Chapter 8 Psychological question and answer session of Doctor Yuan
"Hello, Teacher Li." Yuan Jia stepped forward to say hello to the teacher.
Teacher Li looked over when he heard the sound, his eyes widened obviously, he adjusted his clothes subconsciously, and said with a smile: "Hello, Yuanhui's brother, are you the one sending Yuanhui to school again today?"
"Yeah, how has Huihui been at school these days? Have you been disobedient?"
"No, no... Huihui is very well-behaved. She likes to whisper in class and plays well with her classmates. Do you work near here?"
"Yes, help others with psychological counseling."
"Are you a psychological counselor? No wonder Huihui has such a good personality. Yuanhui's brother, can you please add your WeChat account? Students usually have a lot of psychological problems, and I would like to ask you for more advice."
The reason is very appropriate and the eyes are very sincere.
Yuan Jia naturally doesn't mind. Most of his customer base are students. Nowadays, the probability of children having psychological problems is really too high.
Yuan Jia took out a business card from his backpack and handed it over. Teacher Li took it with both hands, looked at it carefully for a while, and then held it in his hand.
"Class is about to start. Then, Teacher Li, I will go to work first. Huihui, please teach me."
"Yes, you should go and do your work first."
Yuan Jia knelt down and scraped Yuan Hui's face, and warned: "Did you hear that? The teacher said that you like to whisper in class. You are not allowed to talk secretly anymore. Do you understand?"
Yuan Hui nodded obediently, her big eyes rolling.
Yuan Jia knew what the stupid sister was thinking, and quickly dismissed her new idea: "You can't speak openly and openly! You have to listen carefully to the class!"
"oh……"
Yuan Hui's calculation was overturned. She pouted, ignored her brother, and pulled Qiao Shanshan to the classroom.
What a headache...
Yuan Jia watched the little girl skipping away, then turned around and walked towards the office.
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There are no client appointments today, and Yuan Jia is the only one in the fifty-square-meter office.
After putting down his backpack, he picked up a rag and wiped the table and windows, and then simply swept the floor. Although the location was not very good, hygiene still had to be done, and the impression of the guests was very important.
The main purpose of a psychological counselor's communication with a client is to gain the other party's trust. Trust is the prerequisite for everything. Only when the client trusts him can he be willing to listen to his suggestions.
At around nine o'clock, the installation master came over, Yuan Jia helped him, and soon the new sign was put up.
I understand you psychological counseling room
We receive counseling on emotional issues, family issues, youth psychological issues, neurosis consultation (depression, anxiety, obsessive-compulsive disorder, phobia, etc.), including psychological tests and private psychological consultants.
Reservation phone number-188****7927
Looking at the new sign, Yuan Jia was very satisfied. How should I put it, it felt more trustworthy.
For psychological counseling offices, customers do not come in like they enter a convenience store. After they notice the store, they usually write down the appointment phone number first, and then they feel that they really need it, and then they contact you.
Therefore, even if the signboard is effective, I am afraid I will have to wait for two or three days.
Although the market atmosphere here is relatively strong, resulting in a low-quality store, it also has the benefit of a large flow of people. With the effect of the golden signboard, business will get better and better in the future.
When Yuan Jia returned to the office, his phone vibrated. He picked it up and saw that it was a girl joining him. Note: Yuan Hui's class teacher - Li Jinsi.
Yuan Jia quickly approved the other party's friend request, and then received three messages on his phone.
Li Jinsi: [Photo] [Photo] [Photo]
【(* ̄▽ ̄)((≧︶≦*)】
Hey, it's Huihui and her deskmate Qiao Shanshan.
The two naughty guys didn't seem to talk in class, but they hid their hands under the table and seemed to be eating secretly...
Yuan Jia: "Haha, hello Teacher Li, what is Huihui doing?"
Li Jinsi: "These two little guys were eating snacks secretly. They thought I didn't see them, haha."
Yuan Jia: "I will criticize Huihui when she comes back."
Li Jinsi: "No, no, I just thought it was fun to take pictures for you to see. Huihui is much more serious today. Don't criticize her."
Yuan Jia: "Yeah, thank you, Teacher Li. If Huihui doesn't behave, just tell me."
At this time, classmate Yuan Hui, who was enjoying her meal, did not realize that her evil brother had placed a clairvoyant in the school...
