Chapter 1263 Something is a little bit wrong
Ye Yuran: "Why do you think others can do things that you can't do? If your eighth sister is not lucky and meets a man with no prospects, will you still expect it?
Your eighth sister is going to be a beggar and beg for food?”
“Not necessarily…”
Ye Yuran glared at him: "It's not true, but isn't that a metaphor? Instead of waiting for it to happen and regret it, I might as well raise your eighth sister as a boy from the beginning and let her learn more skills.
.When I am gone and you can't rely on it anymore, she can still support herself and live a prosperous life by herself. Wouldn't that be better?"
"...Mom, you're right." What else can Zhu San say besides this?
"Since I'm right, just keep it in your heart. When you have a daughter in the future, you will raise it according to me. Don't raise a girl like a waste. You always expect others to be kind to her and to live a life of others all day long.
, That is not called love between husband and wife, that is called silk flower.”
...
Zhu San never expected that he was just suspicious, but his mother scolded him.
Not only was he criticized, he also had to cooperate with his mother and raise Zhu Bamei on it.
well……
A good daughter must be raised as a son.
However, he couldn't say that his mother was wrong, because rationally, he knew that what he was right.
After seeing him coming back, Xu Yujin sighed while soaking his feet, looking puzzled, "What's wrong with you? Didn't you say that going to the county magistrate went smoothly? Why did you sigh?"
"It has nothing to do with that."
"What's that? Tell me, I'll listen. One person is short-sighted and two people are strong-sighted. Maybe there can be a way to solve it."
Zhu San looked at her and said, "This matter... cannot be resolved."
Xu Yujin's question mark face.
Zhu San saw that she really wanted to know, and didn't hide it. After wiping her feet, he asked the servants who were serving in the house to go down and said to her: "If we have a daughter, how do you plan to raise her?"
Xu Yujin blushed a little, wondering why he was talking well, so he got on this topic.
She said, "How else can I raise it? Of course I have to raise it well... Why, do you dislike your daughter? That's not possible. Whether it's a son or a daughter, they are our children. You can't favor boys over girls."
"I don't prefer boys over girls. Now our family has more boys and fewer girls. If you really give birth to a daughter, maybe my mother will be happy." Zhu San held her hand and said, "What's the situation in other people's family?
I don't know, but my mother is a 'respecting girl over boys' in our family."
Xu Yujin was surprised.
"Don't believe it. None of us brothers has been favored by eighth sisters. From childhood to adulthood, all the good things in the family were eighth sisters. At the beginning, the family was not in good condition, and the eldest sister-in-law and the second sister-in-law got married.
At that time, I had to prepare foot washing water and clothes for my eighth sister..."
Xu Yujin: “…”
No, the eighth sister doesn’t look like that?
"Ahem! It's true, but later the family's conditions improved and there was a servant, so it was embarrassing to tell such things, so I didn't let anyone tell you."
No, it was not that I didn’t let someone circulate it, but later Zhu Bamei changed it and her relationship with her sister-in-law improved, so this happened.
If you ask the elderly in the village and ask about things that happened earlier, you might be able to ask them.
"This kind of thing is really hard to spread. The girl's family is thin-skinned, and this is about to spread, and the eighth sister has no face to see anyone." Xu Yujin looked at him suspiciously, "It's been so long, you still remember it.
, Could it be that she is jealous of the eighth sister?”
She found it a little funny. Unexpectedly, her man looked mature and steady, and was even jealous of a little girl like this?
Hahahahaha...
She didn't think about the bad things. After all, after she got married, she saw Zhu Bamei's kind of person.
She thought that the eldest sister-in-law and the second sister-in-law would prepare foot washing water and clothes for Zhu Bamei because they loved this only sister-in-law.
Zhu San saw her misunderstanding, but did not defend himself: "Why am I jealous of her? But at that time, the brothers in the family did not like Eighth Sister. Today I told you that this was not for this, do you still remember it?
I ask you the question, if we have a daughter, how do you plan to raise her?"
"Didn't I say it, be nice to her."
"Why did you treat her? You're spoiled? Or let her learn things when she was young, raise them as a boy, and let her learn skills..."
Before he could finish his words, Xu Yujin laughed: "Oh, what are you saying, a little girl, you raise her as a boy, and you don't worry about laughing at me if you tell her. Since she is a daughter, she will naturally be spoiled, like the eighth sister.
, Give her the best everything, make new clothes, make head flowers, and give it to her..."
Balabala, Ye Yuran built a toy house for Zhu Bamei, made new clothes, and some sisters-in-law stuffed them into Zhu Bamei, and Xu Yujin picked them up all of them.
She also hopes that she and Zhu San’s daughter will be treated like that in the future.
Zhu San looked at her with a strange expression: "You... saw this?"
His mother forced Zhu Bamei to learn things, and she was like a cow. She asked to do business and manage Zhu's elementary school. She even threw out the matter of dealing with County Mayor Dai...
Didn’t Xu Yujin find anything strange?
Could it be that his wife is also a fool?
It’s not that Xu Yujin is stupid, but there is a word called “one leaf is blinding”.
When he was a child, Xu Yujin learned a lot, such as reading and literacy, female red, housekeeper, store management, and taking care of her future husband...
Not long after she entered the door, she didn't stay in Zhujia Village's wife. She really didn't know what Zhu Bamei did all day.
What's more, what Lin Sanmei and Lin Simei learned are quite normal.
They were taking care of Zhu's elementary school, and they were still trying to help Ye Yuran build a banner. Even if Zhu Bamei didn't know her own affairs, how could Xu Yujin know about it?
Zhu San said, "Ahem... don't you think that the eighth sister has interfered too much? She is a girl in her teens. Before she gets engaged, she has done this and that all day long, and is still being
My mother sent her to deal with the county magistrate... Which girl is so young can she go to communicate and negotiate with someone on behalf of a family?"
Xu Yujin: “…so?”
Zhu San gave her a look that she could understand.
Xu Yujin: She seems to understand, but...
"Do you think it's a bit bad for the eighth sister to show up in public?" Xu Yujin's expression was strange, "But, I'm not the woman in the Zhu family who married into the Zhu family... isn't this always the case?"
She thought that this was the tradition of the Zhu family.
As soon as I got married, I found that the Zhu family's money was in the hands of the women at home. The mother-in-law and mother-in-law were in charge, the daughter-in-law and daughter-in-law were in charge, and the girl was in charge, but there was no man.
If it weren't for Zhu San and Zhu Qi studying outside, the fields at home were also planted by men from the Zhu family, and Xu Yujin would almost think that men from the Zhu family would have "been a soft meal".
Let’s look at Zhujia Village again…
Xu Yujin decided that she would just follow the local customs, perhaps because she was so strange.
Chapter completed!