Chapter three hundred and fiftieth love thing
"Then should I ask my senior brother to talk to Chen Yifeng? It's not a big deal to be so stalemate!" After hearing Xie Xuan's words, Xie Zhao immediately understood what his sister meant. After thinking about it, he asked uncertainly. After all, this was Xie Xuan's private affairs. There was a tacit agreement between Xie Zhao and Xie Xuan, that was not to go back and interfere with the other party's relationship.
Xie Xuan shook her head and said calmly: "No need, Ji Mingxuan is too busy to do anything. You don't need to disturb him. Besides, Chen Yifeng's stubbornness is not something that Ji Mingxuan can let go of just talking to him. Zhaozhao, you don't have to worry about this matter, I can solve it myself. Besides, Chen Yifeng's feelings for me are not as sincere and unseekable as Ji Mingxuan's feelings for you. There are some rebellious and angry elements in Chen Yifeng's feelings for me!"
"sister!"
"Zhaozhao, my psychology scores have always been among the best. It's not easy to analyze and analyze Chen Yifeng. Don't worry. I will solve this problem as soon as possible. It's my negligence that makes my family worried. I will find an opportunity to explain it clearly to my family. Don't worry about these messy things, just prepare your wedding well!" Xie Xuan was very calm when she said these words. She always knew what she wanted.
Xie Zhao paused and nodded and said, "Since you have made a decision, I won't have much trouble. Sister, have you chosen a good professor? Is it a master's and doctoral program or?"
"If you have been studying for master's and doctoral studies for five years, otherwise it will take another year. My parents were not willing to study for graduate studies before. If you really have a graduate study for three years and a doctoral studies for three years, I will be twenty-eight years. I guess they will be crazy and I will definitely not agree. It would be better for me to study like this, so that they can save them from making trouble at that time!" Xie Xuan said with a wry smile when she heard this. She is the same age as Xie Zhao, and she is twenty-two years old this year, which is only two or three months older than Xie Zhao!
My parents think they are old enough to get married, so it is better to go to work and find a boyfriend, and have a child after two or three years of marriage. It would be great if they were just a smooth life. If they were studying for a doctorate in graduate school, it would take at least five or six years. By then, she would be twenty-seven or eight years old. If she hadn’t found a boyfriend and hadn’t gotten married at that time, she would become an older unmarried girl. What parents feared most was that she would do this!
Xie Zhao didn't think of this. After thinking about the scene of being urged by his elders to get married, he shivered and said with lingering fear: "What do you think? Are you really going to get married after graduation? Twenty-seven or eight years old is not too old, but the elders in the family are afraid that they won't think so. Whether it's the elders of the family, they are considered early marriage. Brother Binbin now has a girlfriend who can talk about marriage."
"Sister is only two or three months older than me. If you really wait for you to graduate, I'm afraid my uncle and uncle won't be willing. But, sister, what do you think?" Xie Zhao looked at Xie Xuan and asked seriously. It's not that easy to find a partner with suitable conditions in all aspects. It's not easy to match both outside and inside. For example, Chen Yifeng, putting aside his mother's family, Chen Yifeng should be the dreamer of many girls.
After all, he has a good family background, good looks, good knowledge and work, and is gentle and elegant. He is not the prince charming in the minds of most girls. But he doesn’t know whether it is the prince charming Xie Zhao. But because of his mother, Xie Xuan is not suitable for him. Even if he is not married to Xie Xuan now, the Xie family will not compromise because of the Chen family’s family background, but not all parents will understand and understand clearly like the elders of the Xie family.
Xie Xuan smiled and said, "Zhaozhao, what do you think if I said I don't want to get married too early or I don't want to get married so much?"
"Sister, you can only decide your own life. Others don't interfere much, but why don't you want to get married? Whether it's your uncle or your brother or sister-in-law, they all live a pretty good life. Why do you think so?" Xie Zhao looked at Xie Xuan in confusion and asked in confusion. Xie Xuan's family has been happy since childhood, her parents love her, and her brothers are spoiled, so how could she have the idea of not getting married?
She didn't want to get married at the beginning, but she was afraid of getting married. She was just too cautious about unfamiliar strangers. How did Xie Xuan's somewhat extreme idea come about? Even in her previous life, Xie Xuan was not too late to get married. It seemed that she got married when she was 24 or 25 years old. After graduating from college, she went back to the county town to be a teacher. Then she met her boyfriend at that time through an introduction. She got married after a year or two.
Later, when Xie Zhao returned to her hometown, she heard that Xie Xuan lived a very good life. After getting married, she was the only one at home. She gave birth to a boy and was taken by her parents-in-law. Her husband was obedient to her. Every year, when she had nothing to do during the winter and summer vacations, she went out to play with her husband. She lived so freely that day, but now she had the idea of not getting married. This was really because she was afraid that Xie Zhao would be scared.
Xie Xuan looked at Xie Zhao's surprised look and couldn't help but chuckled, "It's not that I don't want to get married, I just think it's boring to get married so early. Even if I get married, I'll be able to get married after I'm 30. By then, all aspects will be mature. Even if I get married, I will find a partner who is evenly matched. I've calculated that I graduated at the age of 27. Although the company we started together is good, I don't have the intention to do this. After graduation, I still want to do a professional and appropriate job."
"Before I was thirty, I had no plans to fall in love and get married. But my parents were not easy to pass. However, there must be roads before the car arrived at the mountain, and the boat was naturally straight to the bridge. I would like to wait until I graduated. Just like Brother Binbin's girlfriend, I don't want to do it. Zhaozhao, have you ever thought about what job to do after graduation? The Ji family attaches great importance to you. Will you regret it and don't want to let you work at that time!"
Xie Zhao shook his head and said, "It shouldn't be. I have talked to my professor before. Either stay in school as a teacher or go directly to the relevant departments to do some major-related work. However, the major I studied is actually just like what I said before. It is useless and is a scholar. Although I like it very much, I have to say that this major is not suitable for supporting my family. However, I have no problem with money. I will stay in school first, and then let me talk about the future!"
Xie Zhao's words made Xie Xuan silent. It is really difficult for girls to survive in this society. At a certain age, no matter whether they are friends around their relatives or some strangers, they will say things, as if it is such a sin or a very evil thing for girls to get married when they are old. But when they are really married, their parents-in-law, husband, children, and family members have work, and how much energy a girl has to have to balance these!
Xie Xuan doesn't want to let herself fall into this kind of life. She has no worries about Xie Zhao getting married so early. Not to mention her family, but Xie Zhao has always been smart and clear. Since she agreed to get married, she must have figured out the way she will go in the future. So although Xie Xuan doesn't agree with Xie Zhao getting married so early, she has never talked about any big principles in front of Xie Zhao, and will not try to change Xie Zhao's shoes.
Chapter completed!