It is wrong to say that you are not accurate. To be precise, it is to spend rather than waste, because it is very correct to think about what you want.

What really wastes time is "doing what you want to others". You are angry all day long with those who have different ideas from your own, you are angry all day long because others do not listen to your advice, you are angry all day long because others are different from your own styles, you are blamed for being qualities and not knowing how to do things, you are not sure about it, you repay your grudges with kindness, you are disliked, you are indignant, you are in conflicts, and you are conflicts.

Choosing is always more important than changing. When you meet people who disagree with you or people with great differences in outlook on life and values, don’t try to change the other person. The correct way is to change people immediately. Choose people who have similar ideas to you. This is the case when you are in love and work together. When you find that there are essential differences in the early stages of getting along, you must make a quick decision. If you can’t do this, then wait for yourself to suffer the consequences and turn your back into enemies. How many couples have been making do with their lives, and how many have been quarreled all their lives, clearly defeated them, and finally they deceived themselves and told their children, ‘Didn’t you have been quarreling all their lives?’

Is it right to live a lifetime? Yes, although I have spent my entire life, I have been quarreling for a lifetime, I have been chewing sweet potato steamed buns that have been quarreling for a lifetime, and I have never eaten the big white steamed buns that are harmonious and in love with each other in my entire life. Then I turned around and told my children that marriage is about eating sweet potato steamed buns. To be honest, most of the unfortunate children are ruined in the hands of their parents.

Choosing to get along with people with similar interests and stay away from people who make you feel unhappy is actually a human instinct. Everyone likes to be with those who can make you feel happy. Heshen made Qianlong feel comfortable, so Qianlong likes him. Ugly men can satisfy the vanity of beauties being spoiled, so the beauties finally marry an ugly man. Not very beautiful women can follow handsome men everywhere, so the handsome men finally marry her. Subordinates who are good at doing things can make the leader feel comfortable, so they are promoted by the leader.

It is easy to take shortcuts, just make the people around you feel comfortable, but the premise is that you cannot be too strong in your self-esteem.

If you want to live with dignity, there is only one way to go, that is, you are strong enough. As long as you are strong enough, there is no need to please anyone, and others will take the initiative to please you.

During this period, Wu Zhongyuan took a break for almost seven days. He seemed to have his eyes closed at night, but he did not stop practicing. When he was Yuan on Jin, he had a general idea of ​​how much breath he needed to advance. It would take at least one month to Jin Yuyuan again.

While practicing Qi, he is also fulfilling the personalities of two Nascent Souls, two Nascent Souls, one is like a sea of ​​grace and the other is like a prison. The essence of giving grace to others is reward, and the essence of giving power to others is punishment. Rewards and punishments are not absolute justice. Only by being compatible with each other can absolute justice be achieved. Just like Yin-Yang Tai Chi, black fish and white fish each account for half of them to last forever.

People in the world advocate the doctrine of the mean and seek stability and peace, but Wu Zhongyuan does not think so. He tends to be a Taoist combination of movement and stillness. He is as quiet as a virgin moistening and silent as a virgin, moving as if it is rid of the thunder and thunder of the rabbit. To endure the calm and calm waves for a while, and to take a step back, the sea and the sky are wide open. This is right, but it is only half right, and the other half is unbearable. There is no need to endure it anymore. If a tiger never shows its might, others will always think it is a sick cat.

In the first half of the month, Wu Zhongyuan has been verifying a question through observation, that is, what kind of life people want to live. The result of observation is that most people don’t know what they want, and they just live, because they live out of inertia. Most people do not have a clear and long-term goal, and they want to live.

In the second half of the month, Wu Zhongyuan began to verify another question through observation, that is, what is the meaning of life. This is actually not a question, but a philosophical proposition that has risen to the extreme height. He actually has an answer to this proposition, so there are three things that don’t lose money, one is not to lose money, the other is not to lose money, and the other is not to lose money, and the third is not to lose money.

When people live between heaven and earth, they should respect the ancestors of heaven and law, treat the heaven and earth well, and treat the heaven and earth well. To put it bluntly, do not destroy the environment. Not everyone can cause serious damage to the environment, nor do they be a large pollutant. Try not to destroy the environment as much as possible, and do not abuse various drugs and additives to destroy the ecological balance in order to make money.

It is easy to understand that it is not to blame others. Don’t let anyone down on you who are kind to you. Just this sentence, but it is difficult to do it in detail, because the kindness of others to you does not happen within a day, but occurs in all the life trajectories that you have already spent. Most of the time we cannot repay you in the present and can only remember it in your heart. However, as time goes by, we will gradually forget the kindness of others to us, or because something has turned against the other party, which is easy to let others down. When we want to do something to someone, we must recall everything that this person has done to you, one part of kindness to offset another part of grievance, and then decide how to treat the other party after the grievances are offset.

Similarly, after dinner, before falling asleep, you can take time to recall the people you know and recall the many details of dating with the other person, so as to determine whether you should do something for the other person.

In the end, you don’t lose yourself. Without losing the world or others, you must not lose yourself. People live a life of not enduring humiliation and suffering. You can get some alcohol, sex, wealth and energy. When parents and wives and children eat meat at home, they can run out to drink wine and skewers with friends. When their family members have no worries about food and clothing, they can smoke a good cigarette and buy a good car. There is no need to be as good as sadism. They can live a calm life, but they can save food all day long.

If you lose your job, your wife and children will not go hungry. It’s just that your living standards are reduced a little, so there is no need to pretend to be a grandson in a low voice. Many times, it is said that living is tiring and not as good as a dog. In fact, it is exaggerated. If you really lift the unreasonable boss’s desk or give the leader a big mouth, most people will not starve to death. It’s just to live a better life, buy more expensive bags, live in a larger house, and drive a better car and choose to endure humiliation. This is not worthy of sympathy.

In short, you should not treat yourself too badly, otherwise you will lack the motivation to struggle and will be wronged for life and will not be able to close your eyes even if you die.

If you have something, you will be long. If you have nothing, you will be short. One and a half months will be fleeting. Spring and summer will alternate, and there will be mosquitoes in the service area. Wu Zhongyuan was successfully promoted to Yuyuan.
Chapter completed!