Li Jinsi: "Okay, I'm still in class, so I won't talk about it for now."
Yuan Jia: "..."
What should I do if my teacher likes to play with mobile phones in class?
After putting down his phone, Yuanjia turned on his computer and logged into the backend of his WeChat subscription account.
At present, apart from this store, the current customer attraction method of ‘I understand you’ is the public account created by Yuanjia himself.
Yuan Jia will publish some articles about mental health on the subscription account every two or three days. Thanks to the forwarding of relatives and friends, it currently has more than 8,000 followers, and each article has about two to three hundred reads.
, those who are interested in consulting will reply to the message in the subscription account.
There are all kinds of psychological counseling problems mentioned above.
q: 'Hello teacher, I like to take off my clothes when I sleep, otherwise I can't fall asleep. Is this normal?'
a: It is normal, indicating that you yearn for unrestrained comfort.
q: 'I would like to ask, my boyfriend asks me to call him daddy every time. Is he mentally abnormal?'
a: Sexuality easily reflects a person's subconscious. He may have a strong desire to conquer. Maybe his usual gentle behavior makes you feel a huge contrast. You can try to give him more affirmation and encouragement in your daily life.
q: 'Hello, teacher, I have a hard time talking about it... I'm a girl, but I just can't control myself. I feel so guilty and I feel so stressed...'
a: First of all, you have to face your desires. The same goes for girls. Don’t specialize yourself. Spend more time reading and relieve the stress of life.
q: 'My girlfriend often goes to KTV with a few boys. I don't let her go, but she thinks I am short-tempered, but I just feel uncomfortable. Teacher, is it my fault?'
a: You can go with her. If she refuses and the communication is fruitless, you can choose to give up the relationship. There is no right or wrong for both parties. Maybe they are not suitable for each other.
q: 'My friends like to call me a sand sculpture, are they kidding me? I usually play well, but I just feel very uncomfortable. Please tell me, teacher, what should I do?'
a: Discuss based on the situation. You can try to communicate with them. A true friend will respect your wishes.
q: 'I have been unemployed for eight months. I have become more and more anxious recently. I feel that life is boring and I have no motivation to do anything. Teacher, am I depressed?'
a: Live a regular life schedule, go to bed early and get up early, don’t stay in bed, go out more often in a sunny life, you can first find a more stable job to transition to.
q: 'I am a boy. I recently bought a set of women's clothes without telling my parents. I usually lock myself in the room and wear them by myself. I feel that after I put on the skirt, I feel very happy. Teacher, am I sick?'
a: Happiness is the rarest thing. Don’t have any psychological burden. Don’t endanger society and hinder others. Any interests and hobbies are acceptable.
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I haven't been backstage for two days, and I have accumulated more than ten messages for psychological consultation.
As a psychological counselor, Yuanjia will not laugh at anyone's psychological problems.
Love, respect, and acceptance are the most basic qualities to become a psychological counselor.
There are inevitably many secrets in a person's life that they don't want to mention to the people around them, and if they are kept in the mind for a long time, more problems will arise.
It's like a girl who usually seemed very cheerful and lively, until one day she suddenly committed suicide. Only then did people realize that she was hiding so much pain in her heart, but she still managed to greet every day with a smile on her face.
A psychiatrist is someone who solves psychological problems.
Even if many of the people who ask questions will not become Yuanjia's guests, Yuanjia is still happy to help them answer some psychological questions.
Only people who are truly helpless about their illness will come to receive treatment, and they are also the most helpless.
Yuan Jia carefully read every question and gave detailed replies to the other party. Most of them were based on encouragement and affirmation. Small problems will not affect people's normal life, but if they are burdened and stressed, then mental illness will
It will sprout and grow like a seed.
The other party can receive the reply message immediately, and soon Yuanjia received a lot of 'Thank you', 'Special thanks to the teacher for understanding', 'Yeah! I understand!'
There are also some more serious cases that require one or two more consultations, but when it comes to deeper diagnosis and treatment, Yuanjia can only make an appointment with the person to come to the ‘I understand you’ store for consultation.
It's not that Yuanjia deliberately didn't give a solution, but only by sitting down and talking face to face, he could more accurately judge the person and the cause of his illness, and give an accurate treatment plan.
After replying to the Q&A, Yuanjia opened the system interface.
Chapter completed!