Cheng Tianyuan sighed helplessly: "It's Afang's bad."

He still knows his own sister very well. He has almost no requirements for himself, but he has very high requirements for the people around him.

Everything you do is a whim, sometimes wind and sometimes rain. As your pockets become more and more bulging, your temper becomes more and more frustrating, and it is becoming more and more disappointing.

"She needs a good environment and various books to influence the fox's tail, otherwise the fox's tail will be exposed."

Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "She has been out of school for so many years, and I don't know how long it took for her to get the book. It's not easy!"

Cheng Tianyuan whispered in a low voice: "I've said she has replied countless times, but she just didn't listen to it. She is a person who will not turn back completely unless she is in a state of burning her boats."

As the saying goes, it is easy to change the country and nature is hard to change.

Her bad shortcomings are deeply rooted. Unless the environment is really difficult, she will still know where the mistake is and where it needs to be changed.

Xue Ling shook her head: "Forget it, I have advised Aheng to try my best to take into account my aunt's feelings. He also paid tens of thousands of yuan from me, intending to secretly give it to my aunt and Uncle Zhilan for the New Year. He was traumatized in his mind and comforted him properly, which was somewhat beneficial. In addition, I also gave him a trick, asking him to buy two elderly insurances for my aunt and Uncle Zhilan."

"Insurance?" Cheng Tianyuan asked: "Old man's?"

"Yes." Xue Ling whispered: "The elderly have very few insurances. This type of insurance is mainly for elderly people who fall or get injured. I bought them for several of our parents, just as long as the ID number. I asked him to give them to my aunt and Uncle Zhilan to show his filial piety."

Cheng Tianyuan smiled bitterly: "It is not easy for Aheng to be sandwiched in the middle."

"There's no way." Xue Ling shrugged: "He loved his wife and married him. Fortunately, Uncle Zhilan and aunt have a good attitude and have always been very tolerant of younger generations."

Cheng Tianyuan whispered: "It's all Afang..."

"It's not that much because of her personality." Xue Ling comforted her in turn and said, "Maybe if the environment changes in the future, she may not necessarily change it."

Cheng Tianyuan shook his head: "Unless she is letting her go all the way, it will be completely miserable, otherwise it will be too difficult."

Xue Ling was eating vegetables and couldn't help but smile bitterly to explain Xiao Jiaxue's sorrow.

"Jusheng just left, Jiaxue came and headed straight to my office. Her eyes turned red with anger. Before I could speak, she wiped her tears and cried and told her husband that there were too many bad things..."

"Impossible?" Cheng Tianyuan said: "Didn't that foreigner fall in love with her?"

"Yes." Xue Ling explained: "But life is not love. When you are in love, it is better to have a relationship. But marriage is different from love! Marriage is a lot of troubles every day. Foreigners' outlook on life and consumption are much different from ours. Jiaxue can't stand it, so she talks to me."

Cheng Tianyuan was curious and pricked up his ears.

Xue Ling had to continue: "Foreigners pay more attention to themselves in their lives, and pay more attention to their own freedom and personal space. They should have their own space and interests and various entertainment every day, but Jiaxue doesn't agree much, and advises him not to waste time and only care about himself. Foreigners always feel that Jiaxue is too involved in his personal thoughts and things, and he is very upset. So Jiaxue is dissatisfied with him, and he is also dissatisfied with Jiaxue. In addition, foreigners' consumption concepts are different from ours. We are all old people

The surname is used to living a savings life. If you can earn 2,000 yuan, you can't save 800 yuan, and you have to try to save 500 yuan. But foreigners don't think so. They like to have wine and get drunk today. The money they earn is to have to spend and enjoy. So when he makes money, he will immediately spend it. Jiaxue was angry and said that the family cannot have savings, so he has to save some, so he will use it to buy a house and a car in the future. In the future, the elderly will grow old. If there are children, it will be a huge expense."

Cheng Tianyuan blinked and asked, "Who has no parents? Has he passed away?"

"No." Xue Ling replied: "Foreigners' parents are all in their hometowns. After he was eighteen, he went out to school, rented a house independently, and occasionally went to see his parents during holidays. He usually just kept in touch and rarely met. He thought that parents were in charge of themselves and he was in charge of themselves."

Cheng Tianyuan asked back: "If the parents are sick, will he not care?"

"I guess I'll still take care of it," Xue Ling explained: "But their insurance system is relatively complete, almost everyone buys insurance. Rich families don't have to pay a few insurances. Even if they are sick, they don't have to pay a lot of money. But the intimacy of their families is not very similar to ours. There are very few families like ours who live together for generations, and their relatives don't move so frequently."

Cheng Tianyuan nodded slowly: "So they are relatively indifferent to each other?"

"You can't say that either." Xue Ling said: "It's different lifestyles, and the family view is naturally different. Xiao Jiaxue couldn't stand the idea of ​​foreigners' 'wine and drunk now'. She pursued a more beautiful villa area and a better car, but all of them needed to save money to buy. The foreigner's income is not low, but he spent all the money, leaving only some basic living expenses, and the rest were all squandered. Jiaxue was very angry and had arguing with him several times, but he was as always, and even blamed her for interfering in his financial control."

The biggest obstacle between husband and wife is distrust and inability to tolerate, blindly wanting the other party to accept their own ideas and then achieve unity.

Xiao Jiaxue tried to change her husband, hoping that he could have the same ideas as her, so that the family could be more harmonious and the long-term development of the family would be better.

But her husband was very irritable and was "littled by this and that" all day long. He didn't think it was a sweet burden, but felt it was a shackle and imprisonment, and all kinds of disrespect imposed on others.

So, the couple quarreled and were bothered almost every day.

After getting upset, I quickly forgot how the two of them were as close as possible, how romantic and beautiful, leaving only all kinds of anger and depression.

Cheng Tianyuan thought about it and asked back: "Jiaxue is also a foreign language major. She should still understand the consumption concept of foreigners, right? Why can't she be more tolerant when she reaches her own heart?"

Xue Ling smiled bitterly: "Understanding is one thing, but the actual situation is another. She has her own pursuit and her own dream. She wants her husband to be in line with her so that she can work together and realize her pursuit earlier."

Cheng Tianyuan shook his head: "I'm afraid this is too difficult..."

"Yes!" Xue Ling said: "I said that to her, but she thought they were not living abroad and their ideas could not be the same as those of foreigners. She also advised her husband to integrate into our society, and she must have the same ideas as her. The foreigners naturally refused, so they quarreled with her, and recently they even slept in separate rooms."

Cheng Tianyuan whispered in a low voice: "You should advise her to stop properly and not to go too far. Didn't she like his exotic style and exotic culture at the beginning? Foreigners didn't dislike her fat either, so she didn't need to dislike her concepts that were inconsistent with her."

"It's not that you dislike it, you should respect each other." Xue Ling explained: "I told her to retreat appropriately and not force it too much. It is already a kind of respect for him not to ask her to agree with him. On the contrary, she forced him and tried to change him, which was really not practical - it was too difficult."

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