113 Past Past (1/5)
There is no love for no reason in the world, and you have to fight for everything yourself.
It is unrealistic to hide at home forever and always hope that others will send everything to you.
Most people don't have that kind of start.
Pan An is a person who likes to think and reflect. He will think about what is wrong and deficient in himself, and also think about why he can have his current life.
First of all, it is a change in mindset, not a mysterious selling platform that can sell things on it.
If he had the belief that he is now, then Pan An might not have met a rich girl like Li Yan who approached her because of her appearance, but she would still embark on a road to success.
Pan An is not short of money. In this society, it is not difficult to have enough food and clothing. The difficult thing is that you live better than everyone else, and you must have what others have.
Without a system or attribute value, Pan An is just an ordinary person, not so handsome that there are girls who pay for it.
But as long as you have the desire and belief to become stronger, Pan An will go to the bookstore to study and meet the people there.
Without a system, Pan An would not lose common sense, and he could better know people in the bookstore.
Perhaps, Pan Anhui met the bookstore clerk and naturally became boyfriend and girlfriend. In the future, he worked in a small business while maintaining the family life, and then continued to immerse himself in the ocean of knowledge.
Perhaps, Pan An will meet with girls from nearby universities, and through a series of coincidences, they will understand each other, appreciate each other, and start a business together in the future.
Perhaps, Pan Anhui and the female boss of the Internet cafe have a more gentle understanding and staged an absurd comedy of a poor scholar and a rich chivalrous girl.
As long as you have the belief to become stronger and act for it, there will be no lack of people with you.
Women’s demand for money is actually not high. When the demand is high, the standards are set only when they get married...
Finding someone to marry and finding someone you like is two completely different meanings.
Even if no woman treats a poor boy as a lover, how can a poor boy care about it?
Woman? Get out! Don’t hinder my studies!
Being alone is not a bad thing for Pan An.
Pan An just thinks he is alone now, so he thinks about getting married, which is also an explanation for his family and being born.
We are born as human beings, we must reproduce and inherit, and marriage is an important process that can make our lives happy.
But if it is too troublesome, Pan An actually doesn’t have that strong demand for marriage…
A situation like Zhang Qiyu is too troublesome, there are too many things to deal with, and it is too easy to have problems.
Li Yan is different from Zhang Qiyu. She likes Pan An, and her mother also agrees with this marriage. She will not always pick on her like an aunt.
The matter between Pan An and Li Yan was unanimously agreed.
Even Li Yan's grandparents thought that Li Yan and Pan An were too old apart in the early days, and later changed their attitude and decided to come and take a look in person.
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"That's it. We will go back to Sucheng tomorrow. Yanyan's grandparents will stay at our house for a few days and meet Pan An."
In a private room at Rongcheng International Hotel, Zhen Wen and Zhang Qiyu's family got together again.
I didn't eat at my own home, nor did I go to Zhang Qiyu's house for dinner.
If you are at home, Zhen Wen doesn’t want to cook, it’s too troublesome.
If you are at Zhang Qiyu's house, it is not good to be too close to Pan An's house, so the location is arranged in the hotel.
The aunt had known about this for a long time, and at this time she still disagreed with the marriage. "Li Yan is still too young, are you a little anxious?"
They are all their own relatives, so naturally they even said whatever they said, and ignored the thoughts of Pan An, an outsider sitting aside.
Pan An was helpless. The aunt disliked him from the beginning. Pan An had tried to avoid this person before, thinking that there would be no intersection between the two parties, so the relationship worsened.
It was also after the New Year that Pan An realized that it was probably the problem of his attitude when he met, which made the aunt always feel unhappy about him.
If you don’t talk to others well, you will offend others. If you act gentle and politely, you will easily get different views from others.
Sages, follow each other all the way, can easily gain support.
But Pan An doesn’t have a big ambition. He won’t go out without going out, and he doesn’t want to manage too many things.
Zhen Wen has her own plans. She has enough wisdom and experience to make the aunt change her mind, but she didn't do that.
"I'm not young at the age of nineteen. A few days ago, wasn't there a female student from Shuimu University who just graduated and married a big boss? That one is twenty years apart."
This matter is quite famous. In the circle of young people, it is because the girl is beautiful, and in the circle of Zhen Wen and aunt, it is because the other party is a student of Shuimu University.
