Zhao Jingwen's 22 years of life are divided into four stages.

The first stage is the girlhood in the remote mountainous area of ​​Nan City, Guangxi Province.

Zhao Jingwen is the second eldest child in the family, with an older sister and a younger brother.

In Gui Province, if your family does not have a boy, it is a family that is about to have no offspring.

He will be looked down upon by the people in the village.

You may even be treated differently when attending various activities.

According to regulations, if the first child in the family is a girl, she must wait five years before having another child.

The second child, whether it is a boy or a girl, is not allowed to have another child.

However, Zhao Jingwen's father's generation was the only one left in the Zhao family, and the family was also eager to have a son.

Less than two years after the eldest sister Zhao Jingxuan was born, Zhao Jingwen was born.

As a result, the family was fined 3,000 yuan.

In 1986, the fine of 3,000 yuan was equivalent to 80,000 yuan in later generations.

Zhao Jingwen has a nickname in the village called Zhao Sanniu, which means she was fined 3,000 yuan for her.

The three thousand yuan fined almost emptied the Zhao family's fortune.

Zhao Jingwen grew up to the age of four in such an environment.

Zhao Jingwen's father is an honest and honest rural man.

In her memory, her father went out to do farm work, and his only hobby was sitting at the door of his courtyard and smoking cigarettes.

Her younger brother Zhao Jiaxing was born when she was four years old.

For this reason, my mother was arrested and had to be sterilized, and my father was arrested and imprisoned for three months.

He was also fined 6,000 yuan.

This fine put Zhao Jingwen's family into a huge debt.

My father aged ten years almost overnight.

In Zhao Jingwen's childhood memory, her family could only eat two meals a day, each meal consisting of wild vegetables and corn porridge.

White porridge and white rice are almost only available during festivals.

Although the family was tight on food and clothing, it took nearly ten years to pay off the debt.

Zhao Jingwen's mother is a typical rural woman.

Although he didn't abuse them, he did after he had a younger brother.

Beating and scolding are also common.

If she accidentally makes her brother cry, the mother will usually give him a slap in the face regardless of the reason.

The people in the village laughed at me, my mother beat me and scolded me, and my family was living in poverty.

Some villagers often joked that the Zhao family was going to be unable to live any longer, so they might be able to live a better life by selling Jingwen in exchange for money.

These were definitely huge shadows in Zhao Jingwen's early childhood.

She was afraid that one day she would be sold by her mother.

I have been scared for more than ten years.

Fortunately, although the family is poor, Zhao Jingwen's father has always supported her in school.

After my sister finished junior high school, she dropped out of school and went to work in Guangdong Province.

to reduce the burden on the family.

Zhao Jingwen was also very ambitious. After graduating from junior high school, she was admitted to Nanshi Technology and Business College, majoring in business administration.

Her first stage was filled with guilt and fear.

Someone always told her in her ears that it was because of her that the Zhao family fell into this situation, which made her feel guilty since she was a child.

Her mother's education only consisted of beatings and scoldings, and people kept saying that she should be sold, which made her cautious all year round, for fear of making a mistake and being really sold.

The second stage was when she stayed at her cousin's house. During this stage, while studying hard, she helped her cousin do whatever she could, such as taking care of Zhao Xinxin and cooking.

At this stage, she witnessed her cousin Zhao Yanan grow from nothing to a stone factory, which made her feel a little calmer.

But the inferiority complex in her bones became stronger and stronger.

Because she stayed at home while she was in school, she only stayed at her cousin's house on Saturdays and Sundays.

When my cousin was at her busiest, Zhao Xinxin could only be kept at home.

Although she had food and drink, she was still full of inferiority and insecurity.

After graduation, Zhao Jingwen worked as a logistics manager in Zhao Yanan's factory.

It can also be considered a professional counterpart.

Due to years of hard work, Zhao Jingwen's father became seriously ill and was hospitalized six months after she graduated. He spent nearly 50,000 yuan, but in the end he was unable to keep her.

When raising medical expenses, Zhao Yanan advanced her 20,000 yuan.

She always remembered and wanted to repay her cousin this kindness.

So there was the incident of being drunk by Zhao Yanan and thrown into Wei Zhijie's bed.

Afterwards, the project order table was successfully delivered to cousin Zhao Yanan's factory.

The favor to her cousin was over, but she felt she owed Wei Zhijie again.

So, she packed her luggage and said goodbye to her cousin.

He reluctantly came to Wei Zhijie and recommended himself to be a work assistant.

Although her mother has always been bad to her, she has also taught her many principles.

For example, if your body is cleansed by a man, then he is your man.

In addition, she felt that she owed a favor, so Zhao Jingwen hoped to stay by Wei Zhijie's side no matter what.

In the second stage, she was still cautious and careful, doing things within her ability.

Fortunately, she had the opportunity to stay with Zhao Yanan and work in the business for half a year, so she could see a little bit of the world.

The third stage is to work with Wei Zhijie as an assistant.

Two years before and after this stage, she followed Wei Zhijie around the country and settled down in Qiong Province to work on projects. During this period, she experienced four or five project orders.

I also witnessed the growth of Wei Zhijie.

The only thing that depressed her was that Wei Zhijie never had any feelings for her.

For the girl who had slept with him, she always longed for Wei Zhijie to accept her.

But she never waited.

The most outrageous thing is that there was a time when the two of them shared a two-bedroom apartment.

She couldn't hold it any longer and followed her cousin's advice.

For example, leaving the door closed when taking a shower, leaving the door closed when sleeping, wearing vacuum pajamas and pretending to watch TV while falling asleep on the sofa, etc.

However, he never had any wrong thoughts about himself.

The closest we got to each other was when he carried her from the sofa back to the bed in the room.

It made her full of frustration.

At this stage, she is still cautious, trying to cooperate, and working hard, for fear that Wei Zhijie will not want her one day.

The fourth stage is after leaving the Yapai family in Qiong Province.

Zhao Jingwen felt that Wei Zhijie seemed to have grown up overnight, as if he had become a different person.

At the beginning, Wei Zhijie's eyes became dangerous. She had experienced that kind of look from her brother-in-law. She didn't know what it was in the past.

Later she found out that when Wei Zhijie became dangerous.

Instead, she flinched because she didn't know how he felt about her.

He never gave her a clear answer.

It made her hesitate.

That morning at the Star Hotel, she got her answer.

She was overjoyed, even though he joked that he was just a work assistant and life assistant, and he also agreed with her to give him three children.

However, she felt that her life would eventually be different.

In the following days, the two gradually became closer. It can be said that except for the last step, the two had almost no secrets.

I have also become a frequent visitor to the cloud.

In addition to this stage, Zhao Jingwen also has experience in independently managing project logistics.
To be continued...