Comrade Chen Dahong was obviously very interested in the question raised by Gu Yun, otherwise he would not have asked a little excitedly.

This was expected by Gu Laogou. After all, Chen Dahong and his daughter have always had a bad relationship. He must have analyzed and reflected on the reasons for this situation on weekdays. So when he mentioned this matter seriously, Chen Dahong could not have been interested in listening.

To put it bluntly, if Chen Dahong wants to know his daughter’s views on his father over the past few decades, it is impossible for him to ask him by himself, because Chen Feier will definitely not say it. The only way is to understand it through Gu Yun.

There is no doubt about this. After all, Gu Laogou is currently the closest person to Chen Feier in the world - how close is it? It is not only zero distance, but also negative distance at one time, with a total duration of at least 5 hours.

Not to show off, even Mr. Gu admires himself in this regard.

Of course, he also welcomed Chen Dahong to ask, because in this way, he could not only open up the topic to protect himself, but also show his value. Perhaps Chen Dahong could take good care of him as a young comrade in the future.

But if you ask, you must have a questioning attitude.

Chen Dahong clearly wanted to ask, but when he came up, he just said, "You know nothing." Gu Laogou was not too happy. After all, it was not that the prospective father-in-law could do whatever he wanted. Compared with Zhongyuan, the prospective father-in-law gave him money and invited him to dinner, which was full of the care of the previous generation for the next generation. Even if he had a scandal, he just asked him home to explain... Gu Laogou felt that Chen Dahong should follow him.

So he started drinking tea and was silent.

Didn’t you say I don’t understand, then I won’t speak.

Mr. Gu is good at breaking ribs, but he prefers breaking people's mental weaknesses than physical ribs. Now he has touched Chen Dahong's weaknesses, so he is not in a hurry.

By the way, Chen Dahong was holding a teacup but didn't have the heart to drink tea. Now he really wanted to hear what Gu Yun had, or what "insider information" there were.

Since retirement, Chen Dahong has been trying to bridge the relationship with her daughter, repay the feelings she owed her for years, and by the way... she also gambles on the rights of her future grandchildren.

What else can you do when you are old? Isn’t it just to be reunited and the whole family is neat?

But after waiting for a long time, he found that the boy was not talking yet, and he was a little anxious at that time.

So he couldn't help but say, "You're talking, are you mute?"

Old Dog Gu raised his head, still with respect, but asked back, "Ah, what did I say?"

Chen Dahong glared, "Didn't you say you know why Feifei has a bad relationship with me? Did Feifei tell you something? Come and listen to me."

"Oh, didn't you say I don't understand the situation at your home? I think it makes sense, so I'd better stop talking nonsense."

"I'll tell you if you say it, just stop talking about the useless ones. Tell me quickly!"

Gu Laogou felt that Chen Dahong could listen to him seriously and without interruption, so he smiled faintly.

He said, "Then I'll say, uncle, please tell me if this is the case. First of all, have you ever thought about why Sister Fei'er is so in excellent condition and has so many men chasing her, but she didn't really fall in love until she was thirty years old? Isn't this not normal for a normal person?"

Chen Dahong frowned, pondered for a while, and then said, "You continue talking, I'll listen."

The tone has improved a lot now.

"The only explanation is that she doesn't believe in men." Gu Laogou sighed and said, "The impact of the original family on a person is huge. Because with your example, in her subconscious, she always thinks that men are unreliable.

All men are either unpromising, she doesn't like it, or she has a promising future, but she thinks that such men will sooner or later put their wives and daughters aside in order to pursue their ideals.

What I said is not necessarily to leave or run away from home, but even if I live together, I am still in harmony with my appearance. She vaguely revealed to me that the feelings she wants are not like this."

Chen Dahong nodded slightly while listening. Then, he took a deep breath and slowly exhaled.

He murmured to himself, "I have responsibility, I have responsibility..."

The old dog thought to himself, your responsibility is too great, listen to me slowly make up for you...

"Because of you, Chen Feier, is very insecure. It is no exaggeration to tell you that I think she may have a certain degree of depression."

Chen Dahong suddenly widened his eyes and almost stood up from his seat, "Depression? How do you know?"

Gu Laogou nodded with certainty and said, "Others don't know, why don't I know? I'll give you a few examples and you will know, but don't worry if you hear it."

Chen Dahong waved his hand and said impatiently, "Hurry up and say, I can hold it back."

Gu Laogou then sighed and said with great distress, "Sometimes, she is lying down well, but she will scream for some reason. Sometimes, she will call me brother for no reason, or even father. You know, I am younger than her."

Well, this... is not strictly considered a lie, it is just a question of how to understand it.

In order to successfully overcome the tribulation, Gu Laogou had to apologize to Chen Fei'er in his heart. He didn't think about this happening... But it would be difficult to deal with this old comrade without this.

In order to atone for his sins, Gu Laogou decided to continue to contribute to the reconciliation between the father and daughter.

Chen Dahong took a breath of cold air and his face became heavy.

It seems that the problem is more serious than I think.

Gu Laogou continued, "This shows that she subconsciously desires someone to protect her and take care of her. If this emotion is accumulated for a long time, she will naturally become depressed and may explode at any time.

To put it bluntly, in the entertainment industry, everyone knows that she is very independent and a strong woman. But how many people know that she was forced out?"

