Chapter 157 [Don't help me with back pain]
Guo Xu felt that it was not difficult for Kobe to convince his parents. He just needed to cry, make a fuss and hang himself. All the troubles were caused by Kobe pretending to be tough in front of his parents.
The arms of parents are the warmest harbor for children. Kobe also had a close relationship with his parents. When he won the championship last year, he said this: "Parents are my pillars, and they are still the case today. They will always support you, no matter if you score 0 points or score 40 points."
However, in Guo Xu's previous life, in 2001, when Kobe won the second championship trophy of his career, he was sad and crying in the locker room.
Later in an interview, Kobe admitted that he was crying because of his parents. When he won the first championship trophy, he took a sweet photo with his parents, and it felt like he was surrounded by happiness. Now there are two people who love him next to him, and it is inevitable that he will feel sad.
This is entirely due to his own fault. Sometimes Kobe speaks without his brain. After marrying Vanessa completely quarrel with his family, he accused his parents of not being able to recognize Vanessa in an interview because she is a Latino offspring. This actually exposed racial discrimination, which is really a trickster.
Under the impact of the power of love, Kobe hopes to use the influence of public opinion to win more support for himself, but the result is of course counterproductive and a black spot for his life.
With his emotional intelligence as low as Kobe, there is no one in the entire NBA, and he can't even tell the difference between far and near.
The relationship with his parents can be like this. After the Eagle County incident was exposed, it is no surprise that Kobe said, "Shakel did it too." O'Neal was so angry that he wanted to kill him, but he even blamed his teammates for not supporting him... How did his teammates support you? He stood up and said that he did it too?
Before this, whenever Kobe played at home, his parents would sit in the box at Stamps Center to watch his son perform and cheer for him, but after he got married, his parents never appeared in the stands. They even moved back to their hometown in Philadelphia, which was "not upset."
Kobe didn't apologize, so he simply did it all the time. He first moved to Orange County where Vanessa lives, and then bought a valuable mansion on Newport Beach. In order to cater to Vanessa, he also bought a villa for his mother-in-law not far from his home. This shows that Kobe's love for Vanessa is sincere.
Now Kobe's relationship with his parents is not that stale. There are more than three months before the wedding. Guo Xu feels that this kid can be saved. After all, he is a teammate and will be a long-term coach. It is too much for him to turn a blind eye to the future.
Guo Xu has always adhered to his principles of being a human being. People can be ruthless and unrighteous. They must never be grateful and not repay their grudges, nor can they repay their grudges with grudges.
How strong he can improve his strength and when he will have a cycle depends mainly on what he will be like with Kobe one-on-one. The time they will be together will inevitably be together next.
Guo Xu invited Kobe and Vanessa to have lunch together and told them a story. As long as "Komingsi" goes home on a hunger strike, he doesn't even drink water, and "Vanessa" stands outside the villa and stays with him, and does not eat or drink. If you wait for a night, it will rain heavily, that...of course it is impossible.
Guo Xu gave them the idea to do "pre-marital property notarization". Wasn't Kobe's parents afraid that Vanessa came to make money? Prove it to them that the two got married because of love, not because of money.
Vanessa said without thinking: "I promise, as long as he can prevent him from falling out with his family, I will do whatever I want."
Kobe was possessed when he heard this. His two nostrils were like two small bellows pulling inside, constantly expanding, shrinking, expanding, shrinking, and shrinking, and having a very rhythmic sense. "I don't agree. You know your position in my heart, if I do this, it will be an insult to you. I can't control what others say, I can control my own life."
Don't be so confident, okay? You are still in charge of life. You can't even control your hands on the court. He doesn't obey your orders and often throws the ball out against double-teams. Guo Xu complained in his heart.
Seeing the two of them being excited, you said one by one, and they were willing to give their efforts to each other, Guo Xu was sprinkled with another handful of dog food.
He couldn't help but interrupt: "Don't think too complicated. You can make a fake pre-marriage property notarization. Anyway, it's just for your parents to show it. As long as they temporarily recognize Vanessa, it's enough. Even if they find that the notarization is fake in the future, and you're done with your marriage, would they still hold a press conference to expose this matter?"
"Ah? That's OK?" Kobe felt that he could not keep up with Guo Xu's thinking at all.
It is not a last resort, Americans will not be fair before marriage when they get married. There is a saying in the United States that "I would rather offend the FBI than let the IRS come and find fault." The tax bureau of the American family cannot even afford to offend the president. The tax revenue is very strict and high, and the future inheritance of property is notarized. If the two cannot trust each other, it would be fine if they don't get married.
Guo Xu could see that the relationship between Kobe and his wife was real, and it was worth his help.
"Of course, I don't think they will confirm the authenticity of justice. After marriage, Vanessa has a lot of time to prove that she is a good wife and mother. After a long time, she will naturally be recognized by them."
Kobe sighed: "You don't know my parents at all, it's not that simple."
Guo Xu smiled: "I don't know your parents, but I understand the media. You are a star. There are many people staring at every move. For your image, they can only compromise."
"Really?" Kobe was still unsure.
Guo Xu swallowed a sip of steak, took a sip of water, and said slowly: "There is a Chinese saying that family scandals should not be made public. If you have any words to communicate more at home, there is nothing that cannot be solved. Don't just face complaining, the media is afraid that the world will not be in chaos. Think carefully, if you have a quarrel with your parents for marriage, they are unwilling to attend the wedding, and they may even not interact in the future. If this matter is exposed, what will fans think of you? "
Guo Xu put the serious consequences directly in front of them, and both of them were silent. Although Kobe was simple-minded, he still cared about his image, and he did not want others to look down on his wife.
After the discussion, the two of them were about to use Guo Xu's suggestion. It was not a solution to always drag it down. Kobe's helping Vanessa's family pay off the loan will be delayed for a period of time.
The meal was very pleasant, and the problem that had bothered the two for several months was that Guo Xu let them see a turnaround. After the meal, Kobe rushed to pay the bill, saying that when his relationship with his parents eased, he would thank Guo Xu very much.
Guo Xu asked Kobe's ICQ number and suggested: "You'd better go back this afternoon and try this method as soon as possible to find out their voices, be bold, don't worry about failure, and don't worry. We will contact online tonight. If this method doesn't work, I'll help you think of something else. There's more time, and there will always be a way that everyone can accept."
Kobe sighed: "I didn't know before that you were such a righteous person. I'm very curious, why did you help me like this? This is not good for you, right?"
Of course there are benefits. Guo Xu needs Kobe to be a sparring player in the time loop to improve his football skills, but he will not tell the truth to Kobe, it is too troublesome to explain.
Guo Xu made up a reason casually. "You may not believe it if you say it, and I will not help you with my back pain."
Chapter completed!