Xue Ling smiled and said angrily: "Stop coaxing your mother. Let's sort out the matter first, and don't rush to immerse yourself in negative emotions."

Cheng Huanran sighed long, with deep fatigue.

"Mom, I... don't know what to say to you. I don't know why, since we decided to get married, things seem to have become complicated... they are too complicated. In the past, I didn't understand the fear of men for their mother-in-law, and I always felt it was too exaggerated. Now it seems that I just haven't met it yet, and it's not that I can escape."

Xue Ling smiled softly: "Little Huzi may be able to give you some small suggestions."

"Puchi!" Cheng Huanran was amused, "Mom, be careful to be heard by Youyou."

Xue Ling shrugged: "Most men are afraid of mother-in-law and father-in-law, far more than you, Dr. Cheng. Son, our family relationships have always been harmonious, and the atmosphere of relatives and friends has always been very good, so when you deal with interpersonal relationships, you will inevitably have no experience and even suffer losses."

"Maybe." Cheng Huanran lowered his voice: "Our family never valued the material set. When Xiao Qiao's parents asked me to use Xiao Qiao's name to prove how deep my love for her, I was stunned. My willingness to marry her and make her my wife means a lifetime of promise... But they measured it from this perspective... I really can't accept it."

"Son, you are wrong." Xue Ling replied: "Modern people regard marriage very real, both emotions and materials. You cannot just emphasize feelings. As long as you love each other and be happy, marriage means that you will share a lot of things in the future, such as family, children, elderly people on both sides, careers and property, etc.."

Cheng Huanran complained and said: "Mom, but we are in love and getting married, not blind dates."

"But you are also getting married." Xue Ling asked back: "The essence of marriage will not change because of whether you are in a free relationship, right?"

Cheng Huanran leaned on the pillow like tiredness, his eyes empty and faint.

"I heard from my dad that when you got married, your family still owed a lot of debts. The next day you got married, you couldn't afford a bag of wedding candy. Mom, you didn't even have a serious relationship, but you could combine your childhood sweetheart with your parents' orders, marry first and then love, and manage your marriage well until today. But I am a medical student who graduated from graduate school and an intern at the First People's Hospital of the Imperial Capital. A salary can buy hundreds of bags of wedding candy. But my girlfriend, who has been in love with me for five years, is still hesitating whether to marry me, and is worried that there will be no financial guarantee in the future. Mom, don't you think it's ridiculous?"

Xue Ling almost couldn't help laughing out loud and comforted him: "Son, you don't need to suddenly have no confidence in yourself. In the eyes of parents, you are all very excellent children."

Cheng Huanran lowered his head and said in a silence: "It's not that I don't have confidence in myself... it's that I don't have confidence in our marriage."

Xue Ling couldn't help but sigh when she remembered the words of her second son earlier.

"When your deceased grandfather married your grandmother, he only used a load of food as a betrothal gift, and each made a new set of clothes to get married. When your grandfather married your grandmother, he only used a month's salary of more than ten yuan. At that time, everyone was poor and focused on supplies but had no supplies. His thoughts were simple and simple. Marriage meant building a family together."

"When my parents got married, they were in a little better situation, but most people were not really rich. My grandfather was very capable and had already started a clothing factory in the imperial capital, so our family could live in a small suite and bought a car. Your father and others lived in the countryside, so they could only barely have enough food and clothing, and they could only eat a little meat during the Chinese New Year and the holidays."

"At that time, the cost of getting married was not high. It was good enough to have a stable unit to receive a salary, whether it was a small factory or a small unit such as a supply and marketing cooperative. I remember that my first month of salary in the newspaper was 200 yuan, including lunch, and I could have the same meat at a meal. Every time I was reluctant to eat it, so I stayed in the lunch box and went back to the rental house to eat with your dad."

"Life is simple, light, but very warm. We are full of confidence in the future. We are busy from morning to night every day, and we have the same goal in our hearts - to improve our living standards and make this family richer step by step."

"For more than 30 years, the world has changed so much, and people's concepts have been changing. Nowadays, people do not lack supplies, food and drink, and as long as they work diligently, they can have a full meal. However, the gap between people is also widening, which makes the younger generation prone to anxiety, fear, and insecure. The one who shows the most prominent is the marriage process."

"Yes." Cheng Huanran's face was not very good, and said in a deep voice: "If I were just a poor boy, they would feel very good about themselves. On the grounds that Xiao Qiao was an only daughter, I had to marry into their family. As long as I married into my family, I didn't care about my family's situation, and I could do whatever I was poor. Now they knew that it was impossible for me to marry into my family, so they had to force me to pay for the house, because my daughter had to marry into our family and had to have enough financial security. Put her heart in hand. If I really agreed to marry into her family, they would probably feel that it would be great if they paid 200,000 or 300,000. But their daughter would need hundreds of millions of financial security in one go. What? Because she is a daughter, our family had to give in? Why?"

Xue Ling frowned slightly and asked, "What? Their attitude is very bad?"

"Yes." Cheng Huanran replied: "As a lofty expression as if I marry my daughter, I must write Xiao Qiao's name on the property under my name to ensure that she will not be wronged when she gets married into our family in the future and will have certain financial security."

Xue Ling was silent.

Cheng Huanran was excited: "Mom, is it great to have a daughter to get married? I promised that I would continue to love her and protect her and spoil her with my life. Why is it worthless in their eyes? It is not worth a name in the house book! I haven't said that I won't share the property under my name with her, and I won't do it! What people in our family value most is feelings, not real estate and money at all! We don't lack those!"

"Okay, OK." Xue Ling hurriedly held his hand, "Calm down first, don't yell. What about Xiao Qiao? Xiao Qiao also thinks so?"

Cheng Huanran was slightly stunned and whispered calmly: "She didn't say anything, she looked like she wanted to say something but stopped. I told her before leaving that if I felt that I was not trustworthy, she would not be happy no matter how much property she gave her. If she couldn't trust me, why would she marry me?... It would be better to part earlier. I left after that, and did not answer her phone number later."

Xue Ling sighed softly: "Don't be excited, communicate with her first. When you were a poor boy, you were able to fall in love with you for a whole five years, which shows that you are not a girl who really values ​​materials."
Chapter completed!