Chapter 799
"Jingjing, that Wang Yingming is really not worthy of you. Think about it, you are a graduate of Tsinghua University and now you work in the National History Museum and a state cadre who eats imperial grain. What about him? What is he? He is just a broken chef who can't get on the table. If he is like this, he doesn't deserve to carry shoes for you, so how can he marry you?"
In a exhibition hall of the National History Museum, Xiaojing's mother Xiu Hongmei stood opposite Xiaojing and persuaded her with great thought.
Since Xiaojing's grandmother passed away, Xiu Hongmei has started to interact with Xiaojing.
At the beginning, Xiaojing was not willing to interact with her, but later she saw that her mother really cared about her and never asked her for this or that when she interacted with her, and even often made delicious food to her.
Gradually, she began to accept her mother.
After all, my mother had no choice but to leave her. Even if her mother didn't interact with her much over the years, it was because her grandmother looked down on her mother and was not allowed to interact with her.
Now, grandma is gone, and no one is stopping her from interacting with her mother. So, after her mother tried to show her goodwill for a while, Xiaojing put down her grudges and walked with her mother.
Since the two women had a relationship, the chaos could not be hidden from Ms. Xiu Hongmei.
After learning that his daughter who graduated from Tsinghua University actually found a man from the Northeast countryside. The man had no job and had a blank copy and had no cultural water in his stomach, he almost collapsed. His head was like a rattle, opposing Xiaojing's relationship with the chaos.
However, Xiao Jing has long recognized the chaos. Based on what her mother said, Xiao Jing is unshakable.
Xiu Hongmei was as stubborn as Xiaojing. When she saw that her daughter didn't listen to him, she kept persuading her every day, and even blocked the unit to persuade her, and she was very stunning to stop until she achieved her goal.
Look, as soon as Xiaojing started working today, her mother came again and started talking and persuading again.
"Jingjing, mom knows that you met him at the most difficult time, and knows that he has helped you a lot, but there are many ways to be grateful to someone for repaying him. There is no need to agree to him? Marriage is a lifelong thing. If you really find such a person, you will not be able to transfer him to cry in the future..."
Xiaojing's ears were almost calloused when she heard these words from her mother. When her mother finished speaking, she said it seriously.
"Mom, I didn't really look for Yingming to repay my kindness. He is sincerely good to me, and I really love him. Love is not a high or low point. As long as two people truly love each other."
"How can that be done? If you just have a relationship, you can't be in a bad relationship, but if you really get married, and get along day and night in the future, you will know how painful it will be to live together after growing up two people in different environments. Isn't mom the best example?"
"I saw that he was honest and kind, and had a good background. I thought that even if I had no common language or shared hobbies, I could still live a life. However, after living together, my mother knew how outrageous my mother was. How uneducated the people who had not received much education were, so I didn't want to mention them anymore. I didn't want to calculate the countless minor problems and shortcomings in his daily life. It was just his serious small peasant thoughts and complacent personality that would be enough to torture my mother to be unlucky. Really, if it weren't for the sake of you and your younger brothers and sisters, I wouldn't want to live again..."
After her husband jumped into the river and committed suicide, she remarried to a worker from a thermos factory. When someone introduced her, she thought that the workers were honest, honest, and honest. After marrying her, she realized how stupid and innocent she was.
Her husband does seem honest and honest on the surface, but in fact he is full of macho thoughts, thinking that women should listen to men, and it is natural for women to take care of men at home.
Therefore, the same is true for my higher education wife.
Ms. Xiu Hongmei is a university teacher and her mind is full of new ideas. How could she stand such a request from her husband?
When the two people's ideas conflicted, her husband actually beat her up with the advantages of the man's physical strength...
Ms. Xiu Hongmei was so angry that Xiaojing's father had always been respectful to him. The two were very loving. When she was looking for the worker's husband, she didn't expect him to be as informed and tactful as her ex-husband, but at least she could treat her well, love her, and take care of her.
But unexpectedly, after just a few months of marriage, I was beaten.
In a hurry, Ms. Xiu Hongmei thought of getting a divorce, but at this time she found out that she was pregnant again.
The abortion technology in that era was not as mature as it is now. There were often deaths from abortions. Xiu Hongmei didn't want to get the child down. In addition, his man knelt down and admitted his mistakes, slapped himself in the face and promised her.
Xiu Hongmei thought it was not easy for her to get in and out of her family. She had already been criticized for remarrying. She has been trying to get divorced for a few days now, and her external attitude towards her must have been even worse.
So he was soft-hearted and forgave the man.
However, he and she didn't know that domestic violence is the same as affair, and there will be a second time when there is a first time.
The man promised her a few months ago. When she was pregnant for eight months, she had a few quarrels with her mother-in-law, and she once again attacked her.
That action directly led to premature delivery of Xiu Hongmei.
Fortunately, the child is lucky and survives premature birth.
Xiu Hongmei was beaten during pregnancy and was beaten until she was premature. She was really disheartened and filed for divorce before she could finish her confinement.
However, her husband and mother-in-law were very tough.
Divorce is OK, but the children belong to their family and must stay in their family.
Xiu Hongmei has left one child in her husband's house and can't do anything to keep her second child in her husband's house.
The main reason is that she knew that the first mother-in-law was a kind and well-educated person. Even if she kept the child, she would take good care of her and educate her well.
But the second family is not good. His uneducated husband is just a stubborn guy. He listens to his unrighteous mother mediates everything. If he leaves the children to them, it is not certain whether he can survive. Even if he survives and is raised by them, he will definitely be useless.
In desperation, she had to give up the idea of divorce and continued to live in that family in a daze.
That family is a typical petty family, selfish, stingy, and loves to take advantage of small gains, and regards money as more important than life...
Xiu Hongmei lives in this environment, and you can imagine what life she lives every day and what her mood she feels.
This marriage between different classes almost ruined her life, so when she heard that her daughter was looking for a farmer from the northeastern countryside, she almost collapsed and firmly opposed Xiaojing and Daqiu.
Chapter completed!