Chapter 1471 Love, live, and get hurt(1/2)
If Fang Min is a love-minded person, he would be sure to identify Meng Jun even if he beat him to death, which would be really troublesome.
Chen Feng was her cousin, and he had a relationship with her mother, so it was impossible to ignore him.
"Xiao Min, tell me the truth, do you still want to contact him and try to fall in love with him?"
Chen Feng asked directly.
Fang Min was silent, obviously not denying it or intending to lie.
Chen Feng couldn't help but sigh in his heart. At the age of eighteen or nineteen, he is both love-minded and stubborn. It's really difficult to deal with.
"Don't you still think that he is a good person? If he falls in love with you, he will be sincere to you, and then get engaged or even get married after graduation, right?"
Chen Feng asked deliberately with a sarcastic tone.
Fang Min was really provoked and immediately retorted: "I didn't think that far ahead, and I don't really care about whether I can marry him in the future, but I really like him and want to fall in love with him. Is there anything wrong with that?
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Yes! What a love brain!
If it were anyone else, or even other relatives, Chen Feng wouldn't bother to care anymore.
As the saying goes: let go of the need to help others and respect the fate of others.
She wants to be scumbag by a man, she wants to be dumped by a man, and experience the pain of being emotionally tortured, what else can others do?
The legs have grown on her body, and she has become an adult. Not even her parents can control her, let alone his cousin, who is not usually close to her.
But there is no way. He doesn't have many relatives, especially those who are close to him. It just so happens that Fang Min's mother, Chen Xiaoxia, is one of the few relatives he cares about, his aunt.
Aunt Chen Xiaoxia had told him quite solemnly before, asking him to take care of his cousin Fang Min as much as possible.
And I just happened to be hit by him today, so I really can’t ignore it.
Otherwise, it will not be justified in terms of human feelings, and it will not be justified in terms of conscience.
"If he is a scumbag, do you want to fall in love with him?"
Chen Feng asked angrily.
"He is not a scumbag!" Fang Min also defended Meng Jun angrily, "He has always been very good. In addition to his good academic performance, he also plays basketball and guitar very well. In addition, he is also good at taekwondo.
He has learned the black belt level and is very powerful. I have been with him as a high school classmate for two years and he has never been in a relationship. How could he be a scumbag?"
"What about after he went to college? It's been almost a year. Hasn't he been in love yet?"
Meng Jun is a bit handsome, otherwise Fang Min wouldn't like him. Although Chen Feng doesn't know him well, judging from his judgment today, he is not an honest character, let alone someone who doesn't eat meat.
That kind of little boy.
In high school, he may have been too nervous to fall in love because of his academic studies, but after reaching college, many boys like him immediately let themselves go.
Chen Feng was like this at the beginning. When he was in high school, he ignored what was going on outside the window and studied hard all the time. He had no idea of falling in love at all. It was not until he was admitted to college that he seemed to have a sudden enlightenment overnight.
He fell in love with Liu Ying and pursued her.
Women understand women, and men understand men.
The school year is almost over, and Chen Feng doesn't believe that Meng Jun is still single. After all, with his conditions, it is not difficult to find a girlfriend in school.
But Fang Min denied it: "No, he has never been in love."
"Did he tell you that?"
"Um."
"You believed it when he said it?"
"Of course, he doesn't have to lie to me."
"Okay, just pretend that he has never been in love, but he is not suitable for you. I told you the reason from the beginning. He doesn't like you at all. Even if he agrees to be with you, he just wants to play with you.
Just playing with no intention of lasting long."
Fang Min immediately said: "I don't care about how long it lasts, I only care about what I once had."
When Chen Feng heard this, his blood pressure couldn't help but rise a little. If this was his daughter, he would definitely break her legs.
You, a girl, actually say that you only care about what you once had. Isn't this mean?
Besides, Meng Jun is not really outstanding. At most, he has good academic performance and was admitted to a decent university. As for being good at basketball, guitar, and karate... well, in
Among his peers, he is relatively outstanding, but he is obviously not among the top ones.
First of all, this guy's family background is relatively average. It seems that his mother works in an ordinary company, and his father is a civil servant. He is considered to be middle class at most, which is incomparable with Fang Min's family.
Secondly, in the future, when judging whether a man is good or not, family background factors will be excluded. More than 90% of the weight will be based on whether he or his family has money, and how much money he has.
Otherwise, even if you successfully pass the public examination and become a civil servant, there may not be many women willing to marry you.
After all, if you are a grassroots civil servant, you still cannot afford a house or a better car on your own. After you get married, if your wife has no job and has to raise children, your family will still be stretched thin.
Meng Jun's family situation may be slightly better and he can be slightly supplemented, but it is certainly not much.
So, overall, Meng Jun doesn't seem to be very good at least now, not to mention that this guy has problems with his character, and he has made it clear before that he doesn't want to fall in love with Fang Min and doesn't like her.