Chen Dahong sighed.

It’s not easy for a daughter over the years.

Chen Dahong felt that what Gu Yun said made sense. He was responsible for the reason why Chen Feier became like this.

Although I have countless reasons to defend myself, for my daughter, my only daughter, it is indeed ruthless that I cannot accompany her to grow up.

Men, you must recognize what you should recognize!

After being silent for a long time, Chen Dahong finally said, "How much has Feifei told you about me?"

Gu Laogou thought for a while and said, "Actually not many. I only know that you are a soldier. You have been separated from her since childhood and have very few opportunities to meet. Later, you have become strangers because of some things. Sister Fei'er is unwilling to say more, and she doesn't seem to want to mention you."

While listening, Chen Dahong stared at the teacup in his hand in a daze, Ning Jiu was speechless.

Mr. Gu felt that the time was up and it was time to summarize the statement.

So, he said with a pertinent view, "I understand the significance of your insistence on your duties, and I am proud to know a soldier like you. But at the same time, I also hope that you can stand on Sister Fei'er's standpoint and look at the problem."

"What about?" Chen Dahong asked immediately, his face full of desire for knowledge.

"For example, you should respect her choice." Gu Laogou said sincerely, "It took her thirty years to digest the shadows and improve herself. Now she finally opened the door in her heart and accepted me. I know I am still young and not good enough to be worthy of Sister Fei'er. But I will work hard and strive to become the kind of man she wants. So I beg you to give me a chance."

Chen Dahong looked at Gu Yun's eyes and asked himself that he had been in the leadership position for decades, and no one could escape his eyes, especially those who told lies.

But he found that the little comrade in front of him had no trace of lies from his expression to his eyes.

This is natural, because this time, it is not how superb Gu Laogou's acting skills are, but that he really wants to give Chen Feier a relationship she wants - although Chen Feier himself knows and believes that this relationship may not go as far as it can go, but Gu Laogou at least needs to make sure that every second she is with her is the feeling she wants.

Chen Dahong didn't say anything, but what he was thinking was a different matter.

This kid is clearly lying.

He's not good enough?

He was just too good, so good that he was a little fake, and so conspicuous that he couldn't help but chase him here.

At a young age, he had just started his studies in college and had at least several billion assets from scratch. The key is that he is still good at it. The dean said that he is still a sensible figure in school.

Such a man, who is at this age, has many women to care about? They are all experienced people, who doesn’t know who?

The key is that he is only eighteen years old, and his daughter is already thirty.

Chen Dahong has already decided on this matter. Not to mention whether this kid has the same nature to marry his daughter in the future, even if he can get married, he has to wait four years later. The kid is twenty-two years old and reaches the legal age for marriage.

And at that time, my daughter was already thirty-four years old. What is this? This is an elderly mother!

It would be fine to hold my grandson a few years later. What if someone is not suitable for giving birth?

Chen Dahong has many similar worries. It can be said that he felt from the bottom of his heart that these two people could not be together.

He actually had two purposes for this time. One was to see who this kid was, and the other was to get angry if he seized the opportunity, so that he would give up.

It's so unreliable. Judging from his 60 years of life experience, this relationship is really unreliable.

But after talking about this round, he felt that others' words were irrefutable.

Originally, my daughter had a shadow on her, but now she finally made up a little bit and forced herself to interfere with her relationship. Can she forgive herself?

Having said that, this kid does seem to be different from his peers. He doesn't feel the childishness of an eighteen-year-old child when he talks to him. On the contrary, every word he says exudes a sense of maturity and stability, which is easy to convince people.

The logic is smooth, clear, reasonable and well-founded, and there is no panic at all. Chen Dahong couldn't even believe it. Is this really something that an 18-year-old kid could say?

But he soon woke up.

Perhaps it is precisely because of this that my daughter likes him and feels confident about being with him?

There is a fact that cannot be ignored, that is, if this kid can really be wholeheartedly devoted, then his thirty-year-old daughter would have been fuckingly picked up.

So what should I do?

...

When Chen Dahong drank the tea in his hand, the sweet and distant tea fragrance made him feel clear.

He changed his mind.

The great mentor once said that struggle should be based on methods and methods.

On the one hand, I can't judge what this kid is thinking, and I can't rule out that he really has no other intentions and just wants to be with his daughter, so I can't make unjust, false and wrong cases - after all, if he really can't be wholeheartedly devoted, then Feifei will really find it.

On the other hand, even if I want to give my daughter an opinion, it is not the time. At least, I have to make up my mind and regain the trust she trusts her father again?

Thinking of this, his eyes looked at Gu Yun differently.

Things are constantly developing, and contradictions are not constant. As long as it is not a conflict between us, we should unite all forces that can be united and used for my own use.

Thinking of this, he thought for a while, and then said, "You kid is very good at speaking, and I also appreciate your courage to admit and take on it. But the old saying goes, "The road is a long way to know the power, and this will be seen in people's hearts over time, right? What is my ultimate attitude for you two, not what you say, but mainly in what you do in the future. I am her father after all, do you understand this?"

The old comrade strategically reminded Gu Yun first, that is, if you want to be with Chen Fei'er, it is also very important to deal with his girlfriend's father first.
To be continued...