Chapter seven hundred and seventy-ninth newspaper
Qiao Yunran taught his two sons to recognize words in the room. Chen Shangzhi didn't say it clearly now, but he liked to learn to talk to others the most. With him in it, Qiao Yunran couldn't help laughing and laughing.
The two children didn't understand what the mother laughed about, but it didn't prevent their brothers from having a happy mood. The two brothers reached out to hug each other and laughed with jumping.
The woman in charge came in from outside and saw the joy in the room. She suddenly didn't want to mention the things outside to Qiao Yunran at this time, so she waited quietly on the side.
Qiao Yunran looked up at the expression on the face of the woman in charge. Seeing that she had no intention of expressing her, she naturally focused on her two sons. Now in her heart, the three sons are the most important people.
Chen Shangke is already on the road of growth. Qiao Yunran listened to Chen Luochen's reminder and was learning the idea of respecting his eldest son and learning that he was no longer so concerned about his eldest son.
She could no longer worry about her eldest son as she used to be. She was worried that Chen Shangke would be bullied in places she could not see. She almost wanted to stay outside the school herself.
Chen Luochen understood Qiao Yunran's kindness to his sons best. He reminded: "Ran'er, kindness is often a defeat for the sons. We want the children to stand up. When they grow up, we parents should learn to let go and let him learn to walk independently."
When Qiao Yunran heard Chen Luochen's words, she remembered her days in the mountains when she was young. At that time, her parents were worried, but they still chose to let go.
Qiao Yunran and Shen Luochen said that as a mother, she has many things to learn, and hopes that Chen Luochen can give her some advice at any time.
Chen Luochen looked at his wife's serious expression and smiled and said, "Ran'er, you have done a good job in normal times. You just love the three children too much, so you will take everything big and small to heart. I think you will be too tired like this.
Ran, we must remember that sometimes the efforts will not be worth the loss, because if you love them too much, they can easily become spoiled children, they will be a little unwilling and ignorant.
Ran'er, it's also my first time as a father. We learn from each other. I have something bad about it, so you can also talk to me."
After thinking about Chen Luochen's usual behavior carefully, Qiao Yunran shook his head and said, "The most important thing for us parents is to teach by words and deeds. You are better than me in this regard.
When you are busy, you have never ignored the feelings of me and the children. Sometimes I get busy, but I ignore you. Now I think about it, it’s because I’m not doing well enough. Husband, you should also give me some advice on this in the future.”
Chen Luochen's eyes were filled with joy. Since he had three sons, he always felt that he was no longer that important person in Qiao Yunran's heart. Now, listening to Qiao Yunran's words, he knew that he had him in her heart, but he just couldn't take care of so many things.
Chen Luochen shook his head at Qiao Yunran and said, "After we have three sons, I understand why parents cannot even bring that bowl of water. Keer is our eldest son. In my heart, he is more important than two younger brothers."
Qiao Yunran understood the meaning of Chen Luochen's words. Even if people from aristocratic families are second sons, they also understand in their hearts that the rules of the eldest son in a family cannot be broken.
After Qiao Zhaoshi returned to the Qiao family, Dai gradually realized that Qiao Zhaoshi valued Qiao Yunran's intention. In the customs of the aristocratic family, the identity of the eldest daughter was extraordinary. Sometimes, she even resigned to the eldest son.
After Qiao Yunran got married, her performance in the Shen family made many people think that the children taught by Qiao Zhaoshi and his wife were very good. Especially after Qiao Yunxi got married, her performance in the old prince's family made everyone recognize that Qiao Zhaoshi and his wife acted in a person.
As Qiao Boxuan grew older, he wanted to get fame and discuss marriages before he could get married, but many families outside looked at Qiao Boxuan's character, so several families came to reveal the news to Qiao Zhaoguang and Qiao Zhaoshi and his wife.
When Qiao Zhaoguang and Nass mentioned it privately, they both sighed that they thought their two sons had different wealth conditions, but in terms of marriage, they were not as popular as Qiao Boxuan's brothers.
Na's vaguely knew something in his heart. After the marriage between Qiao Bosong brothers was settled, her two mothers and mothers had never thought that Qiao Bosong brothers were better than they thought.
Because after Qiao Chaofang got married, some of her behaviors in her husband's family made them feel a little upset when they asked for information. Qiao Chaofang, the eldest daughter, was so straightforward, and her two younger brothers were afraid that they were not as good as the rumors.
Nashi naturally understood what the mother-in-law had not said on both sides. She was even more angry with Qiao Zuzhang and Lin. When Qiao Chaofang was young, the two insisted on keeping the child with her, but indulging Qiao Chaofang's temperament was a little bit distorted.
After Qiao Bosong's eldest son was born, Nass directly said to his daughter-in-law: "We grandparents are afraid that we are not willing to teach our grandchildren. You couple should be more attentive to teach their children."
During the years when Qiao Yunran was outside, he learned from his letter that his mother's brothers were still on the road to the imperial examination. It seemed that they were not as smooth as Qiao Zhao on this road.
Qiao Yunran and Shen Luochen sighed, and Shen Luochen smiled and said, "In fact, the most difficult candidates in the previous two classes are talented men who have accumulated for many years. The father-in-law is a very capable person and can successfully pass the Jinshi exam.
Moreover, over the years, my father-in-law was an official in the capital, but he didn't have much time in the capital. He worked hard outside and did a lot of truth. His career was too smooth in the eyes of outsiders. They didn't see his father-in-law's cautious behavior."
When Shen Luochen personally sent Shen Shangke to Jiangnan, he could see that Qiao Zhaoshi really loved Qiao Yunran. However, over the years, he was able to tolerate his concern for his daughter and never wrote letters to Jiangnan.
Qiao Yunran seemed to know Qiao Zhaoshi very well in this regard. Even if Qiao Zhaoshi didn't send letters to Jiangnan, Qiao Yunran had letters to Qiao Zhaoshi every season.
In her letters, she writes about every little thing in her daily life, and she will also say something in the letter.
Shen Luochen occasionally read her letter and reminded him: "Ran'er, we are so far away from our elders. Don't write these unhappy things. The elders will be worried after seeing them."
Qiao Yunran looked at Shen Luochen with a cautious expression and said, "Brother Chen, my father is different from other elders. If I only report good news and not worry about him, he will still be worried about us.
Chapter completed!