Chapter 78 Fallacies
Chapter 78 Heresies
Author: Bo Mi
Chapter 78 Heresies
Seeing Shen Yuzhen's face filled with disbelief, Shen Yuxiu also felt incredulous. She took a deep breath and began to explain the facts to her.
"There's not a moment when you're not making fun of me. Just like just now, it was obviously my second brother who kept kicking me when he had nothing to do, so I told my father about him, but you were as if you were blind and couldn't see that he was the one who came first.
You just come up to me and talk about it. Isn't this a way to attack me?"
"He just kicked you a few times. The force was not heavy and it didn't hurt you much. Why are you so petty?" Shen Yuzhen argued with reason, not thinking it was anything.
Just now she saw what Shen Yulin was looking for first, but she could also sense that Shen Yulin didn't use any force. With such moderate force, even ten kicks, let alone two, wouldn't necessarily hurt. What could she do?
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"Look, you said you didn't use me as a weapon." Shen Yuxiu was speechless. "Look at what you said. You didn't talk about the facts at all. You just said it was my fault and you were right. But I tell you.
, your theories don’t work with me. I don’t like to hear it, and I don’t want to hear it. You have your own ideas, and I have mine. I never force you to do anything, and you don’t have to drag me into everything.
I, disgust me."
After saying that, Shen Yuxiu didn't even want to eat, let alone keep arguing with Shen Yuzhen who was not clear-headed. She got up and went into the back room, slammed the door shut, and went to rest on the kang.
It's really inexplicable. Ever since she was a child, she has been restless every day. Is she willing to be uneasy even after eating? Is she willing to complain while eating?
She is already fifteen years old, so how can she not see the heat coming?
If she hadn't been annoyed, how could she have the leisure to think about causing trouble and complaining every day?
But in Shen Yuzhen's eyes, everything she did was wrong and wrong. She didn't even know where Shen Yuzhen came from.
In the outer room, because Shen Yuxiu suddenly left, the dinner table was quiet for a moment. Fang Youshun glanced at Shen Yuzhen who was speechless after being talked about. He also felt a little unable to eat. He put down his chopsticks and stood up to light a dry cigarette and started smoking.
Grandma Fang wanted to say something when she saw this, but she was afraid that someone would be unable to eat after she said it, so she kept her mouth shut until everyone was full. Shen Jinggui had taken a step ahead and the whole family started to clear away the dishes before telling Shen Yuzhen.
Got talking.
"Yuzhen, you are going to get married next month. Once you get married, you are an adult. You should understand the truth. You can't always talk to others the way you do. They may not be as reasonable as our family."
"How do I not understand the truth?" Shen Yuzhen muttered with some dissatisfaction.
"How do you understand the truth again?" Grandma Fang said with a serious face: "Just like just now, it was Yulin who was obviously the first to cause trouble. What do you think Yuxiu is doing?"
"Then Yulin is a man, and besides, he's not good at kicking..." Shen Yuzhen was still explaining her reasoning plausibly, but Grandma Fang felt impatient and raised her hand to interrupt.
"There's something I've always been curious about." Grandma Fang frowned and asked with a puzzled face: "Your parents don't favor boys over girls, and they have never treated you and Yulin Yuwen the same way. You
Where do so many people come from that they think that women should give way to men? Or is there something your parents didn't do well that gave you this idea?"
As soon as Grandma Fang said this, Fang Yan immediately shuddered beside her and quickly recalled carefully what she had not done well in her usual life.
It doesn’t seem like... right?
"No, my parents are very good. They treat me and Yuwen the same way." Shen Yuzhen gave the answer without even thinking: "But grandma, there are not many families like ours in the whole village. Which family has a girl?"
Aren’t they giving way to the boys in the family? Even the daughter of the captain’s family, aren’t they giving in to the boys in the family? Isn’t this a matter of course?”
"You also said it was someone else's home, but you grew up in our home. If you don't look at our home, why would you look at other people's homes?" Grandma Fang couldn't understand her brain circuit at all.
"Then when I marry in the future, I will marry into someone else's family, not into our family." Shen Yuzhen argued loudly: "Obviously our family is different from other families, but why do you always ask me to see what our family is doing? Which family is it from?
Girls eat the same food and wear the same good clothes as boys in our family? Obviously our family is at fault."
Grandma Fang couldn't believe what she heard.
We have been arguing for a long time. In the eyes of this eldest granddaughter, it is wrong for her to treat the children in the family in the same way?
Since this girl enjoys equal treatment at home every day, but she still thinks it is wrong, then how can she have the nerve to care about it when the old man usually buys something for Xiao Xiu?
Fang Yan was stunned as she listened, her mind buzzing.
This was the first time she knew that her daughter actually thought like this. She didn't teach her this way!!!
Fang Youshun, who was smoking a dry cigarette, saw that Grandma Fang's expression was a little bad, he knocked the pot of his pipe and spoke lightly to Shen Yuzhen.
"Come back after washing the dishes. I'm tired and want to rest."
As soon as Fang Youshun spoke, the room fell silent. Fang Yan quickly put away the dishes and chopsticks, but Shen Yuzhen felt that Fang Youshun was chasing people because she didn't like her, so she turned around and left without even touching the bowl.
Fang Youshun looked at her back as she left angrily, but snorted coldly.
She also said that it was her family that was wrong and other people's family that was right. Since other people's families were right, how could she dare to shame herself in front of herself, her mother and brothers? If this was in someone else's family, she would have been whipped, right?
Originally, he saw that his son-in-law could not buy any more dowry for the girl after changing the roof, so he found someone to buy a kang cabinet for the girl. He also thought about going to the commune in a few days to buy her a washbasin or something.
In this way, I can provide more dowry, and this girl can straighten her waist in her husband's family.
Now it seems that it is better to forget it.
This girl thinks so lowly of herself, and if he rushes to support her like this, she will probably be criticized for meddling in her own business.
When Grandma Fang saw her leaving, she sat silently on the kang without saying a word.
She didn't understand how her older children could come up with so many fallacies.
She was born in a family that favored boys over girls, and was fed up with that kind of life, so after marrying Fang Youshun, she kept reminding herself not to do that, not to be that kind of elder, but in the end, it was still like this. It was her usual
Is it not thorough enough to lead by example?
Fang Youshun didn't know what Grandma Fang was thinking, but he knew from the look on her face that the old woman was in a bad mood. After Fang Yan finished washing the dishes and took the children away, she put down her pipe and pot and began to comfort the badly hit old woman.
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"Don't think about it. Yuzhen Nizi just stands and talks without back pain. She has never suffered that kind of hardship. When she sees what others do, she thinks it is right. When she experiences it for herself, she will naturally understand what she is doing today.
What a ridiculous thing to say."
"But how much hardship will it take?" Even though Grandma Fang was angry with Shen Yuzhen for saying such things, she still couldn't bear to see her grown-up child really suffer.
I remember when I was fifteen or sixteen years old, one day an old man from the village suddenly came to my house and told me that the first bowl of rice in the family was for men, and women could not eat it.
I was shocked at that time. My father had passed away at that time, my brother was in school, and my mentally challenged mother and I were the only ones at home. I thought, if women can’t eat the first bowl of rice, do I have to throw it away?
Fortunately, my mind is still intact, and the first bowl of rice at home has never been thrown away or wasted.
Later I found out that the old man was a child bride bought by her family. She had been treated unfairly all her life, so she thought it was right. But in the new era, she saw that girls had no restraints, so she felt something was wrong.
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What weird things have you experienced?
Chapter completed!