2. After graduating from school for 4 or 5 years, career development has entered a new stage. At this time, getting married and having children may delay the best career development period. However, many of us professional women are not so busy. Take me as an example. I have my own hobbies and I am immersed in my hobbies. Although my hobbies do not help me at all, they destroy my own life and get spiritual happiness, but others will never understand. Many people do not understand what I think, and I do not understand what I think. If I know what I think, professional women will probably understand their own ideas. I will not go into this matter in depth.

3. Of course, if you can find an excellent boyfriend at this time, it would be perfect. After all, you are already such an excellent person. If you can meet an excellent partner again, how happy life will be. Your boyfriend or husband has a good career development, then everyone will have to be busy with work and probably not when they meet. How long does this kind of love last? Excellent men hope that women will be housewives at home, but on the one hand, they cannot give up their career development, and on the other hand, they are also worried about their future family status. This has led to a situation where women in the workplace are afraid of wolves and tigers in the front. Even if women in the workplace are very good at work,...

4. More women are subject to gender discrimination and cannot be reused in the company. They hope to prove their strength through more efforts. However, not every woman can achieve ultimate success. However, women in the workplace are very strong. Many times, if they can't go up, don't be too persistent and change their lifestyle and mood. I don't know what will change the focus of their lives in today's workplace women. Why are girls now so stubborn and don't know how to adapt. Haven't they really thought about their future? Alas, the so-called freedom of the mind is not escape, suffering, or doing whatever they want.

The above problems are the same for everyone. Each of us has our own pressure and our own various addictions. Many times, our pressure is not relieved and causes us to fall into pain. Don’t live in helplessness and resentment. At this time, we should go to a psychiatrist. Some people say: "A life with a planned life is called a trip, and a life without a planned life is called stroll." God instructed the professor once said: "In the process of a person's career development, if he does not take the initiative to plan, he will be planned." Whether it is a man or a woman, we must let go when it is time to let go.

This is not only good to ourselves, but also responsible for our partner. It is good to have something like self-esteem, but we don’t care too much if we don’t have words. In fact, many times, self-esteem is not a necessity for our life, nor is it that we are no longer human beings without self-esteem, nor that we are no longer human beings after letting go of self-esteem. Sometimes, let go of our self-esteem in front of specific people, specific things, and specific things, and say more in our hearts, and don’t hide everything in our hearts.

I don't understand this. I have always classified this type of person as strangers when I met on blind dates. I personally think that we can speak psychological words to a stranger. However, why are girls so repulsive to strangers nowadays and like to see people based on their first impressions? If she has a good first impression of you, she can take time to talk to you. On the contrary, if she has a bad impression of you, she will not bother to pay attention to you.

It is a sincere and straightforward heart, a ***t that faces oneself, a courage to act and bear any consequences, and requires great wisdom. And there is no such thing in Xiaoxiao. It is either I look down on her or I belittle her. I just think that if a person does not even have basic integrity, such a person will be difficult to gain the trust of others. Moreover, she also argued: "Say her avatar is an old photo, that is the one she used to be, and what you see now is the one you now."

I said: You used to be a little better, but why do you look like this now? I really can't praise you.

She told me: No matter how beautiful I was in the past, it was already over, and no one could live in the past.

Yes, you said you were so pretty before, and if you went back to the past, you wouldn't have to go out for a blind date. I could feel her inner feelings. Think about it, when we were most proud, they were all very strong, but if we couldn't control our own words at that time, we would basically be done.

She told me not to worry about her past, we should live in the present, right? She asked me.

We should live in the present, but it would be great if you had half of what you used to be. It's a pity that time has passed, and beauty no longer wanted to be a girl. But when she was over 25 years old, she yearned for a childish face! Those women who are still over 30 years old and still have the tightness and glory of girls, the force of time on them is very terrible, proving that childish face will definitely pass with time! No matter how good you do to resist old age, it can withstand the test of time and exudes childish brilliance different from your age, but you are no longer the childish beauty! If you know that you are anxious, but now girls have become aunts, and you don't know that they are anxious, and they live self-righteously. It feels good. What do you do to us men? You really can't communicate with girls like you.

The beauty we lost is gradually fading away at will, and none of us can grasp the passage of our lives, right?

I don’t want to discuss such a heavy topic with her. I just went on a blind date, not discussing the problem with her. Only when we grow one year older will we notice our aging. Our daily work occupies all our time, and we don’t even think about our own time. But what do we get when we work hard, power or wealth, or the life we ​​want. We have nothing, but why do we still have to fight for this illusory life?

I can't understand others, just like others can't understand me. Each of them has different ideas and it's difficult to reach a consensus, let alone two strangers, it's even more difficult to reach a consensus. It's difficult to date blindly, not to say that the people we've met on blindly, but rather that we like to make arbitrary decisions and like to evaluate one randomly without really understanding others. The conclusions we get in this way are not objective and one-sided. Many times, we don't even understand each other, and think that the other party is inappropriate. Why is this?

Is it true that we are so outstanding or others are so bad that we feel that there is no need to understand. If we continue like this, blind dates will have no meaning at all. Girls want to find a more suitable person from many people, but when they look at many men, it is not that the men in the past will still be waiting for them in the same place. Wait for their reciprocity to change their minds. When we reject someone, we will never have more communication with the person we refuse. Better to be friends, but most of them will no longer communicate and no longer communicate. In other words, we do not mean that the more blind dates we get, the more resources and choices we get.

Blind dates are actually very simple, just like the method of exclusion. After one is missing, the last one we choose may not be as good as the person we met before. But we always wishfully think that the last one is the best. I just want to say that it may not be like this. From real life, the worst we encounter in the end are all the worst, and we will settle for it. Wherever we imagine, we should not deceive ourselves. We should accept reality and think about our future as we should do.

God's instructions are helpless, but I can't convince others to make changes because I don't have such a great influence and the ability to change a person's fate. At this time, I can't say anything I can say. I can only write it down for others to see it, hoping that others can understand something from the words God's instructions. This is my greatest achievement in life.

People always like to say helpless words that have passed by and the light and shadow flies. It is not because we ourselves have not grasped the last depressing words of our youth. If we have been living seriously and not doing anything that makes our youth regret, we should have worked hard when we work hard. This sentence is not like this. We only sigh that youth is infinitely good, but it is near dusk. In fact, we all know that youth is very beautiful, and each of us should be proud of our youth. This is our own youth. We have been happy, happy, sad, and painful...

This is enough. With these different feelings, we should have no regrets. This is youth! It is fair to each of us youth. We only have one youth, once pure and once immature. As time goes by, when we take out our young photos, we should feel happy and happy. Because we were so happy at that time, sometimes we couldn't recognize each other. How could we look so handsome at that time? We will all miss the appearance at that time, after all, it was the most beautiful symbol of that era!
Chapter completed!