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Suppose a man uses his face to hurt his wife's palm and causes a fracture, and ask how hard the man's mouth is!

Everyone in the live broadcast room didn't know for a moment whether to condemn or sympathize with Wang Shifeng, a friend.

"But no matter what the reason is, violence is definitely not the solution to the problem. So if you encounter similar troubles in your daily life, you must remember to call the police. However, don't be afraid of marriage because of these special reasons. After all, marriage is also a

There is another side." Wang Shifeng said kindly.

"Teacher Wang, do you think, if you cheat within marriage, which one is more hurtful, mental cheating or physical cheating?" Feifei asked sincerely.

After hearing this, Wang Shifeng was silent. Why is this girl so pessimistic? She is either domestic violence or cheating. What did she experience?

"Uh, I think it may be even more harmful to train cheating." Wang Shifeng laughed. "Actually, I said that marriage is multifaceted, not necessarily negative, but it still has a good side. Ms. Feifei, what do you think

?”

"Teacher Wang, how do you view the issue of bride gifts? Should we give them?" Ms. Feifei asked again.

Good guy... This marriage problem is so beautiful, right?

And it was an extremely sensible issue as soon as it started.

Do you want me to die?

The barrage surged again.

‘Oh yell, it turns out that marriage problems cannot avoid the bride price.’

‘The classic love trading session is coming.’

‘Let me see if there is a dog saying that asking for a bride price is to sell his daughter.’

‘The bride price doesn’t matter, it’s mainly because I want to pick up a new car.’

‘No, no one can’t get a 100,000-yuan bride gift when they get married, don’t get married if they get poor.’

Wang Shifeng touched his forehead and smiled, "Borrow gifts are indeed a must-have question for most marriages at present, but before I answer, I would like to ask Ms. Feifei, if you are going to ask for a bride gift when you get married?"

"If I really find the right one, I don't care. But according to the customs of my hometown, my parents might still want it. After all, in the eyes of their generation, the bride price is also about face, the old man." Feifei gave it to her.

A very pertinent answer.

"Then it's really a lucky person to be able to marry a good girl like you." Wang Shifeng praised, and then put a list on the screen. "This is the domestic bride price ranking collected by our staff. You can see

, the area with the most expensive average bride price is 320,000."

The audience responded differently after seeing the list.

Some people feel shocked, some feel blood loss, and some feel blood loss.

But most people did not expect that the bride price in various regions was so big.

"The issue of bride price is actually an old tradition in China. If you trace it back, you can go to Huangdi and Lamu, the ancestors of humanities. Huangdi made an exquisite carriage to give to the nut. The nut was moved to give the silk he had woven to Huangdi. Of course,

This may be a story that later generations beautify based on ancient history. In fact, it may be that when the Yellow Emperor tribe and the Lamu tribe were engaged in marriage, they exchanged techniques with each other." Wang Shifeng said that and opened another picture.

"According to the historical records, the custom of bride price has been clearly recorded since the Zhou Dynasty. The Book of Rites. Hun Li" uploaded: "Hun Li is to combine the favors of the two surnames, and to serve the ancestral temples above and continue to the future generations, so

A gentleman values ​​it.

The general meaning is that only the newlyweds who get married according to the etiquette steps are etiquette families. By the way, this silence ceremony is what is commonly known as wedding.

In the "Ranger" which recorded folk customs in the pre-Qin period, there is also a record that "using the car comes, and moving it with me is bribed" is probably to record the marriage customs of the people of the pre-Qin period at that time. However, most of the bride gifts in ancient times were not coins, but some meaningful gifts.

, such as geese, cloth, jade, gorgeous clothes, grains, old wine, and even herbal bark with special meanings, to symbolize good luck.

And everyone should pay attention to that even with so many records, bride price is still a custom made by the convention, not a law, and there is also a complete set of laws specifically for bride price countries. Those who are interested can learn about it.

Those who directly hired the bride gift in coins actually have more records of taking concubines.”

The audience who were listening to popular science carefully learned the last sentence and suddenly understood it.

Maybe she felt that she was also connoted, Feifei was a little unhappy, "So Teacher Wang also thinks that we shouldn't give a bride price?"

Choose one of the classics.

If Wang Shifeng’s answer is a little careless, someone will probably put him on the hot search.

Wang Shifeng shook his head when he heard this: "I think it depends on the situation, such as the purpose of marriage. I just saw some viewers saying the words "are priced at a price", which reminds me that we are the first in history.

