Chapter 4 The Three Swords of Heaven and Earth(2/2)
Could it be that the girl took the initiative to say hello to him because she saw the lines on his face and thought that Fengyinglou had already started to say hello to her?!
Fengyinglou suddenly stood there, because it was at this time that what Zhou Linlan once said appeared so clearly in his mind...
"The strong change the environment, the weak adapt to the environment, and the eliminated do not adapt to the environment!"
"Strive to be the host, not the guest!"
Hai Qingwu regarded herself as a strong person, and even more so as a master, so when she was doing morning exercises, she saw everyone smiling at them with the enthusiasm of a master, so it was only a short period of fifteen days.
After meeting each other for fifteen times, she won everyone's favor. She could even sit at the eldest sister's stall and eat tofu pudding without bringing any money.
As for his Fengying Tower, if he hadn't followed Hai Qingwu, he would probably have lived here for another year and participated in morning exercises every day, and no one would have raised a smile to him. If he didn't have money in his pocket, certainly not
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"You understand?"
The person who asked this question was, of course, Hai Qingwu who had already run around and came towards him.
Fengyinglou nodded quietly.
"Do you know where you are compared to Chen Xingxing?"
Hai Qingwu could bear it. It was not until this moment that she said what she had always wanted to say to Feng Yinglou, who had already realized something on his face and had begun to reflect on himself.
"Chen Xingxing's personal ability is not strong. His individual combat effectiveness is not as strong as that of the Dragon King. His strategy is not as strong as Li Fan's. Compared with you, his current comprehensive ability is even more difficult to match. But he is strong in that, facing
If he wants to be a friend, he can do his best to make friends and make the other person
Feel your sincerity and enthusiasm until the other party is willing to accept him. This quality is what we often call personal charm. People who can transform this ability into combat effectiveness are elites with leadership qualities. As for Chen Xingxing,
They belong to this kind of elite with leadership qualities."
Hai Qingwu looked at Fengyinglou's face and said leisurely: "If you look at history, who can really achieve great things, who is not a person with strong leadership charisma? Take your favorite hero of the Three Kingdoms as an example, Cao Cao is fighting
During the Battle of Guandu, when he heard that Yuan Shao's counselor Xu You was coming to surrender, he rushed out without even wearing his shoes.
This is what makes him outstanding, and it is proof of his sincerity in hospitality. When Liu Bei asked Zhuge Liang to come out of the mountain, he not only looked at the thatched cottage three times, but also burst into tears while lying on his knees with Zhuge Liang for a long talk. Although in my opinion,
This kind of crying is just like a cat crying or a mouse showing off, but he used this cry to cry out the world."
Feng Yinglou nodded subconsciously, but Hai Qingwu's words behind him made him completely stunned, "Now, let's try putting your own current personality into it. If you are asked to stand in Cao Cao's position, or stand in Cao Cao's position,
In Liu Bei's position, what would happen to you?"
"Well……"
After thinking about it for a long time, Feng Yinglou replied a little discouraged: "If I were Cao Cao, let alone Xu You, probably not even Xia Houdun would mess with me. As for me being Liu Bei, I would probably go to invite Zhuge Liang."
The last two times, if I found out that he was avoiding me on purpose, I would not go there again."
"So..." Hai Qingwu said this, her pupils were slightly condensed together, "I want you to think about why the relationship between you and the rest of the class has become so bad. During the make-up exam,
It became a one-forty-one relationship."
Half a month ago, Fengyinglou would have immediately replied, "Because they don't like me." But at this time, faced with this question, Fengyinglou was silent. Because he clearly understood that if Hai Qing was allowed to
Wu stood in the same position, but her final outcome was definitely not like this.
What Fengyinglou is thinking about now is why they find Hai Qingwu pleasing to their eyes, but not themselves! You know, there is a law that is simply the truth: poor people must be hateful.
When his thoughts were pushed back step by step by his master, Fengyinglou finally remembered that just after entering the school, almost all the classmates in the class, including Chen Xingxing and Long Wang, had shown him smiles trying to get close.
, but he was too shy at the time, and he was too busy learning various techniques from several instructors, so he could only use a passive escape attitude to face everyone's enthusiasm for him.
Could it be that the whole class joined together to reject him because they had extended an olive branch of friendship to him, but he failed to grasp it?
However, even if they can't become friends, everyone won't join forces to exclude him, right?
Hai Qingwu had already seen the doubts in Feng Yinglou's heart, and she said calmly: "Because you are a seed student, because you are an elite that almost all the heavyweight instructors in the school look upon. While you are enjoying the glory and convenience brought by these halos,
, you must also bear the pressure and relative unfairness it brings."
Fengyinglou is listening, he is listening carefully.
"To use a simple analogy, a man finds a lover. In everyone's opinion, this is commonplace and not worth making a fuss about. Once the incident comes to light, some people will even excuse the man and say something like, 'A man is just a man.
It’s easy to get distracted, just go out and have fun, just remember to keep your mind at ease, and so on. But if the person who made the mistake is a high-ranking official in an important position, or a superstar, what they have to face will definitely be the most violent.
Kill with words and words!"
At this point, Hai Qingwu made a final summary of her words: "So, after becoming a strong person in the eyes of others, you should be more careful and avoid making mistakes. Because once you make a mistake, the strong person will face the punishment
, will be heavier than anyone else, and if you want to get up, the road you have to go through will be longer! If you have made a mistake, you still don’t know how to repent, and you still make the same mistake again and again, you may never be able to look back!”
Feng Yinglou couldn't help but reached out and caressed his face. Only then did he understand why Mo Tian slapped him so hard in public.
That day, Mo Tian was really anxious.
When a person is rejected by a group, the first thing he should do is to find the reason for his rejection, and then find ways to improve the situation, and even become the core of everyone's respect. Instead of standing against everyone with the mentality of "I am like this"
, and even tit-for-tat confrontation.
You know, when a person stands on the opposite side of the collective, no matter how strong his personal ability is, he is destined to become a loser.
"Sister Haiqingwu, what should I do?"
Hearing Fengyinglou's words, Hai Qingwu smiled. When Fengyinglou asked this question, she knew that even if she really walked out of the fifth special force and left her most beloved motherland, she was willing to dedicate everything to her.
Mother, she will also smile and feel relieved for Fengyinglou's choice.
"Be a strong person!"
Hai Qingwu grabbed Fengyinglou's hand and asked him to clench it into a fist, then guided Fengyinglou to put his right fist on his chest, "Be a real strong man, a strong man that everyone can recognize! A single person
Chapter completed!