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Chapter 334 It's okay to be a fool if you can be happy

Wang Shifeng's sincerity was exchanged for barrage and millions of viewers jokingly.

"Look, I'm honest, everyone doesn't believe it." Wang Shifeng smiled and shook his head. "Now everyone's reaction is a failure for me, but can you understand this failure, Mr. Lu?"

"Uh, I don't understand it very much." Mr. Lu hesitated for a moment.

Even if others laugh at you, it is considered a failure?

This is too slim, are you pretending to be damn?

This is the first reaction most people have when they hear it.

"So, I'm also confused. Everyone is the same. It doesn't matter who succeeds or not. People will inevitably encounter troubles and troubles when they live. The difference is that the form is different." Wang Shifeng smiled.

"What should Teacher Wang do when facing this situation?" Mr. Lu said in confusion.

"At the beginning, I thought about dealing with it, but later I gave up." Wang Shifeng shook his head.

"I am a language expression work. If the information I convey cannot get feedback from everyone, it will be a failure or even unemployed for me.

So in order to ensure that everyone's feedback, I often cater to everyone's preferences, but in this way, the information I want to convey will be weakened. I have not found a balance between the two at the moment, so I was very distressed and troubled at one time.

But then I realized that my idea was problematic because my purpose was wrong. I thought that passing the message should be accepted by everyone, but this is unreasonable in itself.

Because everyone has read, met, and made different mistakes. The information I want to convey is not the expression of language, but the cognitive level and thinking behind it, logic, IQ, education, class, belief and other gaps,

Especially when the higher the dimension of your message, the greater the ambiguity you pass it out, so I will never achieve the success I want, and I am doomed to fail."

Wang Shifeng's words moved everyone a little. This was the first time he had heard him analyze and belittle him in the live broadcast room.

In addition to being novel, there is also some sympathy.

But I always feel that something is wrong.

Hiss, is Teacher Wang scolding us again?

But before they could figure it out, Wang Shifeng smiled and said, "When I realize that I will never succeed, I will fall into infinite self-doubt, which once made me extremely depressed."

"But you look very good now." Mr. Lu asked in confusion.

"That's because I redefined success." Wang Shifeng curled the corners of his mouth.

?

Redefinition successfully?

Can this thing be defined by yourself? Then you are really great.

The audience's attention was diverted again.

"Or it is, I gave up my original purpose. I used to hope that everyone would accept the information I conveyed. Now I hope that I can convey the information completely and clearly is a kind of success." Wang Shifeng explained.

"In other words, are you killing or burying now?" Mr. Cui used a strange adjective, but it was surprisingly appropriate.

"That's right." Wang Shifeng nodded.

"But...Is this considered self-interest?" Mr. Cui asked hesitantly again.

"What's the point of being so happy about yourself? I succeeded, right?" Wang Shifeng asked back.

What kind of robber logic is this? Why does it sound weird?

Mr. Cui and many viewers were shocked.

"I have talked about the differences between Chinese and Western cultures many times before. Why do I feel that our Chinese culture is not as good as the modern Western culture problem? The reason is not the level of culture, but the definition of success.

How can you achieve true success under the success rules set by others?" Wang Shifeng chuckled.

As if they were enlightened, everyone was stunned.

Although they did not fully understand, they felt that their closed thinking seemed to have been pried open a gap.

"But...is this subjective success also considered a kind of success?" Mr. Cui became more and more confused.

Because there is no "The True Story of Aq" in this world, I can't quite understand the gentle version of Aq spirit like Wang Shifeng.

"What does Mr. Cui think is the definition of success?" Wang Shifeng asked back.

"Well, for ordinary people like me, they have a decent job, a house and a car, and they can afford a dowry after getting married. Both parents and elders are in good health, and their future children and grandchildren will be filial to each other." Mr. Cui said in a deep voice.

What a good guy, this is clearly making your life arrangements clear.

Wang Shifeng was stunned when he heard this, and then smiled and said, "Is this really a success you defined by yourself?"

Mr. Cui was silent.

This kind of success is naturally not his personal definition. It is a "universal success" created by his parents since childhood, the influence of the environment over the years, and the continuous transmission of society.

It is the definition of a large environment, a large group that encompasses individuals.

"I remember there was a live broadcast before, about childhood dreams. At that time, many viewers recalled their dreams. No boy's dream when he was a child was to make money to buy a house, and no girl's dream was to have a diamond ring luxury.

