Chapter 2007: My mother, is it a failure?
She said this to herself, and Li Yan was not easy to respond, so she could only smile awkwardly.
Mu Chi Yao and Yan Anxi... are indeed inappropriate.
Yan Anxi continued, "He is the noble eldest master of the Mu family, who is extremely outstanding in a million. What about me? Compared with the Mu family, it is not worth mentioning at all."
"...Well, the four words "family" of "family" will not be outdated in any place, in any era, in any family, or in any love."
Li Yan's thoughts are still very traditional.
"Yes." Yan Anxi said, "If my mother was still alive, then with her ideas and ideas, she would definitely object very much to my marriage with Mu Chi Yao. Because she felt that I would not be happy if I marry into such a wealthy family."
"But... you are lucky, An Xi. You and Mu Chi Yao are living happily now, and your parents will be happy in the spirit of heaven, and they will be happy for you."
"Yes, I'm very happy now. But, after thinking about it, if my mother stopped me at that time and I was successfully stopped by her, then I wouldn't be as happy as Mu Chi Yao. I would miss my life's happiness, and I would regret it for the rest of my life."
Li Yan was stunned.
Yan Anxi smiled and said, "But I didn't have a mother at that time, and she wouldn't come to stop me. So I married Mu Chi Yao like this, and we are very happy now."
After a while, Li Yan spoke out, "Girl Anxi... I, I understand today. Why are you here to find me?"
After going around such a big circle, I talked about my own life experience and used my own marriage as an example.
Yan Anxi, from beginning to end, actually expressed a point of view
Happiness is determined by oneself, and parents and family members cannot interfere too much. Even if happiness is wrong and inappropriate to the family, the result should be borne by oneself and regret it.
Family members cannot make any decisions on their behalf.
If Yan Anxi's parents were still alive, they would definitely not agree to Yan Anxi marry Mu Chi Yao.
A famous family like the Mu family, I don’t know how much suffering I will suffer when I marry into it.
The family’s family is not bad either. I don’t know how happy I will be when I find someone who is as good as Mo Qianfeng.
And the facts have proved that Yan Anxi married Mu Chi Yao, and now he is so happy that all the women in Mucheng are envious.
Yan Anxi laughed: "Auntie, it's good that you can understand what I mean. I won't say so much in vain, but I've built such a big circle."
"Yes, I understand what you want to say. You think I should let go and stop interfering in Chuchu's life."
"Yes, yes, my aunt is so smart!"
"What you want to express is that if Sun Xia Chuchu made the wrong choice, she will bear the wrong consequences herself. Even if it is wrong, there are some things, sometimes, she is willing to make mistakes. At least, it is better than regret."
"Yes, yes." Yan Anxi continued to nod, "Auntie, you summed up so well."
"You, girl Anxi, I understand your hard work."
"Actually, I envy Chuchu." Yan Anxi put down his chopsticks and held Li Yan's hand. "She has a father, a mother, and now she has a lovely daughter Xia Tian. Li Yanjin has always loved her so unconditionally. She is really happy."
"You used to be a little pitiful, but it's all the things in the past, and now you're getting better."
"Yeah, aunt, so, what I envy Chuchu the most is that she has parents. But I don't want her to have parents because of your excessive control and self-righteous thoughts that I will be good for her, which makes me no longer envious.
"Do you think my maternal love for Chuchu has bound her and turned into her trouble, right?"
Yan Anxi was very clever and did not answer directly, but said, "Auntie, I don't want you to interfere in her life and be so stern. This will cause a crack in your relationship with her mother and daughter."
"Hey, An Xi, you are a mother now. You should understand the kindness that mothers are fucked by their daughter."
"I understand, I can understand." Yan Anxi replied, "After having a child, I will plan for him wholeheartedly. However, the times have changed and the concept has changed. So aunt, my thoughts and you are different."
"Yeah?"
"If our family Yiyan grows up in the future, I will not interfere in his major life events."
Yan Anxi has always been very confident that she will be a very good mother.
A romantic who is very enlightened, gives freedom and never interferes too much.
Li Yan shook her head: "No, An Xi, if Mu Yiyan and Mu Nianan grow up, you will understand that it is not easy to be a mother."
"I always feel that a person's life will have his own life track. We can manage and assist, but we should not interfere."
"You think I'm wrong, too." Li Yan said, "You came here just to persuade me to admit my mistakes with Chuchu and solve the things that happened back then, right?"
"Aunt, I am a person who is right and wrong. If it is Chuchu who is wrong now, and it is a big mistake, then I will definitely criticize her seriously and let her apologize for you."
"Hey..." Li Yan sighed, "When you said that, I was wondering if my mother had done a very failed job."
This suddenly raised the problem to such a level, and Yan Anxi almost couldn't stand it.
But her eyes turned and she soon thought of a way to deal with it.
"Auntie." She replied, "Auntie is not perfect. Everyone makes mistakes. The key is to knowing the mistakes and being able to correct them. In the matters between Li Yanjin and Chuchu, you are indeed wrong. But you are doing very well in other things."
"Other things?"
What Li Yan is now said by Yan Anxi, and her heart is a mess, but she actually needs a sense of self-identity value.
Now, Yan Anxi is giving her this feeling.
"Yes, just take the divorce from Chuchu's father, I think you are right. Moreover, you have done many things that women never dare to do in their entire lives." Yan Anxi said, "You divorced bravely and fought for Chuchu's custody and kept her away from the unhappiness of the family."
Li Yan was stunned: "Is that true?"
Chapter completed!