180. Subversion of cognition
The plan is simple and approaches the key points. If you don’t consider the link of the insult will be exposed in the middle.
This kind of idea seems simple, but most people can't think of it and dare not do it even if they think of it.
But Zheng Guolin not only dared to do it, but also had accurate designs.
This person is much better than Zheng Xiuli's father.
Zheng Xiuli married such a powerful person, but she didn't know how to please men like her and coaxed them to like her.
In Chunmei's opinion, this is actually not a good thing.
She asked Zheng Xiuli to come to the balcony to taste tea. In fact, she wanted to enlighten her and let her understand what a man is?
When Zheng Xiuli said that she was unwilling to learn those arts and still had to learn them, Chunmei laughed.
Then she joked halfway: "I dare not not learn? I am not your mother, and no matter how you say it, you are a couple halfway. Your father likes me, I am his wife. If you don't like me, I will be nothing."
Zheng Xiuli asked unhappily: "Why did you say that to my dad?"
Chunmei smiled: "That's the truth. This man, he likes you, will live with you wholeheartedly, right? He doesn't like you, his heart is not on you, what do you think he will do? I'm married to your father, not an ordinary man. As long as he wants to do, no one can stop him, right?"
Zheng Xiuli is smart and has already heard Chunmei's voiceover.
After a while, she asked, "I remember you told me that even without you, my dad would leave my mom and look for another woman, right?"
Chunmei said: "I said it, I can't do anything if you don't believe it."
Zheng Xiuli sighed and said, "I didn't say I don't believe it. I don't hate you because I believe what you said."
"Oh?" Chunmei showed an unexpected expression and looked at her and said, "Lily, you have grown up a long time ago, but your aunt always treats you as a child. It turns out that you will understand a lot of truths yourself."
Zheng Xiuli sighed again and said, "It's better not to understand than to understand. I used to think about marrying a poor man I like, and the two of them lived a peaceful life. But in the end, they chose a rich one."
Chunmei said: "This may be fate. Your Zheng family has wealth in their destiny. Even if you want to be an ordinary person, God will not let you be a good person."
After a while, he asked intentionally or unintentionally: "You are also afraid that Guolin is like your father, right?"
Zheng Xiuli said: "Why are you afraid? He is not as good as my dad! But I told him that if he dares to imitate my dad, I will show him to death!"
Chunmei smiled faintly and said, "This is useless. You, if you want to hold Guolin's heart, you can't learn from your mother. You have to learn from me."
Seeing that Zheng Xiuli's face was not good, she explained: "Lily, I really don't intend to guard you and say bad things about my elder sister. I mainly do it for your own good. If you want to listen, I will say, if you don't want to listen, I won't be unhappy with you, I won't say it."
Zheng Xiuli lowered her head and said, "What's wrong with being unhappy? Over the years, I have been thinking, why do I still want to find you if my dad loves my mom so much?"
Chunmei asked, "Did you think of the reason?"
Zheng Xiuli said: "In those years when my father's career started, my mother knew that feeding chickens and pigs at home and taking care of the elderly is no different from those housewives in the village. What happened to my father in the mine? What are the difficulties, what are the joys, sorrows and sorrows? She never knew how to ask. After a long time, the two of them had no common language."
Chunmei shook her head and said slowly: "This is probably not the main reason. This man has different ideas from women. Strictly speaking, he may never have a common language."
Zheng Xiuli looked up and looked at her in surprise.
She originally thought that she had to accept her mother's lesson, and to be with Zheng Guolin often, talk to him more, and know what he was thinking.
In this way, they will always have a common language, and Zheng Guolin will never get tired of her.
But why is this principle wrong when it comes to Chunmei?
I heard Chunmei say, "Listen to me to analyze the reasons for you. You just said that my elder sister is like a housewife at home. What about the housewife in the village? She definitely can't wear clothes when she works. It's good to wash her face in the morning. She doesn't have time to apply snow cream, so there is no need to mention dressing up. Just think about it, no matter how good she is and how beautiful her father is, his face is always facing her with a ragged look. Will he get tired of it if he has been with such a long time?
This man is different from our women. What do they pay attention to when they look at women at first? Is your appearance and appearance, and can it attract him?
In this case, is your dad willing to guard your mom at home, or is he willing to find a place to see those gorgeous and beautiful girls?
To be honest, there were few girls in the mine, and there weren’t any beautiful ones. I was the only one who cooked, and I was quite good at it. Didn’t your dad come up with my idea?
From this perspective, it was your mother who pushed your dad to me, but I was not very capable and snatched him. If our mine was like the city company, there were so many beautiful women, I would probably not have much to do with me.
So I will tell you that even if you don’t have me at that time, your dad will leave your mom sooner or later, and you hate me wrong."
Zheng Xiuli never thought that her father left her mother because of this reason, and she was stunned.
Chunmei continued, "In terms of feelings, I definitely can't compare to your mother. No matter how many years it has passed, your father's favorite is still your mother, you know why not?"
Zheng Xiuli shook her head in a daze.
"Because your mother has suffered with him, and your father has a conscience and will always remember this level. Look, he is going back to see your mother now, and the couple sits on the pair of short benches in front of the door, and it will take a day to say it.
Can you say that they didn’t have a common language? That’s because he has been separated from your mother for a long time, thinking about her and having her in his heart. This has nothing to do with whether he has a common language or not.
This man, he is going to like you, and he will pester you if you don’t say a word, and he will have endless things to say to you. If he doesn’t like you, you will be behind his butt and stick your hips and you will know that no matter how much he shits. He doesn’t like you, and he is bothering you, so he is too lazy to pay attention to you.
What is a common language? As a wife, what do you like? He likes beautiful women, can he discuss this with you? He likes to watch girls dance striptease, can he tell you? A few years ago, there were a bunch of Russian girls in this place. I saw that you were fascinated by your dad and didn’t get home every night. Can he tell me about this?
Don’t believe in common language or common hobbies. The more you are like him, the more he hates you. On the contrary, the more you make him unexpected, the more fresh he makes him feel, the more he likes you."
Chunmei's words directly subverted all Zheng Xiuli's perception of men.
Chapter completed!