Chapter 1054 Don't be so picky
Wang Chunlan carefully fed Tong Wangjun and drank more than half a bowl of black-bone chicken soup. Then she was satisfied and took away Tong Wangjun's dirty clothes. She wanted to take them back for cleaning.
The advantage of a natural birth compared to a caesarean section is that the body recovers faster and you can get out of bed on the same day. Although a caesarean section is convenient during delivery, it is more troublesome afterwards. The wound heals slowly and the pain is severe. Once the anesthesia wears off, the wound area will ache.
It hurts, and then becomes very itchy when it slowly heals.
Whether you can have a natural birth or try to have a natural birth as much as possible, the suffering in the early stage is actually the same, but the later stage of natural birth is much better than a caesarean section. However, this is not up to the pregnant woman or her family, and most of them still have to follow the doctor's advice.
There are friends coming over outside, wake up and go out to say hello.
Tong Wangjun and Huang Qingqiu, mother and daughter, were the only two people left in the ward.
"Your dad is busy, so he can't come. Jiangcheng is the city that the central government pays the most attention to among several provinces and cities in central China. It has invested a lot of energy and has a very large policy tilt. At the moment, it is developing momentum, and many things have changed.
In preparation, meetings are going one after another, and he will come over after he finishes the meeting." Huang Qingqiu told Tong Wangjun.
"I know. I called my dad before and he told me about this. I heard that there is a high-speed rail project recently. The government and the country are studying it to build a high-speed rail and shorten the journey." Tong Wangjun didn't think much about it.
Very understandable.
Although giving birth to a child is a big event, it is not life and death. There is nothing that can be done about Tong Guoxin's inability to leave.
Many people work for their families, for living, and for expenses, so that their wives, children, and children can have a sense of security, but there are also areas that have to be separated. When they work, a lot of time will inevitably be devoted to their jobs, and the time spent with their loved ones will be limited.
Less.
At this time, coders, including corresponding technical personnel, have actually emerged. The computer industry is becoming an emerging and popular profession. The rewards of this industry are very high, but the effort is also very high. If you go out in the morning, you may not get home until after ten o'clock in the evening.
One day off in the first three weeks and two days off in the next week. This is still a large company. If it is a small company, it is likely that you will not be able to take one day off a month. All your energy must be focused on technology, procedures, and projects.
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Couples who can understand each other will have an easier time, and those who can't understand will naturally have conflicts. The divorce rate will gradually increase, which is not unrelated to the fast pace of life and the increase in pressure.
"I am now more and more satisfied with Su Xing, not only with his care for you, but also with his current living situation. At the beginning, I still didn't understand something. This child is obviously capable and has a strong character. If
If you do something serious, your future will definitely be much greater." Huang Qingqiu chatted with Tong Wangjun.
"Mom, what you said is wrong. Isn't it possible that Su Xing has no future now? He now has many companies and manages many people. Doesn't this count as business? He has to enter the system, just like you and Dad,
How can this be called business by being humble to those above and keeping a straight face to those below?" Tong Wangjun was not happy that Huang Qingqiu said that he was not good at waking up, "He is the best."
"You child, I don't mean anything else. Maybe I used the wrong word. What I mean is that Su Xing is right not to follow the path of your father and I. He can spend a lot of time with you and look after his own children."
To grow up and be able to accompany his children to grow up, he should have seen this at the beginning, so he chose the path he is taking now and did not follow
Although he only needs to say a word or even say it clearly, as long as he reveals his intention, your father and I will definitely help him and let him enter the system. With the resources of your father and me,
Coupled with his ability, he will definitely be able to reach a higher level in the future." Huang Qingqiu rarely had a heart-to-heart talk with Tong Wangjun, and this was one of the few times.
The most appropriate way for children and parents to get along is actually as friends, so that they can understand each other's difficulties, speak out whatever they have to say without keeping it in their hearts, resolve conflicts, and understand each other's needs.
However, even outstanding people like Huang Qingqiu and Tong Guoxin cannot be perfect in dealing with similar problems, and can even be said to be relatively poor.
When most parents have a dispute or conflict with their children, they will arbitrarily use their adult status to stamp out their children's alternative ideas without hesitation, without even giving an explanation or asking why.
The question is because you are still young and you don’t understand. You must be right to listen to me.
The older generation is particularly prominent in this regard.
This kind of education method will make children clearly have many questions in their hearts, but they dare not ask them out and keep them in their hearts. As time goes by, they will not dare to ask or mention anything.
Just like the funny line in Tian Long Ba Bu: I know a little bit, I know a little bit, I know a little bit of everything, but I'm not proficient in anything, and I don't even dare to ask.
"Su Xing's life attitude is very simple, that is, a comfortable life. He makes so much money and does so much business just to achieve this goal. He has different ideas from you and dad. He doesn't want to be a person controlled by others." Tong Wangjun
I know Su Xing very well, "I think his method is very good, and I also hope that he can always stay with the child as he grows up."
"Yes." Huang Qingqiu nodded, "It's the rarest thing to know what you want. I think your mother-in-law treats you very well, so I feel relieved."
"My mother is indeed very good to me. She often brings fresh fruits and vegetables from home for me to eat. If I do something wrong, she never complains or quarrels with me. She always deals with it silently.
Do something." Tong Wangjun nodded.
Mother and daughter were chatting in the ward. Yiyi's birth made Tong Wangjun a mother, and her inner feelings also changed. There were many things that resonated with Huang Qingqiu, and the two of them had many more topics to talk about than before.
Su Xing left the hospital and met Xiang Wan at the door.
"The child was born?" Xiang Wan held fruits and some children's clothes in her hand, "I know you must have prepared children's clothes, but I bought some anyway, not sure if they will fit."
"It's appropriate. What's wrong with this? But children's clothes actually don't last long. They grow very fast, and they will grow longer in a few days." Su Xing nodded, took the things in Xiang Wan's hand, "Let's go
Come on, go in and let me see my daughter."
"I won't go in, just deliver the things." Xiang Wan shook her head, "Congratulations on becoming a father."
Chapter completed!