Li Yan smiled and looked at the silent man beside her, "Did you hear it? Become the big boss quickly~"
Pan Anke didn't have that kind of ambition, and said casually: "Our situation is different, I'm not good at making money."
The aunt always disliked Pan An, "If you don't have it, go and study. It's enough for me to read high school education. Studying hard with Uncle Li Yan is much better than watching cartoons at home. It's so old and unstable!"
"Mom~ say less!" Zhang Qiyu was annoyed when she heard this, and didn't know why her mother was so targeting Pan An.
Li Yan also made trouble, "Second Aunt, please say a few less words!"
Pan An has a thousand ways to prevent the aunt from coming to Taiwan, but there is no need. Everyone is a relative, and it is his own fault.
Just like Du Shuang's incident, if the other party thinks he is malicious at first, it will be easier for the two parties to form enemies than usual.
If Pan An speaks well, he can easily turn enemies into friends.
Pan An still doesn't know why this trick was not working during the fight, and he had to wait until the fight was over before it was effective, such as those friends who were sent to the hospital last time.
What makes us understand each other and sit together and talk well is violence?
No, no, it's sincerity!
Pan An looked at the aunt and said sincerely: "Mr. Zhang is indeed wrong with me. I came back soon after I did it. You are right."
Zhen Wen also said, "Pan An and Kui Yong have told you that Kui Yong also supports Pan An in this matter. Come, Pan An, respect your aunt for a cup of tea. Before getting married, change your words now."
Zhang Qiyu, who was standing beside her, was a little upset. She was pointing out something. She didn't know what Zhen Wen was thinking, and always thought she had something with Pan An.
Looking at Pan An who offered tea to his mother, Zhang Qiyu became even more upset when she heard the other party calling him his mother and aunt.
I don’t know if it was my own illusion or something else, Zhang Qiyu always felt that although Pan An is still so dull now, she always gave her a strange feeling.
It’s like the other party is no longer the poor and forced person with only high school education, but has become the kind of person who can’t pull back even if he reaches out his hand.
How is it possible.
Zhang Qiyu took a sip of the drink herself and rejected the feeling in her heart. Li Yan and Pan An would not last long. Li Yan was too childish and Pan An was so dull that she would be separated soon.
In Zhang Qiyu's opinion, Pan An, who is dull and incompetent, is probably the most suitable target for those township women who are also dull, not beautiful, have no characteristics, and have low educational level.
When he got home, Zhen Wen drove Li Yan home, while Pan An was with Zhang Qiyu's family because of the way.
"Pan An, I've drunk some wine, you can drive." Li Jingze knew that Pan An could drive, so he drank, not let Pan An drive after drinking.
Pan An nodded, "Okay."
Zhang Qiyu looked at Pan An in surprise. She did not persuade Li Jingze when she was drinking because she and her mother could drive, so she didn't have to let Li Jingze drive.
"Pan An, don't you know how to drive?"
Zhang Qiyu has little knowledge about Pan An's situation, especially after Li Yan moved out to live with her mother, she knows even less.
Pan An explained with a smile: "I didn't know before. I just learned it two months ago. I got my driver's license when I followed your uncle. Don't worry, I've been driving many times. If I'm fine, I've been driving for your uncle."
Zhang Qiyu got into the car in a complicated mood and sat in the back row with her mother.
Li Jingze and Pan An in the front row were chatting about things, and Li Jingze asked what Pan An did with Uncle Zhang Qiyu.
Pan An said something honestly, thanking his uncle for helping him introduce some relationships, and thanking him for his cultivation there.
Zhang Qiyu quietly looked at the neon night view outside. She often didn’t have that kind of consciousness, and it would be too late to realize it.
"Mom, the change here is so big that I can't recognize you. I've obviously been here before." Zhang Qiyu looked out the window and said softly.
The aunt turned her head and looked at it, and said indifferently: "Yes, it has changed a lot. I don't watch it often, nor do I come here to play often. If I don't know you, I won't know you. Our family doesn't live here."
Pan An drove quietly and chatted with Li Jingze.
As for whether the words of the two people behind him were unintentional or intentional, Pan An stopped thinking about it.
Perhaps, the reason why the aunt targeted Pan An was not only because of her bad impression of the first time meeting, but also because of Zhang Qiyu.
Maybe, this is all maybe, Pan An would not explore the meaning of it.
All, it doesn't matter anymore.
The road you have walked is the way you have walked.
Chapter completed!