"I admit that if a woman is independent now, it is much better than before liberation, but her thoughts will change in a short while." Hua Banzhi put away the smile on her face and pointed to her head, "This world is still harsh on women."

Zhuo Erya was stunned when she heard this. She remembered her experience and nodded with a smile, "Thank you, remind me, I won't talk nonsense outside." Her eyes trembled and blinked curiously, "Huahua, you won't be like this for the rest of your life! In fact, there are many lovers in our campus who have passed away, so you can find a good man to marry."

Cheng Yunling immediately said unhappy when she heard this, "Eya, you are too bad! Are we Huahua very bad? He actually asked Huahua to be a stepmother for others."

Hua Banzhi looked at her in shock and said, "You ask me to fill in the house for me."

"Hey! Don't be angry! I'm just telling the truth." Zhuoerya shrank his neck and muttered in a low voice, "Often the truth is not good."

"Then there is no need to say it! What you said..." Cheng Yunling looked at her dissatisfiedly, "It sounds so ugly. How can both women say such things?"

Hua Banzhi patted Cheng Yunling's hand and said, "Don't be angry, don't be angry."

"Huahua, aren't you angry?" Cheng Yunling said angrily with her cheeks.

"Although the facts Erya said are a bit unpleasant." Hua Banzhi said disrespectfully.

"Hey! It's still generous." Zhuoerya looked at Hua Banzhi seriously and said seriously, "You also said that this world is harsh on women. Life is too difficult for a woman to live, and it's impossible without a man!"

Hua Banzhi knew that Zhuo Erya had no malice, so she put the melon seeds in her hand on the kang table, wrapped her arms around her, and stood on the kang table, looking at her with a burning look, "Let's not talk about how I've been married now. Let's talk about why women get married?"

"For what?" Zhuo Erya blinked and looked at her in confusion, "I really haven't thought about it carefully. When it comes to age, men should get married, and women should get married. Just get married! Have children. This is how it has been done for generations."

"For happiness! Two people will be happier together." Cheng Yunling said immediately.

Hua Banzhi looked at her and shook her head and chuckled, "At one glance, Lingling is a little woman immersed in happiness." The topic changed, "People who are happy when they are single will be happy after marriage; people who are unhappy when they are single will not be happy after marriage. Most of the hopes of "improving their sense of happiness" through marriage will fail."

"This is because you are not happy yourself. How can you bring happiness to others?" Cheng Yunling nodded in agreement.

"You can't see or touch your happiness, you know the cold and warmth." Zhuo Erya shook her head and said, "It's not reliable."

"Then let me say that! There is an old saying: Marry a man and marry a man, dress and eat." The eyes of half-blue-like flowers are shining with unintelligent light. "I have a job now, can support myself, and have no worries about food and clothing. Why do I have to be wronged to marry myself? It is said that couples from the way, they are different from each other, and are guarding against each other. Home is a place where they feel comfortable; it is a place where they will continue to have the motivation to struggle after resting when they are tired; it is a place where they can talk about when they are wronged... If they are not as happy as if they are alone after marriage, why should they marry?"

"But aren't you alone?" Zhuo Erya said with a frown and looked at her, "Others are paired together. When you return home, you guard the empty house alone, and there is no one to talk. Even if the couple quarrels, it's better than not even one to quarrel." After a pause, he said, "People cannot just meet the most basic needs of food and clothing!"

Hua Banzhi raised her eyebrows slightly when she heard this and looked at Zhuo Erya with some surprise. In fact, she refuted it very correctly.

The reason why Hua Banzhi dares to say this is because of her rich spiritual world, even meditating and breathing. It is said that one day in the mountains has been around for thousands of years, and she has some ways to kill time.

Nowadays, people have low population turnover, and basically choose one person to live together and choose one city to live for a long time. The possibility of moving to a nest in this life is extremely low.

As for spare time, there is even less. People’s emotional projection, time and energy are consumed greatly in the family.

Marriage is a normal way for people to build stable social relations.

Even if the marriage is not good, it is better than having no social relationships. So nowadays, even those lives that seem to be noisy at home all day long, even attacking and hurting each other, are actually attractive than loneliness with nothing.

Although this mutual consumption pattern is sometimes not comfortable.

Young people can't understand it, so they will ask, "Why don't you divorce if the older generation is so noisy?" They don't understand, in this era, when the older generation really gets divorced, it's difficult to find someone to talk to.

The older generation is not stupider, nor the younger generation is not smarter.

Unlike later generations, there were Internet and a mobile phone that could quarrel and chat with people from all over the world.

Just a TV movie on the Internet is enough to make people waste time greatly.

In the past, lifestyles were single, without entertainment, and lacked direction and goals.

People rely heavily on family relationships, family and even people’s only feelings and life outlets.

Hua Banzhi's location is the heart of the motherland. Although there is lights out here, there is still electricity. However, at 7 or 8 o'clock in the evening, it is everywhere like a ghost town. It is very difficult to live alone.

Hua Banzhi said so "shamelessly" because she has the confidence, has a legitimate job, and does not have to worry about food and clothing.

If you live in the countryside, it would be difficult for a woman to carry water alone. If you want to find a labor force to marry, no one will blame you. Life is too difficult, and everything will be earned with both hands.

So Hua Banzhi will not impose her thoughts on Zhuo Erya. An old girl who can't get married will be ridiculed. Of course, others also want to convince her.

"You are right!" Hua Banzhi looked at her with a clear look and said, "I still have light!"

"Hey! You won't really treat him as your son!" Zhuo Erya lowered her head and whispered, "I have my own father here! He can't drag you like this! It's too unauthentic."
Chapter completed!