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Chapter Eight Shit Love

After looking at Li Chengyou speechlessly for a long time, Jin Jiyun frowned and said depressedly: "You still say that I want to eat shit, but you yourself are not the same? According to what you said, if you can accept me, I can only

Are you being magnanimous and generous and letting you attract bees and butterflies outside? Okay! Even if I am out of my mind, I agree to you. But you keep me waiting for you. No matter how good you promise, who knows what you will do in these years of waiting for you?

Will I be seduced by some vixen and throw me aside in a blink of an eye? Then I will be in vain."

"Ah!"

Li Chengyou sneered and said contemptuously: "How can I say that you women have big breasts and no brains? Your breasts are not big, but they are about the same as those brainless people. You don't even have to think about how stupid I must be to let you go.

I don’t want such a tolerant wife, but I want to make trouble for myself and find a troublemaker for myself? Am I so stupid?!"

Jin Jiyun pouted and said: "Love makes people stupid. What if you meet true love? You are not with me because you like me."

"Bullshit love, that's all you women have in your head."

Li Chengyou complained, then simply turned around and faced Jin Jiyun: "Okay, today I will have a good talk with you and make you feel completely at ease. I want to know whether you want to be my spare tire or not."

Jin Zhiyun pouted and said: "Okay, I will listen to you and see what nonsense you can tell!"

Li Chengyou chuckled, thought about it, and said, "Okay, let's talk about love. In fact, I don't believe in love at all."

This sentence was definitely made by Li Chengyou.

He had lived for decades in his previous life, and it was not like he had never been in a passionate love relationship. As a result, after a heart-breaking breakup, he realized that bullshit love was just that. There was no one in this world that he couldn't live without.

Who, in less than two or three months, or at most half a year, will slowly fade away in the blink of an eye. Even from the experiences of friends and classmates in previous lives after falling in love and getting married, I have discovered that the sweeter things are before marriage, the more miserable they will be after marriage.

Shun Xin, within a few years they will all be finished one by one.

"Let's first talk about what love is. Love seems to be quite beautiful, tender and honeyed, and honey mixed with oil. But among those who are obsessed with love, how many can really last? The so-called love, to put it bluntly

Yes, its essence is selfish. No matter whether you are a man or a woman, tall or short, fat or thin, ugly or handsome, or poor or rich, the starting point of these three words "I love you" shows

Understand the essence of love, it is 'I' who loves you. So the so-called love, everything is for 'me', for 'my' needs, and it all starts from the selfish concept of 'me' alone."

"Since it starts from the selfish concept of 'I', then when a person loves another person, he desires repayment while giving. This is human nature, and because he is full of illusions about love, he expects to only enjoy it.

Love is romantic, but hates the daily necessities of reality. Therefore, all those sweet loves are basically short-lived. Once they return to the daily necessities of life, the so-called illusory sweetness will be like bubbles in the sun, and they will be disillusioned one by one.

, and finally returned to reality.”

"But women are different from men. Men are more rational, while women are more emotional, so once they return to reality, men will soon wake up and take on their responsibilities, while women are still floating in the air and cannot fall.

In fact. Therefore, as long as a woman gets married, except for a very small number, almost no one is satisfied with the marriage. Either she blames the lack of food, rice, oil and salt, or blames her husband for neglecting her. Anyway, there is always something dissatisfying and unsatisfactory..."

"Nonsense!"

Hearing this, Jin Jiyun couldn't help it and interrupted: "In stories from ancient times to the present, women are the ones who give the most and stick to love, okay? Like Romeo and Juliet, Juliet can die for Romeo, and Liangshan

Bo and Zhu Yingtai, Zhu Yingtai also died for Liang Shanbo after his death. On the contrary, you men are more of a ruthless, unrighteous and capricious person, just like Chen Shimei."

"cut!"

Li Chengyou sneered and said: "You said it yourself, which of these two couples has a good ending, and it doesn't even get to the stage of marriage? - Since it's about love stories, think about it yourself,

After reading all the love stories at home and abroad, which one is truly perfect? ​​Not all of them are finished until the end. There are also those stupid TV dramas nowadays, where a poor girl meets a domineering president, or a rich girl falls in love with a poor boy,

In the end, both of them went through hardships, and the lovers finally got married.

