Chapter 78 It’s your ex-husband’s bad, it’s not your problem

Author: Flying Boat Looking at the Moon

Chapter 78 It’s your ex-husband’s bad, it’s not your problem

They have all divorced, and this incident has not made Tang Jialin feel so uneasy that she had insomnia last night and could not get through today.

"I can't understand why I'm so accommodating to him in the past. I feel very stupid and love-minded." Tang Jialin asked Xu Long, "Do you know what love-minded means?"

Xu Long shook his head: "I don't know, but I don't think you are stupid, because in a relationship, you just need to accommodate each other..."

"What if it's just me who's over-convenient?"

"That's because your ex-husband is not good, it's not your problem." Xu Long said seriously, "Don't blame yourself. Love someone seriously and unconsciously accommodate the other person is something that everyone who falls in love will do."

"Do you do?"

"certainly."

Tang Jialin was curious: "For example, what aspect?"

Xu Long feels a little special about her now, and he is not willing to mention his past relationship, but after this, if he doesn't give an example, Tang Jialin may not believe his words.

"For example, accompany her to watch movies that I don't like, try foods that I don't like, wear clothes that she gives me but I don't like."

Tang Jialin remembered the couple's cups and asked again: "If your girlfriend bought couple's items, such as a pair of cups, would you use them?"

"certainly."

"Where are couples' shirts? Can you wear them?"

Xu Long looked puzzled: "You can wear it once or twice, you can't do it anymore."

"Why?"

"It's very strange." When Xu Long said it was strange, his face was also strange, "and they were all ugly."

Tang Jialin couldn't help but smile: "Actually, I think most couple shirts are ugly."

Xu Long breathed a sigh of relief: "Why should you wear the same clothes? I like everyone is different."

"But you can do things you don't like for the sake of the people you like?"

"Yes, not too much."

"But sometimes, if you are more accommodating, you will gradually lose the bottom line, and you will even unconsciously make excuses for the other party to rationalize his unreasonable behavior. For example, my ex-husband has never been to my grandma's house, and our whole family does not think there is anything wrong."

"Why?"

Tang Jialin sighed: "Because his family is very rich, my parents will think that the village is too simple, and my grandparents also feel that the family is not suitable for entertaining such a rich grandson-in-law."

"Where are you?" Xu Long felt that Tang Jialin should not be thinking about these things.

"Me," Tang Jialin looked up and looked at the drone flying in the air. "I always think that he is very busy and has a hard time working. Every time I come back to visit relatives, if I still have to visit my grandparents in the village, it will be too late to go back and forth on the same day."

"That's his problem." Xu Long convicted Tang Jialin's ex-husband again. "No matter how busy he is in his work, he will not be able to spend three years, and he doesn't even have time to come to the village to see him."

Tang Jialin said, "But I have never mentioned it."

"You are accommodating him and understanding him. This is very good. There is nothing wrong with it, but he is still the one who is wrong." Xu Long emphasized.

Tang Jialin turned to look at his blue eyes as clear as the sky: "Really?"

"Really." Xu Long nodded seriously, "As a husband, he should have thought of accompanying you to see grandma and grandpa, why do you still need to mention it?"

Tang Jialin's eyes also became firm: "You are right."

Xu Long continued: "I am not judge your ex-husband, but from what you said, we can tell that you are not equal in this relationship. He is arrogant and does not give equally. This is his problem and does not mean that your efforts are stupid and cheap..."

He felt that his words might be used incorrectly, so he lowered his head and asked, "Can you understand what I mean?"

Tang Jialin nodded. She not only understood, but also felt a little moved: "Thank you."

"No, thank you, it must be difficult to end a marriage." Xu Long raised his hand and gently pressed Tang Jialin's shoulder. "You did it."

This is the first time someone said this to her. When her family and friends heard about her divorce decision or the news that they had divorced, they all responded to what happened. Is it impossible to save it?

No one thought that she would make this decision and it would be "must be difficult" to get a divorce.

He also said in a congratulatory tone that you did it.

Tang Jialin felt her eyes hot, and subconsciously looked away and looked at Ye Niao, who was still controlling the drone in front.

"Thank you." She thanked in a low voice, "I feel much better."

Xu Long actually saw her eyes flushed, but since she wanted to hide it, as a gentleman, she naturally pretended not to see it, so she casually found a topic: "So what is a love brain?"

"It means that only love is in your mind, you will lose your mind and self because of love, focus all your energy on your lover, ignore your family and friends... That's probably what it means."

“Is it a bad word?”

Tang Jialin nodded: "It's considered a derogatory word."

"You are not a love brain." Xu Long said affirmatively.

"I'm not." Love brain is an adjective that appears when Tang Jialin denies herself. Now that she calms down, she naturally doesn't think so.

At this time, Ye Niuo just finished the shooting. They looked back at the shooting materials together and calculated the time. Grandma and grandpa should wake up, so they went back together to continue the afternoon shooting.

It’s dark early now, and grandma and grandpa have dinner early. They start cooking at around five o’clock and are served at six o’clock.

After dinner, Xu Long went out to feed the dogs with his grandfather, closed the chicken cage, went back to the house to read the news, talked for a while, and accompanied the two old men to watch half an episode of the TV series. The filming of the day finally came to an end.

Xu Long thanked his grandparents for the whole day of hospitality in the camera, hugged and said goodbye to them, and left the house, suddenly pointed to the sky: "So many stars."

Ye Niao, who was in charge of the camera, pointed the camera at the night sky and took the last set of cameras.

"Okay, go back." Tang Jialin said to her grandparents first, "It's cold outside. When we finish cutting the film, we will show you."

But grandma still watched them get in the car and drove out before closing the door and going back.

Xu Long sat in the car and kept shooting the yard that was gradually moving away with his mobile phone. He didn't press to stop recording until the car drove onto the main road from the village.

"I really like this place." He said, looking at the quiet village under the night sky.

"If you like it, just wait until you build a small building and stay for a few more days." Sun Yueqin, who was finally able to speak freely, replied.

"I will definitely come." Xu Long turned around and smiled at Tang Jialin's mother.

His smile was always so bright, Sun Yueqin was happy to see it, and said to Ye Niao: "Niao Niao is here too, you can barbecue meat in the yard at that time."

Tang Jialin drove the car and heard them imagine that they would build a new house and then play. Her mood was different from yesterday and she was particularly comfortable.

Yes, she has come out of that unequal marriage, and there is no need to look back, let alone reflect.

The future is so exciting, she just needs to greet it with joy. What do you think so much?
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