But my cousin has identified the other person, and she wants to fall in love with him, and she wants to send him to her door automatically. What can Chen Feng, who is his cousin, do?
For her own good, she must try to stop it.
After thinking about it, Chen Feng said: "It seems that no matter how much I try to persuade him, it's useless. If you want him to fall in love, I can't stop him, not even your parents can stop him. After all, the legs are on you. But I
Still, I have to say that Meng Jun is not worthy of your trust, nor is he qualified to fall in love with you."
Fang Min was silent for a while and then said: "I am not qualified. He never thought about falling in love with me before. It was only after I took the initiative to express my love to him that he slowly started to like me.
Today he even asked me to go out to East Lake. If he hadn't happened to meet you, he would definitely be willing to date me."
Chen Feng said angrily: "He is not willing to date you, but he is willing to open a room with you. Even if he agrees to date you, it is only for his own lower body, and he does not really like you."
Chen Feng's words were very straightforward and vulgar. Fang Min's face became a little hot when he was told this. She lowered her head slightly and retorted: "No, he...he is not as good as you said..."
"He is just so horny. Who is a boy of his age who is not horny? I have also been around his age and understand it very well. You are a girl. Don't think that now is the new era and you can do whatever you want. You will have your own future.
An honest man takes over.
You have to know that honest men are not stupid. Unless they are honest men who have no ability or money, they are willing to tolerate the rich emotional experiences of women in the past, because they have no choice. But as long as they are men with some ability and money, they will definitely
They are not willing to be tolerant. Since they have excellent conditions, they will have more people to choose from.
Do you understand what I mean? Only when a girl has self-esteem and self-love when she is young can she marry a good husband in the future. Otherwise, there is a high probability that she will not be able to marry well in the future. Even if she marries well, her married life may not be happy.
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Fang Min frowned and said, "You have old feudal thinking. You men can just mess around before marriage, but can't we women have a richer relationship history? Men and women should be equal."
Zhao Zixuan, who had been silent just now, also chimed in: "I agree with Xiao Min on this point. You men require us women to be chaste before marriage and be virgins when we get married, so you men should also be chaste before marriage.
There should be sex. Otherwise, it would be injustice and oppression to us women."
Chen Feng said angrily: "Then when you get married, can you not give up the bride price or the wedding room?"
Zhao Zixuan immediately retorted: "Are we talking about the same thing?"
"Why are these not the same thing? Men and women are equal. Since they are equal, why does the man have to pay a bride price and buy a wedding house when they get married?"
"Betrothal gifts and wedding rooms have been customs for thousands of years."
"It has been a tradition for women to remain chaste before marriage for thousands of years."
"This is the decadent thought of feudal ethics."
"The bride price is also a bad feudal custom."
Zhao Zixuan was suddenly speechless and could only glare at Chen Feng bitterly.
Seeing the two of them bickering, Fang Min found it interesting and couldn't help but feel better. After thinking about it, she said: "Brother, I know you care about me. But I have really grown up. I want to go to love and even do it well."
Be prepared to get hurt. Just like what was said in that drama: Love, live, and get hurt. In this way, we can continue to grow."
Of course Chen Feng has heard of this "sage saying", but he still couldn't help complaining: "You know that loving him will hurt you, but you still love him. Aren't you stupid? Then you say this: love and live.
Injury seems to make sense, but it is actually a beautiful bullshit.
Just like the old saying, "Only when you endure hardships can you become the best." Why do people have to endure hardships? And also endure hardships? Isn't this self-abasement and self-abuse? The better you are at enduring hardships, the more you will have in the future.
I'll give you the hard work. Just like those office workers, as long as you start working overtime, you will have endless overtime shifts in the future.
It’s right to love and live, but it’s debatable to get hurt. Why does it have to be hurt? You have to know that if you accidentally get hurt, you may die of serious injuries and die. Sometimes human life is actually
It is very fragile and may not be able to withstand a single injury and devastation. Therefore, when you know that you will be injured, the first thing you have to do is to prepare in advance to prevent yourself from being injured as much as possible.
If you can avoid getting hurt, of course you shouldn't get hurt. If you still get hurt knowing you will get hurt, you are like Shacha."
Fang Min didn't say anything, and Zhao Zixuan said: "What Chen Feng said is correct, I agree."
Zhao Zixuan followed and advised: "Xiao Min, don't think that loving someone is a very romantic thing, especially if you love someone who is not worthy of your love, when you think about it afterwards, you will find that you are a joke.
You think that is great, but at best you will only move yourself, the people you love will not be moved by you, and others will think you are a fool."
Fang Min still didn't speak, but her mood became depressed again.
Seeing this, Chen Feng said: "Well, in order to prevent you from getting hurt, I can find someone to help you do a background check on Meng Jun. If he is really a good young man like you said, with no bad habits and good character, there will be no
To be continued...