Chapter 191 Go home

Although I heard a lot of things at the full moon banquet, some good and some bad, people have their own opinions on these things, and they talked enthusiastically about what they wanted to say, and everyone exchanged information together. When you gossip about things, the whole banquet seems to have a small quarrel occasionally, but the overall situation is still very harmonious.

The Lu family also tried their best to entertain them. Although they did not do it perfectly, they also tried their best.

After all the guests were sent away, all the gifts were put away and cleaned. Some neighbors were left to help clean the entire banquet. After more than two hours, everything was packed.

Cleaning is a relatively tedious thing, but the timely steps are very simple. The only thing you need to do is some effort, and you need to cooperate with some people. All the pots, pans, tables, chairs, and benches are cleaned up, and all the things that come in from your neighbor's house have to be returned to other people's houses. In fact, there are many things in the Jiang family, just move them in the hotel, but the hotel is still far away, and the guys in the hotel have to use them for spares. They are all new or older. It's a pity to use the new ones, but they have to be really hard to take advantage of.

Running back and forth is also a very troublesome thing, so when I was being feasted, the Lu family borrowed some tables, chairs, benches, pots and pans from the neighbors in accordance with the rules of holding banquets in the past. Since the world is playing again, they have to pay it back one by one. Moreover, because of other things in the world, we should thank others for their help in the process of returning.

Generally speaking, you just need to give some of the rice you bought during the banquet. In ancient times, when holding banquets, you rarely have the figure. Basically, the meat and vegetables served will be eaten up, and those side dishes cannot be taken out. So at this time, you will leave a few bowls on the basis of buying vegetables. When you send them back to the guys, you will send some of these dishes back more or less, and add one or two eggs.

The Lu family did the same. Each household sent two pieces of meat and one egg back. Ai Jia's attitude of thanking her was very sincere, so the whole process was also done very smoothly, and the full moon wine was handled smoothly.

After the full moon was completed successfully, Lin went home.

Before, because the Lu family had no elders, Lin was in charge of the Lu family, helping to take care of Jiang Wenshan's confinement period.

Now that Jiang Wenshan has passed the confinement period and is even well raised, Lin decided to go back.

She didn't know if she would live a better life than she is now, but there was always one thing she knew very well, that was that she would not feel that there was no trace of warmth when she thought of the Jiang family.

Lin felt that if Jiang Wenzhu had not asked their family to make pickles, if they had not made a lot of money, if they had not experienced so many things, made a big business, and lived a good life, their views on many things had undergone earth-shaking changes. After experiencing things, broadening their horizons and liberating their minds, Lin would have been immersed in the pain of the past and could not extricate themselves, and even made their lives worse and worse, and perhaps they would have gone to a more down-and-out situation. They would never have become an enviable lady like they are now.

She has actually tried very hard to restrain herself. She is the kind of person who protects her. In fact, she is not as free and easy as Jiang Wenzhu and the others. Especially when Jiang Wenzhu was training Jiang Wenyan, she was really not rude at all. When she dealt with these problems, she was often rude and always wanted to think carefully for them.

You don't understand these concepts, because among these concepts, there are many advanced knowledge points and many new concepts that she has never heard of.

She can't get involved in the life of others and the plans of others, because after all, she is not a member of the Lu family, but a member of the Jiang family.

Such people have listened to their parents since childhood, and everything is decided by their parents. Whether it is marrying a wife and having children, eating and drinking water, every move is all the instructions of their parents.

In the future, Jiang Wenshan will have to live with Lu Weiliang. She can't get involved and deal with all the things in his family. In this case, it will not be good for Jiang Wenshan. If Liang had some, and it would not be good for herself. After all, he would have to live his own life with his couple. How could she be fine if she always got involved?

Perhaps, according to her teachings, Jiang Wenyan will become very rational, kind, and hardworking... but she will never become as thoughtful and capable as she is now.

Lin said: "From the future, Wen Shan will trouble you. I have gone to this family. I believe you can take good care of him. If you have any questions, please send someone to tell me. As long as I advise me to help, I will definitely come over."

To be honest, Lin felt that Jiang Wenzhu's words were somewhat exaggerated, but they made some sense.

Of course, when children need it, parents should lend a helping hand in time to help their children overcome the current difficulties and let them have no worries. This is the ideological awareness that parents should have. This awareness is a kind of thought that she gradually transformed after Jiang Wenzhu talked about it many times.

At least she thought it was very good. In addition to being sensible and smart, his child has the ability to adapt to changes, which is the most important thing.

In fact, this idea is very right and the approach is also right. However, to do it, she also went through a struggle of thought. At this time, Lin suddenly remembered what Jiang Wenzhu said—

Not everyone can enter the role of parents at once, and not everyone is born to be a good parent. They also need to learn how to be a good and responsible person to make their children admire good parents.

They have the courage to solve problems, instead of doubting themselves when problems arise, thinking about the help of the planet. Once others refuse, they will feel resentful. Once others refuse, they will have no choice, they will be in a depressed state and will die.

Lin himself has experienced a lot of hardships in life and has experienced hardships in life, so he knows that a child should have the ability to solve problems when facing problems, and the ability to solve problems is the ability that cannot be cultivated under the original education that suppresses children's ideas.

Although Lin really wanted to stand at the Lu family and take a look at her grandson more, she also knew that as a mother-in-law, she had done a special job to help her confinement. Now that Jiang Wenshan's condition has stabilized and her health has been improved, she feels like she is interfering in the Lu family again.

