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On the other hand, Director Xie of the Obstetrics and Gynecology Department of F City Second Hospital just came to his clinic to sit down when a young couple walked in outside the door. His wife was holding a crying baby in her arms and an elderly old woman.

As soon as he entered the door, the old lady scolded the young couple dissatisfiedly, "I reminded you a long time ago that the child should not be picked up immediately when he cried, and do not be picked up immediately... In this way, the baby will be dependent. Now, even a little discomfort must be picked up and left to be at peace... It is not yours that are trying to do it!"

The husband looked depressed and didn't speak, and the young wife was also full of grievance, but she didn't dare to refute her mother-in-law. After all, they did not do it well after not being able to take good care of the baby...

"Director Xie, look at my little grandson. He has been crying for several nights these days. He can't sleep well no matter how hard he coaxes, and he still vomits milk..."

As soon as he came up, the mother-in-law had absolute voice and directly told Director Xie.

"Okay, let me see the baby first!"

As he said that, the mother-in-law turned around and couldn't help but scold her daughter-in-law, "Why are you still holding the baby? Let it go!"

"No, no!"

Director Xie waved his hand with a smile and asked the young mother to come to him with the child. After a checkup, she found that the baby had some bloating in his stomach and some indigestion. She smiled and said, "The baby is fine, except for a little bloating in his stomach, there is no problem... Next, you must strictly control the feeding time and not let the baby eat more, otherwise it will cause the baby's stomach to be damaged!"

When he heard this, the three adults on the other side were all relieved, but the mother-in-law immediately looked anxious, "Director Xie, look at my little grandson, I have been crying these days. Except for getting better during the day, I almost just picked it up and cried when I put it down. I couldn't sleep well at all..."

I don't understand a lot, but she was shocked and she didn't rely on it!

"The baby is still so young now, crying is just an instinct! Therefore, when we adults take care of our babies, we must follow the instincts of our children. Do whatever we do at any stage and do things against our instincts, as it will lead to bad consequences. When the child cries, just pick it up and coax it. It's okay to keep holding it and coax it to sleep. In this way, when the child grows up, he will follow nature and be in line with instincts, and will be very cheerful and lively."

"Oh! So that's it, OK, thank you! Thank you!"

In 0903 of Yunlu Garden, Wu Jiangtao looked at Chen Jun with some confusion as he took out a piece of clothing he had recently worn, wrapped it outside his brother Miaomiao's quilt, and handed it to his arms.

This is really overthinking, it is just driven by instinct. When the child grows up and enters puberty, you will find another instinct, that is, the kind that is, the independence is huge, and you can't even pull it back if you want to leave your parents."

Taking the baby's crying instinct and the independent instinct of the child's growth in adolescence as a reference, it can be said that what Director Xie said is reasonable and convincing.

...

This mother-in-law: "..."

Director Xie said solemnly: "Generally speaking, mothers' arms are the most safe for the baby. If the child still cries in the mother's arms, it means that the baby must feel very uncomfortable in his body. You must pay attention to this point, don't avoid medical treatment, and seek medical treatment in time. Do you understand?"

"ah?"

This mother-in-law still doesn't understand much.

"Oh, then you wrap your clothes on Miaomiao..."

"I can't let it go, so just hold it!"

The novice father nodded solemnly and finally spoke.

"It's very simple. Hold as many children as possible. If the mother is tired, others should also wrap the baby with a mother's clothes when holding the child... This is to let the child feel the mother's breath all the time, so that he will always have a sufficient sense of security. This will continue until the child's fright is completely relieved, and he will return to normal!"

"Here, today you hold your brother Miaomiao, I hold your sister Doudou..."

"Okay, I remember! If this happens, I will definitely bring my baby to the hospital in time!"

"You want to..."

Director Xie shook his head and said with a smile: "Auntie, first of all, I need to correct a common sense mistake. Crying in newborns is just an instinct. Many people think that taking care of their babies as soon as they cry will lead to a lack of independence in the child.

"It's not like this..."

Wu Jiangtao nodded seriously, "So that's it, I understand!"

It has to be said that Director Xie is a veteran doctor who has been deeply engaged in obstetrics and gynecology for 20 or 30 years. Through his communication with Chen Jun, he learned from one example and learned from others in the instinctive comfort and treatment of the baby's crying and had more unique insights.

"Doudou and Miaomiao are now frightened, so they will instinctively cry and are asking for our comfort. The only thing we can do now is to give them as much security and pleasure as possible according to their needs, so that the fright they are subject to disappear as quickly as possible and return to the same state they were before the vaccination..."

"You're welcome, this is what I should do! You have another point to remember, if the baby has not calmed down according to this method, and even if the baby is picked up and still crying, you must carry the baby to the hospital in time!"

"Ah? But in this way, the baby will rely on..."

The husband thoughtfully, and the wife was full of grievances. She did nothing wrong. Every time the child cried, I picked it up with heartache, it was right!

Chen Jun looked at him seriously and said, "The baby is very attached to his mother, which is an instinct that can greatly enhance his survival probability. The scientists' various experimental data have also confirmed that clothes with the smell of mothers can obviously bring a sense of pleasure and security to the baby."

"Today we can't let the baby lie in the baby's bed and sleep by himself. We must hold it as much as possible. Even if you go to the kitchen to cook, you must carry it with your baby's strap..."

"Director Xie, then what do you think we should do specifically..."

After taking my brother Miaomiao, he hugged it very skillfully in his arms, but he saw this little evil that had made him mess with all night... Oh, no, it was the little angel that was poking out his little head and rubbing his mother's clothes. His eyebrows and eyes were not as wailing as they were last night. They stretched out, and seemed to be very comfortable.

"Actually, I don't think Ning has to wrap your clothes outside Miaomiao..."

Wu Jiangtao suddenly said.

"Ah?" Chen Jun turned his head in confusion, "Why? The scientific experimental data in the paper we read before were very reliable and they were all real..."
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