"You are not cold at all. Sometimes you are very cooperative." Su Xing whispered, and smiled at Tong Wangjun.

"You don't pay attention to the impact at all. There are people in the car." Tong Wangjun pinched himself to wake up. "Can't you be honest? Let me ask you, did my dad talk to you about things when I was a child?"

"Uncle Tong didn't talk to me much. He just talked about it occasionally. He said he owed you mother and daughter a lot. Because of his work, he was always running around and stayed in one place for a long time. He couldn't be with you, especially you.

, when he was still so young, he had to work outside and might only go back two or three times a year. When you were still one or two years old, sometimes you might not recognize him when you went back. Later, when you grew up, sometimes

Obviously

I promise you that I will go back at a certain point, for example, to celebrate your birthday with you, or for example, you have better academic performance and get good grades, but something suddenly happens and you can't go back and you can't fulfill your promise." Su Xing said, "

Every time I chat with him, he always wants to tell me about this, and he also thanks me and tells me that I have made you a lot happier. With me by your side, at least I can make you happy.

Not so lonely."

Su Xing grabbed Tong Wangjun's hand: "Actually, people also need to understand each other, including parents and children. It's not that parents don't love their children. It's actually that parents have parental responsibilities. They need to support a family, so naturally they don't have so much time.

Do other things."

"When I was young, I was always envious when other people's parents were around their children. I wondered why my parents valued work more important than me. If they didn't work, wouldn't they be able to stay with me all the time?" Tong Wangjun

He also grabbed Su Xing's hand and said, "It was only after I saw you that I realized how childish I was before. Compared with you, I am really much worse. I have too strict requirements on my parents."

"Did you wake up after seeing me?" Su Xing was a little surprised by Tong Wangjun's answer, "What enlightenment can I give you?"

"I heard from auntie and Ranran about some things about your family. When you were young, your uncle was very careless about the family and sometimes acted stupidly. But you never blamed him or said a harsh word to him."

Tong Wangjun said, "Compared to you, I am really far behind."

"So that's it." Su Xing smiled, "Ran Ran told you that my dad was deceived by others before, thinking that he had taken advantage of it, and ended up bringing back a bag of sand?"

Dong Wangjun nodded: "How could uncle make such a mistake? Putting sand in a bag feels completely different from putting copper wire in a bag. How can it be deceived?"

"What's so strange about this? He thought that other people's copper wires were obtained from improper channels, and others told him so, so he wanted to complete the transaction early, thinking that he had made a fortune, and he was nervous.

, everything can be ignored." Su Xing said, "Give me a very simple example.

, usually if you hold a knife and see the knife cutting your arm, you will feel very scary and very painful. But sometimes when you are working on a construction site and you accidentally bump into it, it will hurt a little, but the feeling is not that strong.

, it may even be possible that you won’t find any wounds on your body until you are resting.”

I was obviously carrying a bag full of sand, but I didn't realize that the bag was filled with sand, not copper wire. It sounds weird and my IQ is a bit low, but in fact, there are many such things.

Quantum wave speed reading is one of them. A child holds a book and flips it over and over without opening the pages. It is actually said to be speed reading. But what is even weirder is that some people believe it, and many parents even send their children there.

study.

It is said all the time that the elderly are stupid and have weak brains, and are easily deceived by scammers into buying health care products. However, in fact, middle-aged people may not be smart in their brains. They are equally easy to be deceived in another scenario.

It can only be said that the reason for not being deceived is because onlookers know better. Once they get involved and attach great importance to children's learning, they will fall for the scam of quantum fluctuation speed reading.

The other one used fingerprints to measure IQ. I met such a person when I woke up from my past life. The child's parents were very young, less than 30 years old. The child was about three years old and was about to enter the kindergarten class.

Someone claimed to be able to test a child's talent, and it cost 2,000 yuan, so the parents took their children there. Logically speaking, the child's talent was analyzed through questions or various instruments, but the result was that the child's fingerprints were recorded and then analyzed by a computer.

, test the child’s talent.

My parents still believed me and honestly paid 2,000 yuan.

Su Xing couldn't stop laughing when he heard about this. Testing talent through fingerprints, isn't this as absurd as testing love by zodiac signs?

If you spend two thousand dollars to do this, you might as well look at the hair on your child's head at home.

"Do you know why I'm not angry?" Su Xing asked Tong Wangjun.

"It's because your uncle is also your father. As a son, you can't blame your father. After all, he raised you and paid a lot." Tong Wangjun thought for a while and added, "And this matter is also

Don’t blame him, he originally wanted to make money, but he was accidentally deceived. From the original intention, he was not wrong.”

"Some of the reasons you mentioned are not entirely correct. I'm not angry because I know his character. That's how he is. He's quite satisfied if he has food to eat and a house to live in. Other things he doesn't care about.

I can't do it, and I don't have the ability to do it, so there is no need to be too harsh." Su Xing said, "Everyone's outlook on life and values ​​are different, so there is no need to force or ask others to do what they want."

"Some people are very satisfied with three to four thousand yuan a month. In the future, they can settle down in a small county town and stay with their parents. When their parents get old, they can help them nearby. It will be perfect for their lives to go on like this.

.”

“Some people dislike small counties and feel that the supporting facilities in small counties are not as good as those in big cities. If they want to move to big cities like Beijing, Shanghai, Guangzhou and Shenzhen, a monthly salary of three to four thousand yuan may not even be enough to cover their rent.

Not to mention providing a comfortable standard of living, which requires at least a monthly salary of 10,000 to 20,000 yuan, or even more."

"In addition to these two types of people, of course there are other people, but they just have different ideas and different attitudes towards life. There is no clear definition of who is right and who is wrong. Those who agree with the life of a small county feel that others are giving them to themselves.

The pressure should not be so great. He will not have to worry about food, clothing, housing, and his children will be able to go to school in the future. There is no need to force him too much. He has already gained a sense of happiness in his life now. Too much pressure will only strain people's nerves.

If you are tight, you will not be happier."

"Those who don't agree with small city life think that those who stop living in small cities are unmotivated and unsatisfactory. They want a better life, want to develop in big cities, want to buy a house in a big city, and have a registered permanent residence.

I landed in a big city, and I feel that the medical education and living environment in big cities are better than those in small counties."
Chapter completed!