Although Lu Weiliang sincerely invited her to stay in the Lu family for another month and let Jiang Wenshan have enough biconfinement, the doctor said that Jiang Wenshan did a good job in confinement and could move freely, and Jiang Wenshan herself felt that she didn't need biconfinement.

Lively, clever, smart, hardworking, and flexible... All things are solved with your own strength, you can think, be willing to innovate, and you can always make unexpected attempts in things. Moreover, he has some ideas that even Lin does not understand. Moreover, these ideas will always achieve some better results after they are verified. She can indeed see Jiang Wenyan's obvious growth.

Jiang Wenyan, a child, grew up by his side since childhood, and was cultivated by Jiang Wenzhu's ideas.

She had thought countless times that if Jiang Xianyong could stand up and stand firmly on her side when his parents proposed to divorce her, no matter how her parents were right, she would not divorce her, what would happen now?

She had already done what she should do. Even if she was reluctant to leave and wanted to stay, she would not be able to stay in the Lu family. Moreover, the remaining children of his family had to take good care of them, so after thinking for a long time, she finally calmed down and decided to go home.

So these past experiences told Lin that she should cultivate her child into a capable person, a person who has the ability to live a happy life under any circumstances.

Generally speaking, all children grow up in the hearts of their parents, and the family atmosphere is particularly important to children.

It is also the first time parents have become parents, and they are not born to be parents, so they may also need to learn how to be parents.

It is the first time that children are children, and they may also know how to do it. Children are truly filial to their parents and can do the best to prevent their parents from being sad.

Children will eventually move towards life and will eventually face all kinds of twists and turns and difficulties encountered in life alone. If the children have already gone through the wind and rain at this time and have solved various problems in the process of growing up. Even if they cannot solve all problems when encountering problems in the future and do not have such strong abilities, they will not be afraid when facing difficulties and will not be afraid of them because of difficulties.

She had suffered such hardships. The reason why Jiang Xianyong gave up was largely because he listened to his parents and didn't know what was right and what was wrong. Of course, it was also largely because he wanted to have a son, and he no longer liked her.

When a person recalls the past ten years without a trace of warmth, then the memories are desolate. What this desolate brings to people is definitely not full of hope for progress. If there is no good future and no good healing, then these pasts can completely break the hope of a person's life.

After verification, Lin discovered that the things she said were traceable and were very correct, and more reasonable than the classics of saints she heard. And using this method to cultivate children, he found that the children could indeed grow well. The most prominent example is Jiang Wenyan.

Parents love their children and have far-reaching plans for them.

But when Jiang Wenzhu told her these concepts and what she said made sense, she broke the details one by one, analyzed them carefully, and verified them in real life.

She wants to make plans for a far-reaching plan, but how to do it is to make plans for a far-reaching plan. How to do it can truly train children's ability to be independent is the problem she should study hard.

Whether it is studying and practicing martial arts, dealing with people and affairs, or in all aspects, they are cultivated according to some of Jiang Wenzhu's ideas. Lin is particularly satisfied with Jiang Wenyan's current appearance.

Once parents are gone, will these people still have ideas? Will their ideas still be normal? If there are no ideas at this time, they have a lot of ideas, and some real ideas appear, and there is no time for them to try and make mistakes, then how can they have the ability to solve the problem when there is a real error?

Such children grow up, no matter how old they are, they are still a manifestation of no thought. As Jiang Wenzhu said, they are not adults, they are just giant babies with adult body shapes.

Rather, she would rather have all kinds of strange ideas in her children in their daily life than in their daily life, like a puppet, listening to their parents' words, letting them go east and never going west, letting them catch chickens and never chase dogs. She would marry whoever they were asked to marry, and she would leave whoever they were asked to leave, and she had no idea at all.

What kind of child you grow up depends on what kind of family you are in and what kind of parents you have. How parents cultivate him since childhood, how they can make him have a sound personality and excellent qualities. If a family and a parent do not teach their children excellent qualities, then the child learns bad things or does not grow into the hope of his parents may be because he lacks correct guidance during the growth process.

If she had been stricter in her previous teachings, she would never have been smart, clever, lively, and capable as she is now...

The process of this ability cannot be observed by parents in all aspects, but should give children room to grow independently, rather than protecting their children and holding them in their arms like an old hen.

Parents should let go of their hands and feet. Children and grandchildren only have good fortune. Let them experience their lives by themselves. They cannot let their parents interfere all the time. This will disrupt the rhythm of their lives and are not good for others and themselves.

At the beginning, she didn't do very well, but after so many years, she was always able to handle these things well, because if she didn't handle them well, Jiang Wenzhu would keep talking, and keep talking until she listened.

If she doesn't listen, then the next time is Jiang Wenzhu's reasoning. Imagine that Jiang Wenzhu's relatives don't recognize each other when she is reasoning, Lin feels that her ears are a little itchy.

Just like today, if she stayed at the Lu family and refused to leave, Jiang Wenzhong would definitely be placing a reason with Lu Wei Niang in her ears thousands or hundreds of times.

But when she faced these principles, she had no power to resist. At that time, she was in the wrong, but she could not convince others. At that time, she could not maintain her dignity as a parent, so she had to go back if she didn't want to go back.

(End of this chapter)
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