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Chapter 341 Family Trivia

Several uncles and husbands were not around, and Lu Songli consciously took on the responsibility of parents.

Lu Songli greeted her fourth sister-in-law Su before she started to deal with this matter.

The cause of the matter was very simple. The third brother Qin Zhao asked someone to send back a few toys, and her mother-in-law gave them to her three daughters-in-law and asked them to share them with their children themselves.

Her fourth sister-in-law took two toys. After the child got off school, she gave the older one to Qin Dan and the younger one to Qin Bin.

When they were separated, Qin Bin wanted the older one, but her fourth sister-in-law refused on the grounds that he was the elder brother and wanted to let his younger brother go.

The children gathered together to play, and not long after, the two brothers started fighting.

Her fourth sister-in-law was very angry. After pulling the two of them apart, she taught the older Qin Bin a lesson, saying that he was ignorant or something.

Qin Bin couldn't help but talk back, saying that she was biased, which made her cry.

At this time, Qin Jia came to her and said secretly, "Aunt Six, don't scold the fourth cousin. In fact, outside, the fourth cousin protects the seventh cousin very much. However, every time the seventh cousin is injured, the fourth aunt will always criticize the fourth cousin and say that he did not protect the seventh cousin."

"Okay, Aunt Six knows. You go back to your room."

Lu Songli thought about it and knocked on Qin Bin's door first.

Now the Qin family occupies a total of three rows of bungalows, and the children also have their own rooms.

A tender but vigilant voice came from inside, "Who?"

Lu Songli was funny. The child was quite alert, "Your Auntie Six."

There was a silence in the room.

She wasn't in a hurry either.

After a while, a slight sound came from the room. Soon the door was slowly opened and a small head came out.

Qin Bin was relieved when he saw that his sixth aunt was really the only one outside.

"Aunt Six, come in."

Lu Songli noticed that his eyes were red.

After Qin Bin returned to the house, he sat on a chair and read the book.

After Lu Songli picked a seat and sat down, he waved to him, "Come on, talk to Aunt Liu."

"Aunt Six, I haven't finished memorizing the book that my master asked me to memorize."

"Okay, I'm not here to scold you, there's no need to be so careful about me. By the way, has Aunt Six cursed you?"

Qin Bin thought about it and shook his head. Aunt Liu really had never scolded anyone.

So Qin Bin walked over slowly.

"Did you fight with your brother today?"

"Yeah." Qin Bin replied softly, with a clear expression of resistance on his face.

Lu Songli asked him, "Did you win? Or did you lose? Are you happy after the game?"

Qin Bin lowered his head, but in fact, after the beating, he was always depressed.

"I think you're doing this stupidly."

Qin Bin was stunned. Aunt Liu said he was stupid, didn’t he say he was wrong?

"You are older than Qin Dan and you win. That's called winning without force. If you lose, I'll ask if you are embarrassed?"

Lu Songli did not talk about him from the right or wrong terms. Qin Bin's defense was removed all of a sudden. He thought about her words seriously, and it seemed that this was true?

"My brother is so annoying. He knows that I like the moving wooden horse, and he keeps hitting it, and doesn't cherish it at all."

"What is your purpose in fighting?"

Qin Bin was distorted.

Lu Songli understood, but she felt that his mother was biased and was better to her younger brother than him.

"After fighting this, have you got what you want?"

Qin Binxin said, no.

"You said something after the beating, which made your mother cry. Do you not feel sad if you know your mother is sad?"

Qin Bin: He will.

"So, we can't achieve our goal except hurting others and ourselves, right?"

Qin Bin nodded, then he hesitated for a moment and humbly asked, "Aunt Six, what should I do?"

"Your attitude and practice are very good now. As children, it is normal for you to long for parents and elders to pay attention, affirmation and love."

"If we have any requirements between relatives, we can say it directly, or use some methods to achieve our goals in a tactful way. If you have a way, use your way. If you have no way, play straight balls in the posture of a weak person." As the saying goes, sincerity is always a must-have trick, and children who will cry have milk to eat.

"Aunt Six, what is playing straight ball?"

"It is to express your feelings directly. For example, today's matter, you can tell your mother directly that you like the moving wooden horse very much. If possible, ask her to give it to you. Or discuss with your brother what to exchange for with him, instead of saying nothing, and holding your mind in your heart."

"And it's also true that you took your brother out for fun, and then he was injured, and Aunt Liu also knew about you being scolded by your mother. I will tell your mother later. Aunt Liu knew that your brother was injured, and you were also sad. He also knew that taking care of your brother is not your obligation. If you are willing to take care of your brother, it is your responsibility as your brother and you did a great job."

Qin Bin cried and nodded, indicating that he understood.

Qin Bin cried for a long time, and cried out all the grievances and sadness in his heart.

Lu Songli quietly stood by, occasionally handing him a handkerchief.

Lu Songli didn't blame the child as soon as he came up, saying that he was wrong and that was wrong, and then made his mother sad. Everything has cause and effect, and it may be the behavior of adults, which inadvertently hurt the child.

This is the first time I have been a human being. Are parents better than others?

When Qin Bin stopped crying, he became embarrassed.

Lu Songli knew that his side had solved it, so she also made a request to him, "Promise Aunt Liu, when you are angry, try to say less harsh words. Aunt Liu is not afraid that you will hurt others by hurting you, but is worried that you will regret it if you calm down."

They have all been children. In fact, because the body is growing, the hormones in the body have always been less balanced, and their control over emotions is almost too high and low. But Lu Songli still hopes that he can control it as much as possible.

"Okay." Qin Bin agreed.

Lu Songli knew that the child was committed to his promise and would try his best to do it once he agreed. "Then let's talk about this?"

"Well, Aunt Liu, are you tired? Hurry up and go back and rest."

"Then Aunt Six will leave, don't forget to recite the letter."

Qin Bin:...That's just his excuse.

After Lu Songli left Qin Bin, she went to find her fourth sister-in-law and told her that Qin Bin was fine.

"Sixth brother and sister, thank you, I'm really bothering you." Su was embarrassed.

Both her and her second sister-in-law and sister-in-law knew that the sixth brother and sister-in-law worked in the county magistrate's office, which was a secret matter in the Qin family. At the same time, she was also very busy, and her mother-in-law and they tried not to bother her about the trivial matters at home.

"Fourth Sister-in-law, we are a family, so we don't have to be so disgusted." Lu Songli found that Qin Dan was already asleep on her fourth sister-in-law's couch.

This time the problem was solved, and Su was still worried. The seven or eight-year-old boy was the age when the cat was tired of dogs. She was worried that there would be one or two fights.

When Lu Songli heard the source of her worry, she thought for a while and said, "Fourth Sister-in-law, in fact, it's not impossible for you to unite the two brothers."

I heard from Qin Sheng that Qin Dan looks very much like the dead fourth brother. The fourth sister-in-law's bias should be unconscious. To correct this unconsciousness, it is not possible to point it out, and another method must be used.

Su asked hurriedly, "What's the solution?"

She knew that the sixth brother and sister were resourceful and that it would be great that she could give herself an idea.

"Artificially create a common enemy for them and let them be united to the outside world." If Qin Ming is still alive, it is actually best for him, the father-in-law, to play this role.

Su didn't understand, "Sixth brother and sister, let me tell you in detail?"

"You're like this..."
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