Chapter 22 This is all based on science!
"Well, I have something else to do, so I'll go over there first."
He Jinyin, who felt uncomfortable all over, lowered his head and turned around to leave after leaving a word.
"Ah Yin is good at everything, but he is too shy."
Zhong Li shook her head and said: "I tried to encourage him before and make him more cheerful. He got better not long ago, but now he seems to have changed back."
"Ali, your idea is very good and kind. You want to make him cheerful. But I have read a psychology book before, saying that some people are shy because they are immersed in their own world. They like
If you rashly change the world where you only have yourself, it may not be a good thing for them, because you may drag them into a world that you don't like." Xu Nuo talked eloquently.
"is that so?"
Zhong Li tilted her head and said with some confusion.
She had never heard such a statement before.
"certainly."
Xu Nuo nodded.
"Just like people have different personalities, you are lively and cheerful, so you are the happiest in this state. You think that other people are the same as you, but in fact they are not. Just like A
Yin, he is shy, completely different from you, and he may be happiest in that state. If you force him to be like you, he will become unhappy instead."
"It sounds reasonable, but after I made him cheerful before, he seems to be pretty good too!"
"Is it really good?"
"Well."
Zhong Li originally wanted to give an affirmative answer, but looking back on the original situation, it seemed that He Jinyin did feel a little uncomfortable.
Xu Nuo smiled slightly.
"People have a reward mechanism for things they prefer. If you really like this kind of thing, then your brain will secrete more dopamine, making you happy both physically and mentally. On the contrary, your dopamine secretion will
It will decrease and become unhappy. This is a human instinctive choice."
"If cheerfulness is really the state he likes, he will continue to move in that direction. But if this is not the state he likes, then he will return to the state he likes."
"These are all based on science!"
"Based on what you said, Ah Yin does seem to prefer his shy self."
"It's just a possibility."
The promise did not mean death.
Zhong Li was thoughtful.
Originally, she was thinking about whether to continue to enlighten He Jinyin, but now it seems that she maybe shouldn't do that.
She is a kind person.
Although she thinks it is better to be lively and cheerful, and wants to make other people do the same, but if the other person doesn't like it, and she forces the other person to be like that, she is not doing a good thing, but a bad thing.
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Xu Nuo glanced at Zhong Li, and then cleverly changed the topic.
"Let's go, there happens to be a seat there, let's go sit there! My stomach is growling with hunger."
"OK!"
After Zhong Li heard this, she no longer struggled with the issue, took Xu Nuo's hand and walked to an empty seat.
She only helped He Jinyin because she was kind-hearted and felt that the shy He Jinyin might need help and encouragement.
The sense of accomplishment after helping He Jinyin would make her feel happy mentally, so she would continue to help He Jinyin in the original plot, and later developed into an emotion similar to 'love'.
But the promise made her suddenly realize that she was not necessarily helping the other person, and her psychological pleasure naturally decreased instantly.
In scientific terms, dopamine secretion is reduced.
Without the blessing of this sense of pleasure, her thoughts of helping He Jinyin were naturally reduced to the lowest level.
Now, in Zhong Li's heart, she is happiest when staying by Xu Nuo's side.
He Jinyin has been forgotten by her.
And without the original 'life-saving grace', the probability that He Jinyin wants to get back together with Zhong Li is almost zero.
the most important is.
“I plan to never go to Global Elite Sports Center again!”
Zhong Li said.
The Global Elite Sports Center is the only link between her and He Jinyin. If this link is gone, the two parties will most likely lose the possibility of continued contact.
"Sorry, it's all because of me."
Xu Nuo said apologetically.
"If it weren't for me, you wouldn't..."
"What does this have to do with you?"
Zhong Li interrupted him.
"I left Global Elite Sports Center because this place was so disgusting! I didn't want to stay in this place for another day!"
When she spoke, she had an expression of extreme disgust on her face.
Multi-player sports, the bow is female... this kind of thing is obviously beyond her endurance limit.
"Not just me, after this time, many people should quit the Global Elite Sports Center!"
The four major players have always been the main faces of the Global Elite Sports Center. Over the years, they have indeed made great contributions to the prosperity of the Global Elite Sports Center!
Many people know about Global Elite Sports Center from its four main players!
At least one-third of the credit for the Global Elite Sports Center's success today must be attributed to its four major players.
But success is also Xiao He, failure is also Xiao He.
The Global Elite Sports Center, which has reaped so many dividends from the four major players, will also accept the backlash they have brought.
The two major generals have done such a thing. Among them, the Black Bear general has been the winner of the Outstanding Fighter for three consecutive years. He is the facade within the facade!
If you now come out and say that the Global Elite Sports Center is clean, who will believe it?!
"Thanks to you for exposing this matter. Otherwise, I don't know how many people would have been persecuted?"
Zhong Li recalled the victims in Black Bear's mouth, thinking about the suffering they suffered, and her own personal experience of being almost violated by the other party, and she felt even more grateful for the promise.
If it weren't for the promise, she didn't know if she would have the courage to live!
Zhong Li's delicate body trembled, as if she had thought of that terrible scene.
"It's all over."
Xu Nuo reached out and held her hand tightly, giving her comfort and courage.
After a while.
Zhong Li gradually calmed down.
"Thank you, Arnold."
"You're welcome, this is what I should do."
Xu Nuo's gentle smile lit up Zhong Li's heart and made her feel extra warm in an instant.
"Okay, let's order quickly! If I don't order, I'll probably faint from hunger!"
Xu Nuo said exaggeratedly, holding his stomach.
Zhong Li was so amused that she kept laughing.
Chapter completed!