The sky-high bride price should have occurred during the Han Dynasty, which has something to do with the Han Dynasty's recommendation system.

Those who are interested in history know that if the Han Dynasty wants to become an official, it needs to be introduced by officials. Ordinary people cannot become officials without recommendation. Therefore, there are a large number of wealthy families who use heavy money to marry wealthy families. If they have a need, there will be

The market, and then the first batch of betrothal gifts were in the beginning,

You know the famous "Phoenix Seeking the Phoenix". The love story between Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun is very famous, but in real history, Sima Xiangru married Zhuo Wenjun to a purposeful marriage. Zhuo Wenjun's family was a wealthy man in the Western Han Dynasty.

, but he had no foundation in the court, so he took a fancy to Sima Xiangru,

Because Emperor Wu of Han liked Sima Xiangru's fu at that time, but Sima Xiangru was very poor and greedy, so Zhuo Wenjun's father, Prince Zhuo, wanted to marry Zhuo Wenjun to Sima Xiangru with a sky-high bride price, and let him give Zhuo in front of Emperor Wu of Han.

A few good words from home.

But Sima Xiangru wants face after all, and is not willing to bear the hat of a son-in-law. In addition, Zhuo Wenjun is a widow again, but he really wants the bride price, so he wrote this article "The Phoenix Seeking the Phoenix" to beautify it.

The purpose of this marriage is to gain both fame and fortune.

The famous Dongshui Kuaishou Son-in-law Wang Xizhi and the Emperor Gaozu of Tang Li Yuan selected by Que Ping are all representatives of the sky-high bride price."

The audience was stunned after listening.

I originally thought that Wang Shifeng complained about the purpose of marriage to refer to material aspects.

But I never expected that I could really quote the classics and tell such strange stories.

Moreover, the examples he mentioned directly subvert everyone's understanding of these historical figures in their minds.

Forget Sima Xiangru and Wang Xizhi, it’s not strange to have any strange things, but even those who have been emperors like Li Yuan have ever been crushed by sky-high bride prices?

Really fake?!

After thinking about it this way, then rounding it up, I instantly felt that the pressure on the bride price was not that great.

Looking at the barrage, the male audience was filled with self-comfort.

Wang Shifeng continued to laugh and said, "Of course, it may be that it is because Li Yuan was troubled by the sky-high bride price when he was young. Therefore, during the Tang Dynasty, the imperial examination system changed the bride price trend again. Ordinary people can become officials through the imperial examination system and no longer have to rely on bribery.

Or come to the door to achieve your goal, so the supply, demand and demand in the market have changed again.

The term "Big Beard Son-in-law" was a specialty of that era. A large number of wealthy businessmen or wealthy families used sky-high dowry to marry their daughters to these poor children, and even in the Song Dynasty, the fun of catching son-in-law under the list appeared."

When the male audience heard this, they suddenly became full of yearning for the Tang and Song dynasties. Is there such two dynasties that can make a fuss openly?

I really hate being born at the wrong time.

But soon Wang Shifeng broke the fantasy of these guys, "But whether it is the sky-high bride price or the ten-mile red makeup, these are all things that belong to the powerful and elite class, and they actually have little to do with the people. In this way, they are too purposeful.

Under the marriage trend,

Even Li Shimin couldn't stand it anymore and publicly denounced this trend as "taking too much goods and bribery is like selling, or demoting one's own family and being humiliated by marriage." Translated, what's the difference between getting married and doing business?

It insults marriage and insults the family, so what I want to say is that everyone who wants to enter a marriage must think about the purpose of their marriage so that they can judge whether they want a bride price.

Wang Xizhi's son-in-law was because his uncle Wang Dao wanted to be powerful in the court and the country and had to reach a marriage with the Grand Tutor Xi Jian, because they knew that in the future, they could "share the world with the king and the horse."

Li Yuan Que Ping was chosen to marry the Northern Zhou princess and the royal family, because they knew that there might be a throne to be inherited in the future, but what about us?"

Wang Shifeng's last soul questioned, which cooled everyone down.

Right.

These sky-high bride prices were all about the elite class in ancient times. What does it have to do with ordinary people?

We ordinary people want to find a suitable person or the person we love to live a stable life, so why do we still have to bear the oppression of sky-high bride prices?

My family has no throne to inherit!

Everyone suddenly realized that it was okay to give the bride price, but there was no need to be such a high standard.

We just want our wives and children to be warm on the bed.

It’s not that he wants to marry the daughter of the Grand Tutor to be powerful, nor that he wants to marry a princess to rule the world.
Chapter completed!