01 Liu Fan: Peaceful and calm mentality (2009-02-11    23:23:10)

I just washed my clothes, but my brother didn't like washing them because I always had to clean them many times after washing them. I always felt that I hadn't cleaned them yet and didn't have that much patience to wash them. Haha, my brother washed the clothes and the baby cleaned them.

There are always small conflicts when the baby is coming. When something happens, you have to think about it. This is the habit of my brother for many years. I don’t want to make any mistakes I have made again. Now I haven’t figured out how my brother should coax the baby when the baby is making trouble. I am still in the fumble stage. My brother will definitely find out. Well, I will definitely.

You should be calm in your mind. No matter what you have done, what you have done for the other party, or what you have suffered, you should all hint that you are not doing it for the other party. When doing it, you will be happy and happy. This is the best reward.

Love, deep, without reservation, without regrets.

No matter what you do, you don’t regret it, because if you love it, why bother to care about it?

My brother has a much better attitude, be filial to his parents, be kind to his baby, be kind to his parents, be the responsibility of being a son, be the responsibility of being a baby man, and learn to be responsible.

02 Yan Ling: Reflection (2009-02-11    23:47:39)

It seems that today the baby has to constantly reflect on the arrival of tomorrow.

The moment the power is out, it feels helpless, the dark room.

Compared with the past, my current mood is another kind of thing. Reflect and continue to reflect.

Still with tiredness and a faint pain in my lower abdomen, I still can't resist the scent of my heart. I reflect on this word that I could throw at my brother without thinking.

Start with the trouble.

During the period like this, I felt that I had to follow me, coax me, and accommodate me, so I became extremely arrogant, but I forgot to be gentle.

Now that I think of my father, I feel moved and tears filled my eyes. How tolerate that, maybe, the princess of the willful father who used to be really grown up.

Now when I think of my brother, I feel that I am too much.

For you and for you, I am willing to do it for you. However, I don’t want to throw the responsibility to my brother and then give all the grievances to myself.

I carefully gathered around a pot of porridge for two hours this morning. When you say something delicious, the instant happiness filled the hungry baby. I forgot the busyness and complex mood in the morning, because you ate all kinds of thoughts that you had when you cook porridge. I simply told you that such a complex mood is full of love for your brother.

The reflection was almost done. The first time I reflected, it disappeared forever with the power outage, and it was not allowed to see it, but it had already flowed through the baby's heart.

Love for your brother and dedication to your brother, willingly.

After listening to some of the things my brother said tonight, I made a wish here.

I actually have to take care of this wish myself.

It seems that reflection is really useful, and I have never been sober.

Brother, it’s time to go to bed. Whether it’s useful or not, you have to say it until you get annoyed.

03     Liu Fan: A man’s woman (2009-02-12    22:40:29)

When I was thinking about whether it would happen, I considered that my baby would be uneven.

The little girl a man loves becomes his woman, and he will only love her more.

I am a person who needs the meaning of life, which means I need to have a reason to struggle. For me, the requirements are very simple. Just like what I told my baby, even if I go to work hard by the Huangpu River to make money, I can still be very happy. I can drink some beer when it gets dark and be simple and happy.

I have to pursue it very early and every moment. The reason why I have not fallen in the difficult years of childhood is that I have future life goals that are inspiring and inspiring, and I have been pursuing my goals, the women I want, and the families I want.

Until now, I have found the woman I want, and I have also found the woman who wants to live the life I want with me. This woman is you, and the only thing I want is to cherish.

With a tired heart, I want to live a stable life and work hard for my dreams, I will never give up my dreams, and there is no way to continue a life without my dreams.

I cannot tolerate my studies and career slump, and I want my parents to be happy, my babies to be happy, my father-in-law and mother-in-law to be happy, so that I will be happy. This is the meaning of my future survival.

Babies should remember what you said, no matter what, as long as you don’t care, others will not care, but will only respect it.

If you care, why do you want others to ignore it? This is the motto that my brother used to motivate himself when he overcomes his heart.

Baby, be a smart woman, brother’s smart woman, brother is also a smart man.

04     Liu Fan: Setbacks to Life (2009-02-12    22:50:24)

There was a time when I decided to overcome any fear in my heart, so I took the initiative to do whatever I was afraid of. The more I was afraid, the more I did it, the more disgusting it, the more I did it. In the end, I really overcame a lot, and my self-confidence expanded unprecedentedly. I felt that I had found a solution to the problem and no longer feared anything.

But later, I was a little arrogant and felt fearless in everything, which led to accumulating a lot of fear in my heart. I always wanted to live a stable life, but something always happened, which led to a distracted and a bad mentality. Fortunately, the calm character I had trained in the past did not let myself collapse.

I must start the process from now on and say to myself that I am not afraid of anything. If I encounter any problems, I must first smile, and then silently tell myself that the opportunity has come and I can change myself. I must be able to use subconscious self-suggestion and suggest myself a few times, so that I can have the motivation to do it and overcome it excitedly.

Be good at convinced yourself and learn to control your mood.

For example, if a roommate snores, it is great to think like this. It can enhance your adaptability. Before, the adaptability was too poor and it was easy to be disturbed and unable to sleep. This is a good opportunity. You must learn to face a complex living environment. As the saying goes, when you can enjoy it, you must try your best to enjoy it and make yourself most comfortable.

You need to bear it. When facing it, you are all cowards. It is better to experience things early than late. Don’t leave troubles and ignorance to your middle age, because when you are young, you are fearless and take advantage of the opportunities to see how to solve problems. You should summarize the experience you have overcome each time and amplify your mentality of success.

For example, interpersonal relationships in the laboratory lay the foundation for the future relationship between colleagues in the company, how to be valued, how to handle various relationships well, and make good use of such opportunities, you must have a good mental state.

Remember the order: smile first, then suggest yourself 5 times, tell yourself that it is a good opportunity, then think about how to overcome it, solve it, summarize successful experiences, and then smile in the mirror.

Perhaps the comfortable and lazy life has made me slack off. Haha, what a good opportunity to change myself at present. If life cannot be changed, you have to change your mentality when facing it.
Chapter completed!