Chapter 12: Class
12. Attend class
No matter who you are, you must be reasonable and not bully others!"
"Who dares to bully you!"
"Speaking of my partner in front of me is bullying me."
Zhang Yu said and went home.
At home, Erniu is cooking.
"Sister, I heard that sister Yingzi committed suicide after diving into the water and was rescued. You went to her house to comfort her. Is she okay now?"
Zhang Yu sat down at the simple dining table: "She is fine."
Erniu: "Sister, I heard from the villagers that Sister Yingzi jumped into the water because someone did that to her. What was that?"
Zhang Yu looked at Erniu's clean and clear eyes and didn't know how to explain to her.
This is a question from a physiological hygiene class.
Xiaobao ran over from outside and said, "I heard that the man on the mountain raped Sister Yingzi that day. Sister, what do you mean by raping?"
The two children used different words but had the same meaning, but Zhang Yu was a bit speechless and didn't know how to answer.
Zhang Yu struggled to open his mouth: "That and waste both mean the same thing."
"I still don't understand, how did that person abuse sister Yingzi?" Erniu.
"I don't understand either." Xiaobao said.
Facing the two young and upturned faces, Zhang Yu tried hard to organize his words. For the first time, he felt that he was clumsy and could not open his mouth.
According to the concept of modern parents, children should receive sex education as early as possible, understand the correct views on love and marriage as early as possible, and learn to protect themselves as early as possible.
But those parents will do their homework early, buy relevant books, or consult professionals, so that they can guide their children correctly and effectively.
However, Zhang Yu had no knowledge reserve or psychological preparation in this area.
She herself learned this knowledge through reading books. In this era, there were no books on this topic. The responsibility of teaching them this knowledge could only fall on her, the eldest sister.
It is too difficult to be this big sister.
Zhang Yu thought for a while: "Let me give you an analogy! For example, we take the cabbage in our field and eat it ourselves. Isn't it normal and appropriate?"
The two children nodded.
"What if someone else's pig eats it?"
Erniu blurted out: "Isn't that a waste?"
Zhang Yu clapped his hands: "Yes, that's what it means."
Xiaobao looked confused: "Then Sister Yingzi was abused by that person? Was she eaten by that person?"
Zhang Yu was speechless.
Xiaobao scratched his little head in confusion: "I saw Sister Yingzi yesterday. She was fine, and she didn't have any arms or legs. Why was she eaten by someone?"
"I'm just making a metaphor." Zhang Yu couldn't help but laugh and cry as he argued.
She made up her mind and stopped avoiding this problem.
"My metaphor is inappropriate. Let me tell you in another way! Do you know how a child is born?"
Xiaobao rushed to say: "I know this. When a girl and a boy get married, they will have children."
"Xiaobao is half right. After a girl marries a boy, the boy plants his seeds into the girl's body. The seeds gradually grow up, and when they are born, they are children. Do you understand?"
The two children nodded.
"A girl and a boy can only get married when they reach a certain age, because before that, their bodies have not developed well, so they cannot plant seeds. That would be very harmful to the body, you know?"
They nodded seriously.
Zhang Yu continued to explain: "The bad guy that Sister Yingzi met wanted to plant seeds in her body. This is illegal because only two people after marriage can do this kind of thing. Strangers force others to do this kind of thing."
The thing is, the bad guys. Fortunately, Brother Chunhua and I got there in time, and the bad guys didn't succeed. They just pinched her and knocked her unconscious."
Seeing the two children looking like they were thinking, Zhang Yu didn't know if they understood his explanation.
"Do you understand?"
Erniu: "This means that Sister Yingzi didn't want the bad guy to plant seeds in her body, so the bad guy choked her unconscious?"
"right"
Erniu: "Then why do the people in the village say she was abused?"
"Because a girl can only let the boy she marries sow her seeds. If others do that, they are raping that girl. Of course, Sister Yingzi has not been raped, as the villagers say."
"Why do people in the village talk nonsense?"
"Some people are bored and talk nonsense all day long. Some people can't see the good things in others, so they wish others to live in misery, so they deliberately slander. There are also some people who have no sense of right and wrong. What others say doesn't matter.
Say what you say without knowing how much harm it will cause to others."
Erniu: "Does it hurt Sister Yingzi a lot if they say this?"
"Of course, this has a great impact on a girl's reputation. If she looks for her husband in the future, her husband's family will think that such a girl is not good. In rural areas, you can't find a good husband."
Erniu: "Sister Yingzi is the best woman in Dongyang Village. Oh, no, the best woman is the eldest sister, and sister Yingzi is considered the second best."
"You all like sister Yingzi?"
Xiaobao: "Sister Yingzi often brings me food from home. I like sister Yingzi."
"Sister Yingzi often comes to our house to help with the work, and she speaks very softly. I also like sister Yingzi."
"Then, how about letting sister Yingzi live with us?"
Xiaobao jumped for joy and clapped his hands: "Okay! Okay!"
Erniu: "Aren't we going to the provincial capital?"
"I plan to invite her to go to the provincial capital with us. Here, she is forced to dive into the water. Even if she stops asking for shortcomings in the future, in the eyes of the villagers, she is just a cabbage that has been eaten by a pig.
If she lives in other people's comments every day, she won't be able to find a good husband in the future. Once she goes to the city and leaves these talkative women, she can live happily as before."
Erniu: "These people are the most hateful."
Xiaobao: "Yes, let Sister Yingzi go into the city with us, and we will protect her."
Zhang Yu couldn't help but pinch Xiaobao's soft little face gently.
"Xiaobao is a brave and kind-hearted good boy. When he grows up, he will definitely be a real man."
Xiaobao puffed up his chest proudly: "When I grow up, I will protect you and never let anyone bully you."
Zhang Yu laughed and kissed Xiaobao.
Xiaobao is actually a little shy.
"Sister, you finally smiled. You haven't smiled since grandpa left."
"Grandpa over there doesn't want us to be unhappy all the time, does he?"
Erniu: "Grandpa told me before he left that he hoped we would live happily in the future."
"I will lead you to live a good life so that grandpa can rest assured."
Chapter completed!