Chapter 2069 Misleading
Ah Hu couldn't help but frown and asked, "Not all?"
"No!" Chen Min smiled bitterly: "The boss is almost the same as Yang Yang from Ayuan's family, but Yang Yang is already the father of four children! None of the three are suitable for each other, so he still refuses to look for them - I am so worried!"
Ah Hu also looked disbelief: "At their age, if I could get a fixed salary a month, I would definitely find a partner! When I was in my twenties, my heart was so hot every day that I couldn't stop that kind of person!"
Everyone laughed.
Cheng Tianyuan said: "We were different from now. The materials were not as rich as they are now. They were very simple. It was already lucky to be able to fill their stomachs. At that time, we would have a brief answer to getting married. I would give you a wedding candy, wear a formal dress, wear a red flower, and post a big wedding. Even if I get married, it would be grand enough for families with better financial resources to put on a few dishes to invite friends to gather."
"Yes!" Ahu laughed and said, "If the unit can get thirty yuan in salary, it can be the kind of person who is the best! So I don't understand the young people nowadays. They have everything and life is so good. Why don't you find a partner if you don't get married?"
"It's influence." Chen Min frowned and explained: "My daughter loves to watch TV and mobile TV series all day long. Every time she tells me that the divorce rate is so high now. Since she will eventually get divorced, why should she get married? Her partner will make money and she can make money. After getting married, the child must be born to the woman, and the woman must take care of the housework. What can I get if I have to work and take care of her? In the end, I have to divorce. After divorce, the child is so pitiful, and I have to take care of the child. Where can I get the energy to make money? I can't do anything, but I'm afraid of marriage and childbirth. I also say that unless I can marry a rich and beautiful president like her cousin, I would rather be alone for the rest of my life."
"Xiao Tong?" Ahu asked, "Duoduo's wife? Yes?"
Chen Min nodded: "Among my sisters, the little Tong, the younger sister, is the best married. She is beautiful and has good grades in school. After graduation, she can still find such an excellent and rich husband, which makes her envious of all relatives. Young girls think that others can marry well, why can't she? So she chooses all kinds of dislikes and has a very high horizon. This is how my daughter is affected."
"Where do you get so many presidents!" Ah Hu laughed: "There are so many companies and groups in the imperial capital. How many young presidents are there yet? Ten fingers are enough?"
"Yes!" Chen Min stopped: "Everyone has to choose good ones, and he has such a high-mindedness. Where can I find so many excellent presidents to marry, right?"
Cheng Tianyuan said funny: "Little Tong is not necessarily so happy. She has to study and take care of her family and children, which is also quite hard. Besides, Duoduo is a workaholic, and everything is about work and work overtime every few days. The couple is busy with their own busyness, and they may not even get together on weekends. It looks very glorious and seems very good, but how many people can understand the hard work and bitterness in it?"
"Look!" Chen Min smiled bitterly: "Xiao Tong also has Xiao Tong's depression!"
Wang Qing's hands trembled and said in a low voice: "Mentality... is all a matter of mentality and three views."
Cheng Tianyuan nodded: "It's indeed all a matter of mentality."
"But I don't know how to persuade them." Chen Min shook his head: "I can't persuade them, and I don't know how to persuade them. Say a few more words, they think I'm nagging. If I don't say it, it seems that it's not right. As a parent, why can't the child live alone without finding a partner, right?"
Ah Hu patted his shoulder and sighed: "Brother, don't think too much. We really don't have many things to do. Children and grandchildren have their own blessings. If they think it's good, then let them do it."
"There is no way to do it if you don't follow me." Chen Min laughed and said, "I don't care about what they want. I ended up with divorce. I don't have the qualifications to teach the children how to organize their families and manage their families."
"You can't say that." Cheng Tianyuan whispered: "We can't do more things! Could it be that we are not qualified to care about our children? Yes?"
Chen Min smiled bitterly: "Parents are role models for their children. I can't do it. The children... are very disappointed with marriage and family. They are afraid of marriage and childbirth, and there are reasons for the failure of their parents' marriage."
"You are no wonder." Ah Hu comforted: "You have always been a good father, and they all know it in their hearts. They are now celebrating you and are very filial to you, that's enough."
Chen Min's eyes turned slightly red and he whispered: "If my family is harmonious and beautiful, why would the children be like this? Look at Ayuan's family, he and his sister-in-law have always been very affectionate, and several children are good. Even if they find a partner later, they will eventually go find one. They will not be afraid of getting married, nor will they insist on not getting married or not. Family and parents are the main factors influencing... I know."
"They have to think it through themselves." Cheng Tianyuan comforted: "There will be some more or less, but not all. The main reason is that the current media propaganda concept is not very correct. All the views on pleasure and optimistic consumption are not correct. What kind of life is short, love yourself more, buy all kinds of luxury goods, advanced consumption, etc. are not correct."
Ah Hu frowned and shook his head: "It's all wrong! It hurts a lot!"
Cheng Tianyuan continued to explain: "Some young people even use credit cards to buy luxury goods - these will cause trouble to the younger generation. How much money is spent, parents and families don't have to bear it? Even if they don't have to bear it for the time being, they don't have to plan for the future? The older generation is afraid of not saving. If there is no money around, they will feel unsure and uneasy. Young people must taste the pain and panic of not saving before they finally wake up. Some wrong ideas spread too quickly and have a very bad impact. It sounds very reasonable, and they coax and seduce them all. Young people are prone to making mistakes, and in the end they pay a heavy price."
"Young people have weak ears and no social experience, so they are easily deceived!"
"Yes! Recently, there are still a lot of people who prefer boys over girls, which makes family relationships indifferent and have various confrontations with their parents. My Xiao Yuner can't help but get angry every time she sees them! Girls are also raised by their parents, so how can they occasionally engage in confrontation and confrontation because of their different treatments? Family relationships are becoming worse and worse because of all kinds of messy TV series and media videos. Fortunately, Xiao Yuner has grown up and knows how to tell where is right and where is wrong."
"Not necessarily, one generation escapes by chance. Isn't there a next generation? Don't let your children see the messy things. We should promote the correct values and family view to avoid being taught randomly!"
Cheng Tianyuan raised his eyes and unconsciously found that the sunset had set, so he quickly got up.
"You can't rest, go back and wash the river clams. If you continue chatting, the supper will be gone!"
"Haha! Go back."
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Chapter completed!