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501 The world of adults is too complicated.~)(3/3)

"You are such a good teacher, whoever doesn't learn from you will be fools."

After looking at the little girl who was jumping up and down not far away, Ning Wei smiled.

"I'm fooling her! That's all."

"Um?!"

Li Wenyin was stunned, frowned, and couldn't help asking.

"But elders need to set an example and cannot speak without keeping their count, otherwise..."

"Hi! You're thinking wrong!"

Ning Wei smiled and shook her head.

"Who said I don't keep my word anymore, I'll keep my word!"

"Um?"

Li Wenyin was suddenly stunned.

Then why...

"It's very simple! Because Linlin will definitely make mistakes!!"

I heard Ning Wei say confidently.

"If I make a mistake, I will send it to her so that I will not break my trust and can also teach her some principles of being a human being, such as...If I make a mistake, I have to accept punishment, such as... whatever I say is what I say! One word is all!!"

???

Li Wenyin didn't know how to vomit her old joke.

I'll make it a punishment?

......

"Why are she so sure she made a mistake?!"

Li Wenyin became curious.

“Isn’t this simple yet?!”

Ning Wei glanced at Li Wenyin strangely.

"Even if she doesn't make mistakes, I have ways to make her make mistakes."

Ning Wei is very familiar with cheating on children.

It is inevitable for children to make mistakes, and sometimes they only need adults to guide them...

Ning Wei actually knows children's education very well.

It is impossible for children not to make mistakes.

Strictly demanding children and making them not make any mistakes is a way of education that suppresses nature.

Indulging children can easily lead to disasters.

Therefore, the education method in Jiang Linlin's family is to firmly adhere to the bottom line and strictly eliminate any big mistakes in big things.

But there is actually no need to force the child deliberately.

Sometimes, parents' repeated instructions are better to let their children take detours in person.

After making a small mistake, the child experiences it and makes an agreement with the child and tries to let the child bear the price of making the mistake by himself. Even if the child cannot bear the price, he should try his best to let her experience what is right and what is wrong, and what will happen after making the mistake.

Instead of just beating and scolding.

For example, some politeness, details and other issues.

Children are ignorant.

Making mistakes is not scary, what is scary is ignorance.

If you haven’t committed it now, you may still commit it in the future, and it is very likely to cause a greater cost.

Therefore, Ning Wei feels that when educating, instead of avoiding all mistakes, it is better to let children make mistakes in a controllable situation. This way of educating may be more profound.

"puff!"

Li Wenyin whispered and called him an expert.

"Do you think of fishing law enforcement? It's so scary, I'm going to call the police!"

The adult world is too complex and too terrifying.

"Good guy, I learned it!!"

Li Wenyin seemed to have opened the door to a new world.

After thinking about it, there seems to be no problem with this method.

Instead of rigidly demanding children, make mistakes become more uncontrollable.

It is better to guide within a controllable range.

"Poor Linlin."

Pitiful.

Li Wenyin was suddenly stunned.

Why do I say pitiful?

......

"Then what mistake are you going to guide her to make?"

Xu Xinlei also became curious.

After all, let alone children, the two have not even had the exercise to create children.

However, there will definitely be everything you should have in the future, and it is also wonderful to learn the parenting scripture in advance.

"For example, when eating, use chopsticks to pick vegetables, such as if one day I was just having fun and not doing homework..."

Ning Wei counted all kinds of minor problems like a devil.

"Anyway, if I turn back and give her a bunch of toys, she will definitely not be able to help it. She can take the opportunity to cultivate the child's self-control at that time."
Chapter completed!
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