Chapter 359: Intense duel, thought-provoking
"We have said before that the reason why we do not give the right to children is that young people do not have enough vision and only choose their wives based on their appearance, which will not help the prosperity of their family in the future." Wei Zheng stood up and said.
"No! Lord Wei is too underestimating the younger generation. I admit that everyone must be the best in appearance when choosing a spouse, but is there anything wrong with this?
The new blind date rules are mutual. Men choose women, and women choose men. Everyone has the right to pursue beauty, but the higher the appearance, the greater the chance of success.
Appearance is just one aspect of choosing a partner. Why do you elders insist on this?
Little do you know that old saying is worse than being stuck?
If the child at home marrys a beautiful wife, the benefits are obvious. If you have a beautiful wife at home, you will naturally look down on the flowers and plants outside. In this way, there will be fewer conflicts in the family after marriage. Isn’t this a good thing?
As for the people who recommend marriage and virtuousness, virtue and talent are the best. In this era, there are all serious girls, and there are many people who coexist with beauty and wisdom. Could it be that no one wants these excellent girls?" Du Gou fiercely refuted Wei Zheng.
Wei Zheng shook his head and smiled, "Do you think such an excellent woman is a cabbage? You can choose from a hundred people. If everyone is so outstanding, I am willing to marry such a wife for his son."
In the audience, Wei Zheng's family was also there. Mrs. Wei turned to her young son and joked: "Did you see it? Your father is considering marrying you now!"
The audience below were also amused by Wei Zheng's words.
Du Gou did not allow him at all: "Please pay attention to your words. My children of the Tang Dynasty are all excellent. What you mean by saying is talented and beautiful?
Does it just refer to the difference between skills such as chess, calligraphy and painting? Do you know how to use female heroes?
In this case, 99% of the girls in the country are out of the box. The daughters of poor families have worked hard since childhood. They may not be able to play music, chess, calligraphy and painting, or make-up, but they have learned to farm and weave cloth since childhood, and they are all experts in housekeeping.
They may have dark and rough skin, but they are all simple and kind. From the bottom, they seem to be good girls with the most beautiful heart even if they are not beautiful.
In the eyes of adults, they are girls with no talent and virtue. Shouldn’t they marry?"
Good! High Remarks!
Lord Wei is unreasonable!
There were constant shouts of support for Du Gou from the audience. Many girls were moved by Du Gou's words and burst into tears. They suddenly became Du Gou's loyal fans, and many brave people even shouted that they wanted to marry Du Gou.
Du Gou was also bold and waved to the girls below, explaining awkwardly: "I already have a beloved person, and I can only let you down. The master has taught that men can be passionate but not promiscuous. They cannot marry each other when they meet each other. Otherwise, the master Bai Fan is known as the love saint of the Tang Dynasty. I am afraid that he can marry all the girls in the world alone."
Hahahaha, the audience burst into laughter in an instant.
Bai Fan's face turned dark. This guy dared to joke with him? Should he find time to practice with him alone?
Wei Zheng's face was already dark, but now he turned from black to red, and then purple, and snorted coldly: "I heard that Du Gou, a sharp mouth, could tell a living person to die. Today, he was well-known.
One sentence pushed me to the opposite of my daughter in the world. I was so heartbroken that I would never dare to go out in the future. Today, I am not punished by politics. I am the second-rank rank of the imperial court and I am always worried about national affairs. Any daughter of the Tang Dynasty can treat it as her own. How can you slander it out of thin air?"
The audience cheered loudly and agreed with Wei Zheng. Wei Zheng was known to everyone as the most honest and honest celebrity in the world, but the people still liked it.
Du Gou also hurriedly apologized, and it was indeed over.
An experienced official stood up and continued, "I have been talking for a long time and I am just saying that I want to give the right to choose a spouse to young people, but I can't get over this unstable argument. It's better to leave it to my parents. After all, it's not uncommon for a thousand-year argument that couples are in a respectful way, and they are all wives chosen by their parents."
Li Chengdao stood up and said, "There are differences in this saying. There are too many good stories about choosing a wife in ancient times. The stories of Emperor Wu of Han and Empress Wei, the stories of Sima Xiangru and Zhuo Wenjun, and the stories of Sun Quan and Zhou Yu of the Three Kingdoms and the marriage of Erqiao from Jiangdong. Everyone knows these stories, but no one wants to follow the examples.
On the other hand, the pair of tragedies of his parents were heartbreaking. Cai Wenji, a talented woman from the Eastern Han Dynasty, was married to the Hedong Wei family by her father. Her husband died a year later. Cai Wenji was abducted to the Huns by no means relying on her. When she recalled the miserable life of her old age, she made a touching eighteen shots of the sacred bells. This is a clear proof.
In fact, when Cai Wenji was young, she liked Emperor Wu of Wei Cao Cao. This can be seen when she was rescued by Cao Cao and married him. If she had married Cao Cao back then, wouldn’t she have lost a tragedy and a good story?”
Li Chengdao quoted a lot, and everyone in the audience nodded repeatedly. Many women remembered Cai Wenji's story and cried sympathy.
"This matter is indeed true, but it is just an exception and not worthy of making a profit." The man insisted.
you……
Li Chengdao couldn't help but get angry and was pulled by everyone around him.
Seeing this, Changsun Chong stood up and mocked, "I didn't expect that all the mature and stern adults would make trouble. What's the point of this debate?"
When Du Gou saw both sides, he stood up and said, "All wise men are experienced people. I believe everyone's public intentions. You are afraid that your children will be impulsive and you will be entrusted by someone who is not careful when choosing a spouse. This is understandable, but what I want to say is, are you foolproof in your choices? You are too underestimating your children. Young people have their own criteria for judging. The master once said that the right one is the best. I will give this to everyone present."
After Du Gou finished speaking, the audience burst into applause. This is the voice of young people. Both men and women want to choose by themselves, and no one wants to be influenced by others, even their dearest parents.
Changsun Chong continued: "Marriage depends on God's will, and no one can guarantee that there will be no mistakes.
Furthermore, have you considered your children’s feelings? Do they like fat, thin, tall, short, talkative or quiet? Have you ever asked?
Don’t say anything about the matchmaker. Most of the folk media are greedy for money. In order to make money, they can praise both parties to heaven, but what if the marriage of children is not what they want?
Listen to your parents, you will be silent all your life, and live in unhappiness? Or is it a mess? It ruined two families? Is it really appropriate for you to put such a heavy burden on your children?"
OK, Changsun Chong is so cruel that he knocked that ancient ritual into the abyss in one sentence.
Many parents have fallen into deep thoughts and have to think carefully. They have been doing things for many years, but have never heard of any situation. There are too many discords in their families, but no one has ever thought about the reason. Today, they are awakened, and not everyone is doing the right thing.
Chapter completed!