But later everyone forgot what dreams were, so they followed the so-called material success now. But I have been thinking for a long time, what is the definition of success, and whether there is a standard answer." Wang Shifeng had a subtle smile on his face.

Mr. Cui's breathing was a little short and asked, "What is it?"

"Because I haven't succeeded yet, I can't give you an answer." Wang Shifeng shook his head

"But my personal tendency is that success should not be a defined answer, just like the world we live in is beautiful because it does not give up any color, whether it is red or green,

Compared to defining success, I think we should not define success and structure concepts, and we should not have so-called success theory, successful definition, successful people, and should not use material or other consciousness as the criteria for judgment.

In this way, will there be no more worries and confusion?"

Wang Shifeng's voice was mellow, with a strong sense of healing, which made people's eyes feel sore.

Because this is the empathy of everyone.

Since I have remembered, everyone seems to have spent all kinds of "comparative success".

Even in infancy, if you turn over two months of birth, it is a success, being able to speak before one year old is a success, being able to run before three years old is a success, and being able to recognize words and memorize Tang poetry at the age of four or five is even more successful.

After going to school, you will be successful in your studies. When you grow up, you will be successful in making money. When you are healthy in middle age, you will be successful in taking care of yourself in your later years.

It seems that everyone has spent this life in such a relatively successful way.

But no one can explain why these successes are considered success.

But everyone knows that if you cannot achieve these successes, it is failure and you will fall into endless pain and confusion.

Success is an inconsistent concept.

Inability to be self-consistent is a logical fallacy, so why are they still praised?

The live broadcast room fell into a long silence.

"Teacher Wang, is this considered chicken soup?" Mr. Cui asked in confusion after a minute.

At this time, the audience suddenly realized that Wang Shifeng became popular in the live broadcast because of his real style when he was anti-chicken soup.

But the live broadcast style behind does seem to be a bit chicken soup.

Good, you, Wang Shifeng, with thick eyebrows and big eyes, have also started to give us chicken soup, right?!

"Don't bother me if I have chicken soup or not, I'll ask you if it's delicious." Wang Shifeng smiled disapprovingly.

"Uh... I really don't feel that uncomfortable anymore." Mr. Cui said in a deep voice.

"That's fine. Whether chicken soup or not is not the key is whether it can help you. Besides, chicken soup itself is not a derogatory term. It's just that some diode broadcasters have become derogatory after they make poisonous chicken soup for profit.

Do you have to tell you that success means you earn more than 10,000 yuan a month after graduation from college, save 100,000 yuan in three years, get promoted and raise salary after five years, buy a house and car in Jinghua, and become a senior executive of the company for ten years to enjoy dividends. You love listening?”

Wang Shifeng had a gentle smile on his face, but his words were cold and stabbed in the hearts of most viewers in the live broadcast room.

‘Woooooooooooooooo, stop scolding, I know I am a waste!’

‘What did you say you provoke him? I don’t know how ugly he is when he tells the truth?’

‘You don’t drink the good chicken soup. Now it’s done, I can only eat shit.’

‘Ph, ph, what science fiction film has been watched recently, and he can actually say such outrageous words.’

‘Does my monthly income of over 10,000 yuan after graduating from college? I entered Silicon Valley after graduating last year. My annual salary is not much, more than one million yuan.’

‘Which elder is the one who dreamed you upstairs? You might as well spend more money on this little salary. Maybe your ancestors can earn you a million a month.’

‘I’m so laughing, I bet that most of the fans who watch Wang Shifeng’s live broadcast will not have an annual income of more than 300,000 yuan.’

‘I don’t know if you are stating the facts or mocking everyone, it’s really a mystery.’

"So Teacher Wang also thinks that material things are the main condition for success in judging success?" Mr. Cui was so amused and crying.

"Of course not. I always think that happiness is the only criterion." Wang Shifeng shook his head.

"If you can be happy, it doesn't matter if you are fools. We come to this world, not to take the exams in Tsinghua and Peking University, not to be squeezing from senior workers, nor to be squeezing from capital, nor to pass on the family line to support our parents in their old age and see them off.

Instead, we look at how the flowers bloom and how the water flows, when the sunset falls, experience interesting things, and meet unforgettable people.

The reason why you are confused and anxious is that you don’t know what you want, and then look at others and think that they have something or not, you become anxious.
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