Why do you women like to watch TV series like these? Isn’t it because it’s impossible in reality? If nothing else, let’s just talk about the one that’s closest to us and everyone knows it. What’s the ending of Samsung’s Miss Li and her security guard husband?

It’s not that there are always rumors on the Internet that they have been having conflicts every few days, and their lives are almost unbearable. I can safely conclude now that these two will say goodbye in the end."

How can I not be sure? I have seen it in my previous life. The divorce lawsuit was so painful...it's the tragedy of the poor.

I don’t know whether the facts are true or not, but classmate Xiao Ren is almost being branded as a scumbag among scumbags.

Shaking his head, Li Chengyou said again: "You women are born to love fantasy and are keen on some unrealistic things. Men are like the earth, and women are like clouds. They like to float in the sky and pursue romance.

But actually.

Do you see any clouds in the sky that are always floating? In the end, they turn into rain and fall to the earth. Smart women know how to moisturize the earth after falling to the ground, and then return to reality. And those women who are obsessed with love and romance

, she will only be disgusted with the mud on the ground, despise this and that, and long for another passionate man to turn her into water vapor and float back to the sky again.

so.

Love is always temporary. Once you return to reality, the more passionate you are when you are in love, the more passionate it is. When the fire weakens, the faster it goes out and the clearer the disillusionment becomes."

Looking at Jin Jiyun, Li Chengyou said again: "So, haven't you noticed? In the past, when we didn't pursue free love, once a man married a woman, it lasted a lifetime. Because there was no tenderness and sweetness at the beginning, and there wasn't much romance.

So the expectations are not high. After marriage, the shortcomings and advantages of both parties gradually emerge. There is a bad side but there is also a good side. Women see the bad side of men, but at the same time they also see the good sides of men.

Now, okay, you can fall in love freely. Before getting married, in order to attract the other person, you should show all your good sides, and either hide or ignore the bad sides. Once you get married, you no longer need to hide them, and all the advantages will be gone.

, all you see are shortcomings, do you think you can still live this life?

So you see, more and more people are getting divorced after getting married. Once things go a bit wrong, they no longer have the heart to compromise and tolerate each other, and they can go to the Civil Affairs Bureau the next day after divorce.

Of course, this is also related to social development, scientific and technological progress, women are becoming more and more independent, and they no longer need to continue to rely on men financially.

But after all, there is still one point that cannot be avoided. Anyone who is obsessed with love and cannot return to life will not be able to last forever.

To put it bluntly, love only looks beautiful, but its nature determines that it is difficult to last long.

Otherwise, look at why fewer and fewer people are willing to get married now, and everyone only thinks about falling in love. Today they date this person, and tomorrow they make friends with that one. In the peaceful and prosperous times, women’s independence and equality between men and women are now advocated. No.

What's the point of it, if the man takes the lead outside and the woman takes over the home, what else can she do if she doesn't do meaningless things all day long?

Anyway, I have seen through it all. Bullshit love is just temporary passion. It can be played for fun. If you are serious, you are seeking to suffer.

In short, I will definitely not get married because of love in the future, but to find a down-to-earth woman who knows how to return to life and is willing to do nothing. Once married, it will last a lifetime, and I will be too lazy to waste time and go back and forth.

Of course.

I don’t have any thoughts of getting married now, so I’ll just go with the flow and have fun. Otherwise, in this peaceful and prosperous age, I won’t be able to stand up and leave my name in history, and if I don’t do some meaningless things to pass the time, then this

Life seems too boring.

so.

Again, I don’t believe in love at all, and it won’t last long.

But I am a vulgar person. Like most ordinary men, I will definitely get married and have children in the future. I want to find a wife and I want to live a solid life. This is not second-hand. So, if you can accept me as a vulgar person, there is no need at all.

Have those concerns.

If I promise to marry you, I will definitely marry you, and once I get married, I will be married for life, and there will be no divorce 100%.

After all, it’s not easy to find a girlfriend just for casual fun, but to get married, it’s better to find an acquaintance than to live alone. We are all familiar with each other, and you know my virtues. After marriage, there will be less trivial nonsense!

How about it?

After hearing these truths from me, why don't you think about it seriously?

Romance and romance will not be the norm in our lives in the future, but I can absolutely guarantee that you will not worry about daily necessities. As long as you are not too prodigal, you can spend the money at home freely.

Is this condition absolutely acceptable?"

Jin Jiyun: "..."
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