing each other. So after putting on the wall, Xia Ting politely met the young master of the Wei family.
The Wei family came from two young men and one girl. The eldest son of the Wei family was Ding Lianrong's fiancé, two years older than Ding Lianrong. The second son was the same age as Ding Lianrong. The girl was younger and one year younger than Ding Yanrong.
The little girl looks very likable and laughs when she sees people. It is easier for her two slightly dull brothers to feel good about her.
My father said before that the eldest son of the Wei family probably read too much, which was quite pedantic.
Now that we really met, Xia Ting still observed carefully. Because there were layers of curtains, Xia Ting was not afraid that he would be discovered by secretly observing him again. As long as his eyes were not too hot, the other party would not notice it at all.
The eldest son of the Wei family is still quite Zhou Zheng. Compared with the three young men in the Ding family, the eldest son of the Wei family is only considered Zhou Zheng, and his behavior is very regular.
However, compared to Ding Kai's rules, the rules of the eldest son of the Wei family are a bit rigid or rigid.
Maybe it is because of this reason that my father would feel that he would read too much of the other person's books and be a bit pedantic.
But this is just the first impression, and I don’t know what to say. Besides, I’m just a little pedantic, which is actually quite OK. Look at Ding Lianrong should be very satisfied with her fiancé, otherwise she wouldn’t look absent-minded when she was in the house just now.
So, this small disadvantage should not affect anything, right?
Xia Ting thought uncertainly.
The two parties politely greeted for a while, because Xia Ting wanted to sit here and watch for a while, but the little girl from the Wei family was already sleepy and wanted to go back to rest, so the other party politely said goodbye.
After seeing Ding Lianrong and the others off, Xia Ting also returned home with his father in a carriage.
While sitting in the carriage, Master Xia Si changed Xia Ting to a warmer hand stove and asked in a gentle voice: "Is it because Er Niang is about to get married, and she feels a little distant in her sisterhood and feels sad?"
Mr. Xia Si was paying attention to his daughter. After he found that her daughter was not very interested, he observed it secretly and thought carefully about what was the reason that made Xia Ting unhappy.
After careful analysis, Mr. Xia Si guessed that this might be the reason.
After all, when she was in the capital, before Xia Ting's two sisters got married, Xia Ting had such a slightly lonely expression.
"Dad." Xia Ting was a little angry when he saw through his thoughts, but it was difficult to stomp his feet in the carriage, otherwise Xia Ting would feel that he would stomp his feet in shame.
Seeing Xia Ting's face with a slight redness, she was obviously a little embarrassed, and her voice was a bit annoyed and acted coquettish. Master Xia knew it and seemed that he had guessed it right.
He raised his hand and gently touched Xia Ting's head. The Fourth Master Xia's voice slowed down and calmed down. The low and heavy voice calmed Xia Ting's originally uneasy and messy mood.
"Listen, you have to learn to be more open-minded. These things are inevitable in the future. Whether it is Yuan Niang, Er Niang, San Niang, who has already settled the marriage, or Si Niang who is preparing to see each other, they will one day marry and have children and start another new life. They will have husbands, children, things they care more about, and those they care about will have a new life that will never intersect with you again."
"This is not someone's fault, it is just the established trajectory of everyone. Just like you will have your own husband and children in the future, and you will gradually get further away from other sisters. It is not that your relationship is no longer close, but that you have more important people and closer people, so in comparison, they seem not that important and will not always be so close."
"Listen and learn to be open, let go, and then embrace your new life. In our lives, there are always people who appear and leave, the old people leave, the new people come, and sometimes, the old people come back, and the new people leave. This is normal. Only by learning to be open and look down, can you live your life in a calm and detailed manner."
"Listen, except yourself, no one can accompany you through this complete life. Parents cannot, children cannot, and even those by the pillow. We must get used to the faces that are always changing around us, and also to the occasional loneliness that only one can understand. Of course, if you learn to enjoy such loneliness, then your mood will be different at that time."
At the end, Master Xia Si raised his hand and pointed Xia Ting's forehead, and his voice became softer and softer, and then said: "Listen, Dad doesn't want you to have too many worries, he just wants you to have joy and worry-free life, so some people and some things, just take it lightly and let go. No one is more important than yourself."
My father's hands were too soft and his voice was low and soft, which made Xia Ting confused.
His father suddenly lit his forehead, and Xia Ting's originally chaotic thoughts suddenly became clear.
In fact, she was just because Ding Lianrong was busy waiting for marriage, so she became distant from herself. Ding Yanrong had recently learned the rules and distanced herself from her, and she felt a little uncomfortable in her heart.
Now that I was enlightened by my father, the original sorrow in my heart quickly turned into fireworks. After burning, only a thin floor was left with a thin ashes. When the wind blew, it scattered around and could never be seen again.
"I understand, dad." Xia Ting sometimes feels too cold and cruel because she sees it too clearly and lives too clearly.
However, there was always a softness hidden in her heart, which appeared when she couldn't tell whether it was appropriate or inappropriate, which offset her awakening and made her feel in a daze that she was not so ruthless.
At least, she really carries out the relationship between her sisters with her heart, and she really cares about them.
But my father was right, the sisters will have their own brand new life in the future, and she will be the same.
Chapter completed!