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Chapter 1431 Xiao Han

The weather is stuffy and the heat is everywhere.

Xue Ling took a nap after taking a nap, but after less than half an hour of sleep, she was woken up by Xue Heng's phone call.

She asked sleepyly, "What's the matter?"

"Are you taking a nap?" Xue Heng couldn't help but speak sourly: "I'm not fifty yet and I'll retire. I'll just sleep until I wake up naturally in the morning, but I can take a nap--I'm so envious and jealous!"

Xue Ling smiled softly and said, "You can just want to retreat! Anyway, with the group's shares, you will be a billionaire even if you are idle. You can sleep twenty hours a day at that time."

"Forget it." Xue Heng couldn't help but sigh: "I have to work hard for Xiaohan for a few years. The more I earn, the more secure her life and life will be in the future."

Xue Ling didn't believe this and said, "It's better to teach people how to fish than to teach people how to fish. You shouldn't always spoil Xiaohan. Children should still do a good job in their studies, and don't put the cart before the horse. Otherwise, no matter how much you earn, you can't stand squandering the money."

As far as she knows, Xiaohan's grades are very ordinary and not very excellent.

Based on her current grades, there is little hope of getting into a key middle school, so she can only go to an ordinary middle school.

The child had a good potential, but unfortunately Xue Heng thought she was a girl and had to spoil her and hurt her, so he rarely strictly required her.

Children who have not been strictly educated will find it difficult to become successful unless they are self-disciplined and gifted.

Her wealth is not small. Even if the child does not struggle for life and lives a mediocre life, he can still live a rich life.

However, she never spoiled her children. She did not leave anything that should be strict and insisted on.

"You should cultivate some of your child's interests and hobbies and encourage her to pursue it. Xiaohan looks like she is not cheerful and has no special preferences, which is really bad."

Apart from Ranran, her children all have their own interests and hobbies, and she also supports them in their pursuit.

Except for the second child, others have very good grades in cultural courses, which lays the foundation for them to pursue their hobbies, and there are more choices on the fork in life.

After hearing this, Xue Heng couldn't help but smile bitterly.

"I'll call you... I want to ask you for a favor... About Xiaohan."

Xue Ling rolled his eyes and asked, "What's wrong? The little girl is in love early?"

"Where is it!" Xue Heng said with a hilarious voice: "Can you be a little serious? If a child has something to do, he will fall in love early? Look at your reaction!"

Xue Ling smiled and explained: "Xiao Han is already thirteen or fourteen years old, and the girl's mind is about to bloom. It's normal for her to fall in love early now! As a human being, you must have beautiful thoughts, otherwise it will not be romantic enough."

"No way?" Xue Heng asked: "Can you both Ah Chong and Xiao Xin fall in love too?"

Xue Ling replied: "I guess there is, but I'm not sure, so I didn't ask. Isn't it normal for them to have beautiful little thoughts at this age?"

Although they didn't take the initiative to say it, she guessed that there were some tricks of writing love letters or sending small gifts.

The children are old and should have their own little secrets. Even if she and her husband know, they will pretend not to know.

Xue Heng asked in surprise: "No way? It's okay? Ranran and Yangyang are not allowed. One is a graduate student with outstanding grades, and the other is an undergraduate student at Imperial Capital University. Even if they marry a wife and come back to be your daughter-in-law, you can ignore it. But Xiao Chong and Xiao Xin are just going to be in the second year of high school, right? Now is the age to study hard, so your homework is so nervous! Are you worried that their early love affects your grades?"

"It's useless to worry." Xue Ling said: "They are all very sensible and know that their most important task is to study. Keep your mind in your heart and secretly make tricks. If we parents are overly concerned at this time, things may become serious. Forget it, don't meddle in other people's business, and do whatever you should do."

"No way? You see so openly?" Xue Heng was a little disbelief.

Xue Ling smiled and grabbed her hair.

"Otherwise? Children have to grow up! Ranran and Yangyang should have had this situation before, and we didn't pay too much attention. How long can a love in high school last? More than 90% of them end in failure. If your grades have not affected you, just pretend not to know."

Xue Heng thought for a while and whispered: "This... I guess I have to learn from you."

"That won't work." Xue Ling reminded: "Xiaohan is a bit serious and sensitive. You can't do the same, otherwise it may backfire."

Xue Heng couldn't help asking: "Then do you suggest me interfere?"

"No." Xue Ling replied: "Assess appropriately, guide correctly. Reasonable interference does not mean obstruction. Protecting children's mental health is the most important thing."

When Xue Heng heard this, he couldn't help but sigh.

"Xiao Han... is indeed not very similar to other children. She is very sensitive and has a lot of emotional changes. Sometimes I don't even know what she is thinking because her true thoughts are hidden very deeply."

Xue Ling felt distressed and whispered: "She may need a more lively playmate or classmate."

After all, children who are grown up in single families will have weaker ideological and psychological qualities.

Xue Heng said: "But she can't get lively... She was quite active when she was a child, but the more she grew up, the quieter she became. The girl was quite quiet, but she was not really quiet, she was very dull, and her eyebrows always had a sense of melancholy. Alas... occasionally I was really at a loss... but I have tried my best. For so many years, my family has been my pillar, and then I made money from work."

"I know the reason why," Xue Ling said the truth: "But what can I do? No one can change the established facts. When you divorced, you didn't think about the children carefully, and you couldn't think about them."

In the scene like that, I really had to divorce.

Although divorce is easy, the root causes of divorce are not so easy to remove, and the most serious of them is the mental health problems of children.

Children who grow up with healthy and happy families will have better psychological qualities than children from divorced families, and will be cheerful and active, and will get along better with others and have more friends.

Of course, this is just in most cases, not every child is like this.

But Xiaohan is a poor child who is obviously affected.

Xue Heng sighed and whispered: "We... are sorry to Xiaohan. Over the years, I have tried my best to make up for it... Except for a complete family, I have tried my best to do the best. Today I talked to Xiaohan and tentatively said that my father might have to find a companion, otherwise when she grows up and gets married, my father will be lonely. Xiaohan suddenly felt very unhappy and cried and said that she didn't want others to be her mother, she just wanted her own mother."

Xue Ling raised his eyebrows and asked, "You didn't say it carefully, right? No? It's just a test of the assumption?"

"Yes." Xue Heng whispered helplessly: "Even if it was an assumption, Xiao Han would not agree... and said that we should consider... remarriage."
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